Posted: 01 January 2011 at 3:37pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by NivRenDeewani
Originally posted by Cutie-NivRenI know Shova Sid has bottled up his and Nivi relation and can't even tell to her even Divya has bottled up how much she doubt his and Nivi relation the main thing is instead of sharing problems about their relations among themselves they involve 3rd person like Sid his mother and Divya her mother. I am sure if the rope incident was happened Divya then Sid wouldn't have able to tackle her and needed his mother for the solution.
In NivRen case both are very honest to each other like Nivi has told everything to Viren and even Viren show his insecurities and Vulnerabilities about her very honestly without putting any facade (though hasn't completely shared his pain) and they share their problems among themselves and I love the way he took her to room after bulb incident and even after rope incident tell everyone indirectly to leave and doesn't involve 3rd person in their matter and it is true too they have to handle their personal problems themselves why 3rd person is needed between them unless things are getting out of hands.
Rachuu yes thats is the main problem between DivSid and they need to relise it. They never share directly and always seek help from 3rd person. where as Nivren never do and solve in amongst eachother and i also like this and thats how relationships should be. But i guess Nivren didnt have a 3rd person to go to and they only had eachother but nevertheless both are honest and free with eachother.
hope DivSid learn something from Nivren.
I know what are you saying but they do have Nivi can anytime go to her dadi with her problems as it is only her who wants to follow the marayada of sood bahu no one can force her now but she wants to handle her problems herself and doesn't involve her dadi whereas Viren can anytime discuss his problems to his tayiji (we know how affectionate they are with eachother) if he had went to her he would have got the solution of his problem too but he wants to handle his problem himself. Both of them can't go to their mothers Nivi because she doesn't have and Viren because his mother is of no use but they do have alternative relations Nivi in form of grandmother and Viren in form of his Tayiji (who understand him more than his own parents do).
That is the main reason I never want VD to be turned stalker as she is the only one in the entire Sood house who showers the affection on both of them and on whom they can rely the most.