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Posted: 11 January 2011 at 11:11pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

It would be weird if men had menopause, that would mean they have ovaries. But - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andropause

Men here do menstruate though - http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1286565&TPN=3  LOL



Oh they are in sync too! LOL

Andropause is another good reason why men might have a decrease in wanting to have sex, but men don't go through a full shut down of their reproductive system like women do.
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Posted: 11 January 2011 at 11:18pm | IP Logged
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Doesnt physical love die with age? Ive seen some old couples sleep on single beds, maybe they don't get horny as much? Star

Yeah, I've observed this too, but I think it also has to do with women going through menopause. I'm not 100% sure though.
 
I feel it will be very unfair that the woman has a menopause around 49+  and that man has no menopause..... that will simply prove that god is also a male chauvinist!LOLWink But I dont think menopause create sexual block n womens body/mind. Smile

Well, there is a decrease in hormones, so wanting to have sex could decrease. I think men might not want to be near their wives during that time because they get irritable. LOL 
 
men/women ....sexuality is mind thing... LOL
 
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Posted: 11 January 2011 at 11:21pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

It would be weird if men had menopause, that would mean they have ovaries. But - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andropause

Men here do menstruate though - http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1286565&TPN=3  LOL--I hate u RTH LOLLOLBut you should analyse what I said there....different point of view.Smile
 
In this page I posted that comments 
 
 
 
 

 


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BTW, can an imponent man be charged with rape?
There was a case where a politician was accused of raping a girl but he said that he was impotent as he had diabetes and so the charge was wrong .
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Posted: 12 January 2011 at 8:33am | IP Logged

@Tulip: I posted about andropause just to show that men also go through biological changes. Both male and female bodies go through changes at different stages of groW*H, it's just their body is different so the changes are different.

 

I don't think menopause or andropause are the reason for lower sexual activity in elderly. Sexual desire is not directly correlated to reproductive system. Infertile and impotent men and women have sexual desires.

 

The lack of sexual activity in elderly is due to a number of physical, social and psychological factors. Hormone production is lower so there are longer gaps between sexual peaks. Beyond a certain age sexual activity is more exhausting, so people tend to prefer other forms of intimacy like cuddling or just holding hands. Psychologically also being the tail end of life, people tend to have a bigger focus on getting to know people better emotionally. Socially many parts of the world frown down upon the elderly being sexually active or having sexual desire like younger people. Asian elderly tend to have sharper declines in sexual activity than other parts of the world, due to this social expectation.

 

@Believe – LOL Nice try, no matter what perspective you spin – you can't beat the absurdity of men having female menses.

 

@Sunny – I have not had a chance to view this clip since I'm at work. But yes even impotent men can be charged for rape. If the impotency is just infertile sperm then there should be no doubt its possible. If it is erectile dysfunction or other issues, one can use medications and devises, or just create a very uncomfortable situation. Rape can also be done with foreign objects.

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Posted: 12 January 2011 at 12:39pm | IP Logged
@ RTH: I did not say that andropause and menopause are the only reason why there is a decline in sexual activity/ arousal. I think it might be a factor though. 

I also agree with the other points you mentioned, especially the fact that society's expectations would definitely effect sexual activity, but it would not effect arousal. The person still might want to have sex, but they may or may not be acting on it. 

I also notice with many of the elderly people around me, they practice spirituality and are attached differently to their spouses. I remember a good family friend of my mother's said that she was not going to die and unite with her husband but with her Guru. 

So, as you said, there are many factors and changes going on that will effect sexual activity in the elderly. 
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Posted: 13 January 2011 at 12:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

@Believe ' LOL Nice try, no matter what perspective you spin ' you can't beat the absurdity of men having female menses.

 

My analyse may be wrong ....cos u may nt understand ...sometime me also dont undestand my thoughtsTongueWink....about that menses,woman's blood is visible there is no need to prove it and she knws that the period has come and that the depression and the negativity and everything arises.... she becomes very very dark, dismal, inside....but Man's release is not that visible, bt certain energy is released each month... for three, four days, man also becomes a victim of depression, negativity....thats why I told If keep a record for a few months u will be able to see that exactly after 28 days u again become negative for three, four days… out of the blue, for no reason at all...Men n women are equal yaarLOL
 
My nani told me kaise bi gira tho char pair pe girna...may be she proud of me LOL
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Posted: 13 January 2011 at 12:28am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by return_to_hades

@Believe ' LOL Nice try, no matter what perspective you spin ' you can't beat the absurdity of men having female menses.

 

My analyse may be wrong ....cos u may nt understand ...sometime me also dont undestand my thoughtsTongueWink....about that menses,woman's blood is visible there is no need to prove it and she knws that the period has come and that the depression and the negativity and everything arises.... she becomes very very dark, dismal, inside....but Man's release is not that visible, bt certain energy is released each month... for three, four days, man also becomes a victim of depression, negativity....thats why I told If keep a record for a few months u will be able to see that exactly after 28 days u again become negative for three, four days' out of the blue, for no reason at all...Men n women are equal yaarLOL
 
My nani told me kaise bi gira tho char pair pe girna...may be she proud of me LOL
believeji are you talking about men on this planet ? LOL

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