Physical Love and its necessity - Page 3

Originally posted by: tulipbaby53

True love develops beyond physical beauty. Of course, initial attraction may be influenced by physical love, but the deep, emotional love only comes as one begins to accept the person regardless of their physical appearance. That is how a wife can accept her husband even after he becomes brain damaged after a car accident, or how a husband can accept his wife even if she cannot conceive. It is hard sometimes to accept the person, and we find it different, but we will accept them for who they are now because we love them as a whole (not physically). If people have problems accepting the other person after a change happens to them, then I don't think they truly accepted the person and loved them for who they are.

  Edited by King-Anu-Lives - 13 years ago

But then what attracts you to that person? Like, if you do not know someone, what makes you want to go and get to know them?

Originally posted by: tulipbaby53

But then what attracts you to that person? Like, if you do not know someone, what makes you want to go and get to know them?

I understand, if you're friends with someone and fall in love with them, it might not be physical attraction but something deeper.

 

Originally posted by: K-A-L

 

 

Well I am not an expert on love lol. My point was that if you are attracted physically then to me it is not love. It is lust,need etc. Love is not about physical involvement to me. Yes it becomes a part once two people get married but it is not something that will starts love.

 

Well i dont know what attracts...love people are crazy. sometime u like one thing in someone and u forget 100 others things.

 

btw these are just my views so dont consider it as some intelligent comment lol. i am very un-social type of a person so not speaking from any experience.

 

feeling sleepy lol. u tc,kal

 

 

Tulip sis, Kingji is a real gentleman.

Originally posted by: Summer3

Tulip sis, Kingji is a real gentleman.

An old buddy from the SRGMP days.

 

Originally posted by: tulipbaby53

aahh okay! 😊 thanks for letting me know! 😃

He was a good friend of the late Khaty Bhai too.

Originally posted by: K-A-L

Well I am not an expert on love lol. My point was that if you are attracted physically then to me it is not love. It is lust,need etc. Love is not about physical involvement to me. Yes it becomes a part once two people get married but it is not something that will starts love.

 

Well i dont know what attracts...love people are crazy. sometime u like one thing in someone and u forget 100 others things.

 

btw these are just my views so dont consider it as some intelligent comment lol. i am very un-social type of a person so not speaking from any experience.

 

feeling sleepy lol. u tc,kal

 

I'd disagree, only physical attraction is definitely lust. However, love that does not involve physical attraction would not classify for romantic love that makes marriages and long term relationships. I feel that romantic relationships have a convergence of emotional as well as physical intimacy. Otherwise what would be the drawing line between the love and attachment one feels towards friends and what one feels towards romantic partners.

 

Originally posted by: Summer3

He was a good friend of the late Khaty Bhai too.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Love itself is mental. Why would anyone do such a thing? 😆