Posted: 30 December 2010 at 4:08am | IP Logged
Originally posted by pooja.s92
Originally posted by star_night
Originally posted by pooja.s92
Originally posted by star_nightcome on hw long can a person be patient???.
...he's always tried to keep his temper under control...remember he said once mein bura hote hue nahi dekh sakta.......i think he and shweta have been fair players in the BB house
I respect your opinions but I think there is a difference between bure hote hue nahi dekhne aur dekhte hue bhi khud hi bura karna..
If he thinks he is being treated unfairly, then he has the right to oppose. (That's bura hote hue nahi dekhna) But by passing offensive comments or acting rude to someone is wrong. (That's khud bhi bura karna)
I like Sam for his good points but he proved to be quite disappointing this week!!
I agree with ur comments but just imagine hw long can a person control his/her emotions.??.....hw long can a person keep quiet???I believe he acted rude this week bcoz of dolly n khali...taali ek haath se nahi bajti.......always dolly provokes the fights she keeps on screwing khali and enjoys the output...y'day also happened the same thing she was laughing when khali n sameer were arguing i dont understand wht kind of enjoyment she get's doing all this????

That is what the WHOLE game is about. Controlling one's emotions without being fake. That is the basis of the judgment we make!
I know taali ek haath se nahi bajti. Both the people are equally responsible for starting the argument but who stretched it ? Sam took it to another level. Khali was at fault when Sam tried to discuss with him on the dining table and he said I am not talking to you. It was mean. Sam was at fault when he didn't do sit ups for Khali (we weren't shown so I am assuming he didn't) and even refusing to feed him food. Forget about who the person is. Why hold grudges? Fine. He is not a fake person and he cannot pretend to like someone. Good. But it was a task. Khali ki godi mein jaake toh nahi baithna tha. Khaana hi khila na tha. He had feed him twice before, ek baar aur sahi. It wouldn't have made him any smaller. Infact he would have gained more respect for showing keeping his personal problems aside.
Dolly does try to influence Khali but he doesn't ALWAYS get influenced. He hid ginger for Shweta which made Dolly upset. He nominated Sam and not Shweta otherwise Sam wouldn't have been nominated at all. That means Khali has brain too just uses it less than required. He needs to get outta that Veerji mode and stop defending Dolly everywhere which is what Sam does for ST too.
I think Khali didn't react to Dolly's constant instigations in this matter instead he told her to be quiet which was the right thing to do. Khali's reaction was very mature and respectful and I think he deserves to be praised for it. Even Ashmit reacted cooly to his footage. Sam would have reacted in a very negative manner if he was shown the video footage of people bitching about him cause he is a sensitive person. He cares for people who don't even deserve it.!!
Dolly is what she is. She said the same thing about Shweta infront of the housemates what she did in the confession room. Does all of them have the guts to give the EXACT reason for nominating each other in the living room as they give in the confession? NO. Which is why I like Dolly. Doesn't make her any right but she is NOT fake. She found it funny so she laughed. She felt it was wrong thus got angry. I admire that about her! Though she needs to control her emotions too like Sam. She can get too violent while angry or disgusting with trying to be funny.
Dolly instigating Khali is wrong. I do not support her there.
Sam is smart enough to have realized that BB is testing them but not smart enough to realize that he is failing it by being stubborn and arrogant. Sulking doesn't help either !! While Khali passed it by not giving in to the most wicked provocations.
You're welcome to disagree. I would more than appreciate !!

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