Posted: 29 December 2010 at 11:27pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by nanditasingh
Originally posted by delhigirlExactly Kay
I feel that maan's reaction to the incident at the breakfast table was totally in character with him. I think if geet had left it at exposing his holding her hand under the table, maan would have been ok with that. However, she persisted in highlighting the changes in him infront of the family and i also felt that everyone at the table was mocking him. Maan has always been a very private person and in control. He has this persona infront of his family and staff which he has to keep.
Geet has to understand and keep the balance in front of others. She should feel proud that she is the only one he is willing to lower his guard down and even let her make fun of him. But he prefers that to be in private with her. I did not feel that he was at all rude to her. He has always said that she will be in control in their relationship and she will be the one to decide its course. But he also expects her to use that privilege wisely without undermining his authority, both at home and at work.
it was not her exposing the fact that Maan was holding her hand to Annie-Dadi that pissed him..it was the beating around the same bush Geet did & rest joined in that made him react as he did & i rather love him for that...
It was 'their only' moments (not holding hand ..... ) the things that she mentioned .... & Maan being the private person ..he sure did find it distasteful
Infact as my friend Nupur says ...he never put Geet in spot infront of all picking up any of their private talk or moments....
Thanks. Lately I have felt that everyone in the house and even at work people are getting carried away with the change in Maan. Geet should make fun of him and the change in him when she is alone with him. She should not team up with family members or office staff to highlight that change. Gaurenteed that he held her hand infront of family, but those nok-jhoks between the two will continue. The question is to what extent you should take it further.
When geet warned him to leave her hand, she should have said that i will not talk to you for 2 days and I am sure maan would have let her hand go. He cannot stay even a moment when she does not talk to him.