Posted: 24 December 2010 at 5:30am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tejeshec
I have been reading a lot about people questioning Ishaan's unconditional love.....
Trying to highlight 2 instances:
During the pre picnic sequences, Ishaan requests Suhaana to pack his
clothes for him which she flatly refuses(also she tells him that she did
her own luggage)...If it wasn't for Badi Maa's advice that he will
screw up her clothes she wouldn't have gone behind him....suhana
is used to getting all work done by maid ........she is doing her own
packing this is a big thing for her.......had she realized her love for
ishaan i dont think then also she would have done ishan's packingWhy do you think so? When she can take extreme steps like making tea/cooking dumplings for Ishaan why can't she do Ishaan's packing...Accepting the family is different from accepting Ishaan as her husband..Doing something for Ishaan on Badi Maa's saying proves that she has accepted the family and not Ishaan(until Picnic gets over)
Pool Scene: Inder asks Suhaana to join them in the pool but Suhaana
bluntly refuses saying the water is not clean...Also, Ishaan didn't ask
Sona to join them ...She by herself joined the gang in the pool... she
is a cleanliness freak and that she has shown on numerous occasion
earlier so one cannot blame her...........moreover ishan didnt even
invite her to pool it was inder so where is ishaan's concern for herIshaan didn't want to get embarrassed in front of his bhaiyya/bhabhi by asking her to join him in pool... She is different from Inder/Elesh in openly expressing his feelings for his wife..But asking a friend to join in is totally different....
has always been the guy who gives Suhaana space and allows her to do
what she likes..He was never the kind of guy who would force himself on
Suhaana like Inder did to Rajni pulling her into the pool......ishan
is the same guy who is not wearing sunglasses given by suhana just
because he think suhana was trying to make him like sid which is not a
truth............and what about his clossness to sonaBut the reason initially for Suhaana to give the sunglassses was to check if he looks like Sid..That's why Suhaana didn't have any answer to that allegation...
Ishaan and Sona were enjoying together ,,,Suhaana was feeling bad about
it.. but how on earth wiIl Ishaan know that she is feeling bad...She
was putting on Sun glasses and staying alone.....its
ishaan who claims that he knows suhana in and out............but cant
see or ask her why is she so alone in the picnic when she was the one
who was most excited about this outingits ishan who is wearing a sun glass through which hecan't see anyone beyond sonaReiterating Ishaan's shyness, that asking or questioning Suhaana in front of everyone will lead to leg pulling from his family members which he is trying to avoid ever since he got married.... If it was their bed room and Suhaana was quiet then Ishaan would have definitely asked her .....
By the way Ishaan is always under the impression that Suhaana is more happy when she is all alone than in the crowdishan knows now suhana is happy with family not alone but can't he see why is she so alone
So all I am saying is we should wait till suhaana confesses and hence lets not pounce on Sona or Ishaan before that happens.....
So you are toatally dismissing changes in Suhana??? if she made mistakes in the begining that would be labled all her life, and give a free hand to Ishaan to do any thing and everything , she has adjusted herself with out even once mentioning to Ishaan that I have done this for your family, I have done that for your family, I had this in my house, you dont have anything in your house, she even wanted to return her dress once she realised the position, I mean what else she would have to do ?? just by jumping on to him and smooching that oh Ishaan I love you I love you, then people would accept that she loves Ishaan, her every gesture , her every action is crying out loud to Ishaan that look at me I am here, you use to know my every mood how come you are ignoring me now . Its an arrange mairrage, which takes times , Suhana has changed slowly, and now when she needs Ishaan the most he is no where to be seen, this jealousy track would have failed if it wasnt for Ishaan as Suhana was never jealous of Sonali.
And regarding packing his stuff, ask any of the married couple, we do say these things to our partners kay khud karo mai nahi kar rahi, its very normal, when Inder ,Elaish , Dadaji and Alok can iron there wives Sari,s why cant Ishaan pack his own clothes.
Edited by venture - 24 December 2010 at 5:32am