Originally posted by: LadyMacbethShe should fight for her own happiness n not for love, u can find happiness in other quarters than your husband's love. I'd love 2 see G getting over her madness , yes I call it madness, of trying 2 help Rudra. She should stop standing by him from roght now, leave R 2 fight his own battles, n find her life's meaning n success some where else. She has a fantastic supporting family, she should take advantage of it. She married for their sake, now she should take care of herself n engage herself in other activities than helping baby R, lol.
Originally posted by: LadyMacbethShe should fight for her own happiness n not for love, u can find happiness in other quarters than your husband's love. I'd love 2 see G getting over her madness , yes I call it madness, of trying 2 help Rudra. She should stop standing by him from roght now, leave R 2 fight his own battles, n find her life's meaning n success some where else. She has a fantastic supporting family, she should take advantage of it. She married for their sake, now she should take care of herself n engage herself in other activities than helping baby R, lol.
๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃOriginally posted by: LadyZaib
maybe JR & RR think of givin R a baby brother or sister..they still jawaaaaaaaaaan ๐๐ as R said pretty pretty mummaaa.....
Originally posted by: LadyMacbethLet R destroy himself a bit in his druglike love for P, that'd b fun 2 watch.๐ But, G need not see it, she should run from the hell-house, miles away from RR n R. Bhago G, apni jaan bachake bhago. Find your life else where n who says love can't happen for u too , again n this time with a better person ? CVS should give us this.
I don't get what's so confusing u, Rach. Unconditional love doesn't mean u have 2 stick 2 him like glued, no matter what happens, it means loving one with out expecting love in return. G's love is like that n I salute it. But, she should immediately stop caring about n helping R. Only this way, R'll grow in to a mature person.N, Rach, u said it yourself that G should stop being R's dhaal, n now u r saying she should stand by him like a rock n help him in his mental turmoil.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Help ! My head is spinning ! What r u trying 2 say exactly?Originally posted by: Rach1
@Mac - you are conflicting with yourself when you say that. On one side I see you praisng G's unconditional love (which would mean she would still love him even if he rejects her) and on the other hand you say she should leave and take care of herself bcos he is still in love with P. So I am a bit confused with what is it you are truly saying๐
As I've already said about a thousand times, probably in urdu as none can read it, SHE only agreed 2 marry because she has lil sister 2 marry off one day, n in India , once the family's reputation it's never regained. Thanks 2 R, people were throwing muds at her family ? How could she allow that ? She agreed against her wish, did she really had a choice but 2 enter there ?Originally posted by: Rach1
So why the hell did she enter the madhouse knowing everything - she knew R like no one else did - his house, his parents everything was known to her, nothing was a secret๐.
Originally posted by: LadyMacbethI don't get what's so confusing u, Rach. Unconditional love doesn't mean u have 2 stick 2 him like glued, no matter what happens, it means loving one with out expecting love in return. G's love is like that n I salute it. But, she should immediately stop caring about n helping R. Only this way, R'll grow in to a mature person.N, Rach, u said it yourself that G should stop being R's dhaal, n now u r saying she should stand by him like a rock n help him in his mental turmoil.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Help ! My head is spinning ! What r u trying 2 say exactly?
Then our ideas of both the meanings of unconditional love n dhaal totally differs n this discussion will never reach an end. N, as for being a friend, their relationship has taken such a turn than it can never n it never should come back to the friendship crap. Please, give me a break. R'll never become responisible if he don't learn 2 fight his own battles, absolutely alone, no shoulder 2 cry, no G 2 support or held hand. Will abolutely hate 2 see a friendship deepening in to love track. Sangini CVs shouldn't take that way n I'm sure they won't.Originally posted by: Rach1
Unconditional love to me means you love a person no matter what happens or how that person behaves your love dont change. Unconditional love to me dont mean packing bags and running away if R does something unexpected.Now Dhal means she is protecting him which I dont think he needs, he is an adult who can take care of himself. I am not talking about being a protection but standing by him supporting him as a friend, as a wife. So there is a difference.
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