Posted: 22 December 2010 at 1:26pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by suchitra_1
Originally posted by anjubala
Great writing Milee...You came back with a bang.
Even I said the same to Suchi that I want only Sid to reveal the truth to DD and nobody else. It is his problem and it is not fair to hide any secrets as marriage is based on trust and faith and then love. Husband wife should have complete trust on each other which is seriously lacking in their case. So he should confront her and tell her.
I agree.. I think Sid is the only person who can explain whats correct and whats not to Divya.
hmm I see a lot of hope (well only when I do not watch the episode, cause if I watch it and nivi getting slapped, I will want to kill dd, so now that I haven't watched anything I can hope lol)
Sid can change DD. Sid is a very "good" person, has values and stuff specially for his family. Now that he is married to DD , he will go to all lengths to maintain the marriage. And DD being the spoil brat that she is , She would require someone like Sid to set her straight. She looks up to him and really follows him like a slave.
All he would have to do is tell her off and she will be fine. But I do not want him telling her off just for the sake of it, but , rather with complete honesty.. but I am not sure he has the guts.
He never seems to have guts to stand up for whats right.
this is why I do not want him involved : (
but I guess he will have to be.
I agree Suchi but the way they potrayed Sid till now he doesn't show any capabilities to set things allright or could able to stand for right. Whenever he tries to make things right they turn out to be blunder. His wrong judgement for every situation make the things more worse to handle. I mean if he will tell the truth to Divya too then also he will tell at wrong time which will not solve the matter rather will spoil all the things once again. Actually Sid should have told Divya everything before wedding or on firstnight of the wedding instead of lingering on till all the truth comes out I don't feel any relation can be build properly.
Rightnow I feel even Viren is not fair in his relation as he knew everything about Nivedita but his truth is still behind the covers whether it is his past, his insecurities and Nivi doesn't know real Viren and even we don't know much we know Viren as much Nivi knows may be little more.
Both the boys knows inside out of their wives and their life but wives doesn't know the secrets of their husband till those secrets won't come out properly their relation can't be very strong. Though NivRen relation is strong as compared to DivSid and Nivi can handle this relation very well but still Nivi also has to see the complete Viren before completely understand him or love him. Till now she feels responsible and respect for him as he had always supported her when she needed him. Till now her hold on relation is not strong as if his family demand or he wants to leave her for her happiness she has tendency to leave him (Till now its he who kept holding their relation). Till now she doesn't feel even little possiveness for him that she will not let him go. It can be only when she know his world and love him from all her heart like he does. That can be only possible if she knows him as a person.