Posted: 17 December 2010 at 10:06pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by venture
Hi Laxmi, catchy title by the way!! this got done without a drag and i loved its treatment....I couldnt agree more with you as in todays episode we saw the real Kyshap family bond and Badi Maa taught a very good lesson of trusting your own upbringing, and then your children would hardly go wrong and by letting go of things in first place and giving benefit of doubt to the person in question you save yourself and family form jumping into guns and creating a disaster unecessarily.
Families where brothers love each other unconditionally can never be broken or have negativity no matter how hard there spouses try, you should trust your family , as I alwayssay one should not blame the daughter in law if the son traets the mother badly, there is something wrong with the son!!! nobody should be able to put doubt about your family in your head, what Elaish said and did is the biggest lesson to all of us . I wish the young generation remember this, hats off to Maitli ji amd Mr.Habib to portray this message so well and IN ONE EPISODE, on the other hand what Radha Bua did was not right, if she would have kept quite, Rano would have never lost respect and love for Disha , she may forgive her this time but she will NOT forget ( knowing Rano!!!) sometimes you should weigh the benefit of telling something you have overheard would it do good to somebody or give them a grief, thanks to Badi Maa she saved a big conflict by talking some sense.
SGP now and them give us a JHALAK of what it is all about but its Star Plus,s intervention I think which is going off track and dragging a lot lately, but by giving these JHALAKS they are cleverly keeping us glued and intact with SGP , they are very Chalaak!!!
I agree Sheems..... in one episode how the SGP element was cleverly grafted ...... to remind us it is all about emotions and love towards each other in a parivaar and so subtly delivered in just 2 episodes.......... i agree with u.... i felt RB shud not have revealed this to anyone....but knowing her she is a person who believes in confiding things rather than keeping to herself to avoid the consequences.... her intention was not wrong but the aftermath of Rano getting jittery about the same did strike a wrong impression about RB's uttering to them about the same.... I liked the way when she said .... BM just calmed it subtly brushing it as a chingari and Elesh has done his work marvellously due to his upbringing by calming Disha's anxiety over her insecurity.....! How beautifully managed..... BM def. did not drop down her trust over Disha the way Rano reacted (agreeing Rano will mark this incident in her memory and that is really sad as once a wrong impression gets registered...it gets difficult to erase and fill it with a neat one...!)and her matured handling def. deserved an applause.....!
Again a classic comparison of 3 ladies of the same parivaar.......:
BM.... who has a broken marraige but handling every issue of a parivaar in a subtle way and with much conscious effort to avoid its further damage.....
RB.... who again has a broken family and not secure when it comes to trusting anyone..... lets her feelings go off her mind by getting vocal without thinking about the repercussions......
Rano.... happily married.... but highly sensitive and innocent when it comes to handling even the small issues of a parivaar....!
How a small fight between a couple can get public & become a big issue was shown by RB and Rano..... and how it can be understood and handled with an attempt to put a fullstop to it was done by BM....!
Edited by laxmi_s - 17 December 2010 at 10:07pm