So how many of us are pretty much disappointed with the epi and thought of it as useless?
Yep..mostly, my emotion was that too..but then I realized that it does make a lot of sense
Maan and Geet are moving into the relationship that will bind them together..for 7 janams.
These tiffs raised some important problems that will effect their relationship.
1.Geet has told Maan..and us so many times in Mahi sessions that "woh kitne achhe hain...woh mera kitna khayal rakhte hain"
Romanticizing their relationship.
Yes..MSK is thoughtful and does think about Geet and only Geet but he does get moody if she doesn't appreciate his efforts..
He wants things to be taken in some way and Geet takes them in the opposite way and he can't bear that she misunderstands him after knowing him so well.
So..the 30 minute rule was imposed on them to make them realize the importance of conversation and spending quality time together. How to maximize conversation and sharing love when they have a dearth of time.
I am not married of course, but I think after marriage, responsibilities increase and it sometimes gets difficult to find time for each other...this is a preparation for that situation
2. yeh meri shaadi hai...
there is not only ME in a relationship.. but HUM as well. If they are becoming a unit officially..they have to be united too..in front of family- his, hers and everyone else's too
MSK- main tumhari choice achhe se jaanta hoon
Geet- aap bhi meri choice ho
BARRY- I love YOU for this dialogue!!
3. Aap kise bula rahe ho? Secretary ko ya Biwi ko
Maan's way of talking to Geet has been like that because she is his secretary still.
He needs to show a marked difference in the way he talks to Geet everytime to avoid confusion.
Please- I don't mean that it's not clear but..his manner of speaking needs to change a bit now that she will be his wife..things need to change
He of course has no idea what she's talking about but he wants her to come so he uses the role of his dominance
See- he knows biwi bolega toh...she will call him..HAHA
Maan needs to ask her to come..not Command her.
Frankly..I would not like it if the guy I'm supposed to marry tells me to do this do that...
she will be his equal..not his inferior in marriage. He needs to treat her as such in the way he speaks to her, haan!
Why do I feel I'll get Dandas today?
Yes..Its back and a big symbol
the phone became a v unique symbol of MIS-communication..usually seen as communication...for Maneet it ended up being the opposite.
their impatience with each other and rising frustration that either is not understanding the other is shown using the device of COMMunication.
the issues they have- is that they are not yet delving deeper.
Trying to fit each other in the ideas they have moulded of each other after knowing, they will have to constantly change and evolve each other's expression.
Fumbling and grumbling, they are getting ready to walk on the path of a lifetime
It's not easy...they will have to learn to give in, but never give up.
The cell phone also becomes a symbol of that. The drive...MSk will NOT give up in trying to communicate with Geet...and Geet also tries hard to clarify what the situation really was.
Linked to the theme of communication-
Geet was upset MSK didn't tell her about the 30 minute rule-lifting
well- he needs to share everything with her now.
HE needs to SOON tell her about Arjun
There were also blessings in the form of decorations again...well..that's all for that..colorful blessings and all.. I liked that scene which followed..minus the convo..
1 thing- Before Geet enters the room..MSK just gets a call at that time..and he feels slightly bad as he sees her standing outside.
Remember the scene before their fight at the office that led to MU?
Maan gets a call from Adi and distracted leaves Geet?
Well..This has to change .
he needs to listen to her.
Poor guy- buys cell phones for everyone.. so that she accepts it
I liked how he says he appreciates them all for the profits..HAHA
Manisha-MSK convo- hayee..LOL..it was hilarious!!
ADiiii- yay!! me loves you (proposal part 2!)
Geet-maan convo 2
Okay..so..Maan was impulsive...haha...poor guy..ek toh manisha mili when he was expecting Geet.
and Maan said he at least wants to talk to her.
I would add Always..keeping in mind his stalker tendencies
Barry- dialogues thode weak ho rahe hain!
*energy ke liye jhapkisses*
NE- poor girl..she tried so hard to reach the miting on time...well..look at all the signs..you're not supposed to..chhodo! but no..perseverance hain haan!
And when MSK starts shouting at her..she knows what to say...NE knows GEET ki khushi are the magic words that will make this guy even kill himself...and so she gets her work done..and MSK is coming to take his important file..which isn't as imp as "geet ki khushi"
1. precap- please don't tell me this is the filmy situation...is he really going to um..like her after her uh..adjusting of clothes?or is he deciding if he likes them or not?
No offence- I love Arjun's bangs!
2. When is MSK telling Geet about the case?
3.When did MSK work enough to make profits? 4. Will Arjun get into MSK's good books..or meet him at least cuz of the file...the file is important isn't it?
This epi was not a bashing of MSK at all..I love him as much..
And yes, I didn't like the episode too much..but I did understand a few things that were tried to be portrayed.
GC,dd- excellent but DD- do take care please..you seemed v v tired
Annie, Dadi- develop more.
not together..I guess annie's track is now going to be with Arjun's
That said- the bickering seemed to be grating..not entertaining..not non sensical but just not up to the mark.
Like- I can almost say I did not like the episode much because of the execution.
That's all for today
I'd give it a- 6.5
I hope tomorrow is better!
love to all!
Edited by geet.a - 15 December 2010 at 10:43am