Sanjog Se Bani Sangini

India-Forums

   
Sanjog Se Bani Sangini
Sanjog Se Bani Sangini

Official Club Of CONFUSION.COM

LimitLessFan IF-Stunnerz
LimitLessFan
LimitLessFan

Joined: 21 December 2008
Posts: 41650

Posted: 14 December 2010 at 7:24pm | IP Logged
Hello Lovely Ladies. 

well there are many of us , who find themselves in Confusion.com land even after a single simple episode.Wink

well this thread is for them , feel at home in this  thread and who dont agree or not confused , avoid this thread please 

I am going to register myself as Forever member in this thread as even the slightest scene takes me to confusion land , unlike to lala land LOL

Dont get into arguments and all , have fun 

Love

J

The following 4 member(s) liked the above post:

monalidpSweet_Waters-scarlett-SilverBell

ekumeed Senior Member
ekumeed
ekumeed

Joined: 02 May 2005
Posts: 227

Posted: 14 December 2010 at 8:21pm | IP Logged
Count me in.

First off, I want to explain that I was all set to forget about my previous quibbles with prior tracks and ready to accept the bringing of the baraat to Gauri's home but even then I grew to be disappointed this week and this when I tried to have absolutely no expectation.

Here are at least five things I am confused about:
  • Where is nani as doesn't Gauri say she needs to convince her mother (Sunehri) and nani to leave from the town forever? But nani is missing at arguably the most integral life moment of her granddaughter's life.
  • Rudra's change is still not completely convincing to me as a character. I loved the fact that he did accept Gauri and did want him to accept Gauri as his wife but somehow somewhere I did not completely buy it...though I would have excused even that had he only appeared more resigned and a little less happy to come get Gauri into his home. (I did love and appreciated the fact that he cares for Gauri enough that he did not want to ruin her future for his past...but somehow...somewhere...I still question it...but maybe...later episodes will explain his motives and internal shaping better.)
  • Why were the rituals of the marriage (pheras) not conducted at all (obviously not at the home but at any temple (mandir) since I thought the point of the baraat was to bring her with full riti-riwaaj (rituals-tradition) to his home? (If the rituals-tradition were conducted at the temple and only not shown, then they should have at least indicated this by means of conversation that this is what happened rather than let the audience try to fill in the gaps for the hours between the baraat and the dhaba.)
  • Why were they Ketki bhabi, Daadu, Gauri and Rudra at the dhaba? (This is also not explained. Was it so late into the night that it turned to dawn before they had to have breakfast there? Where did they sleep or did they sleep at all?)
  • Why are Rudra and Gauri's sleeping arrangements not shown when they get to his mansion? (This in my mind has a crucial bearing on the story as that can establish where they are in their relationship symbolically. Separate beds would mean waiting and discomfort on on an instinctual, physical, mental and emotional levels of husband-wife. Same bed but no conjugal relations would mean trust but "not there yet" on physical level and maybes or hesitation on other levels. So, from writers, we have absolutely no tone that would help audiences establish in their minds what is happening with the pair.)
If this series was only about scenes rather than part of a story, I could find many scenes that I liked and found wonderful. But the scenes are shown as part of the story...and I thus find myself relating less and less to the story as a result of this.

There is no logical cohesion between scenes...one moment this...then another moment that...and what suffers is the story.

Also, I feel this week the audience needed almost complete focus on Rudra-Gauri relationship so that the audience can also follow what their relationship is/will be. But we do not have that in two hypothetically "big" episodes of this week (from last week's "hook") as a result of Rudra's big decision to accept Gauri.

Sincerely,
Ek Umeed

P.S.
I miss the tone of the story that I fell in love with.

The following 6 member(s) liked the above post:

monalidpSweet_Waters-scarlett-koolchickpippaSilverBell

koolchick IF-Rockerz

Requested Self ban
Joined: 20 December 2005
Posts: 9213

Posted: 14 December 2010 at 8:48pm | IP Logged
THE ACCOUNT OF THE MEMBER WHO POSTED THIS MESSAGE HAS BEEN TEMPORARILY BANNED.

If you think this is an error please Contact us.

The following 4 member(s) liked the above post:

ekumeedmonalidpSweet_Waterspippa

ekumeed Senior Member
ekumeed
ekumeed

Joined: 02 May 2005
Posts: 227

Posted: 14 December 2010 at 9:04pm | IP Logged
Exactly koolchick. Where are they going to get the marriage certificate to prove they are legally married because I don't think vermilion is going to be enough for the court and I agree they should at least have a legal marriage (by court) if not a marriage by religion. Also, you know how in shows they usually show flashbacks of the lead pair when they are immersed in memories of one another? I wanted Gaur-Rudra to be able to have flashbacks of the seven pheras in later episodes, especially as Pihu seems all set to come between them, but they can't now as the scene did not seem to have been shot by the director at all as it was not shown in the serial.

Lol. I like your explanation of the baraat being at four in the morning. At least that's something... (Sighs.)

Sincerely,
Ek Umeed

The following 3 member(s) liked the above post:

monalidpkoolchickpippa

SilverBell IF-Stunnerz
SilverBell
SilverBell

Joined: 05 September 2009
Posts: 37147

Posted: 14 December 2010 at 11:36pm | IP Logged
for those questions need answers which HAS NOT begin answered yet. so one of the   Confused lot.
LimitLessFan IF-Stunnerz
LimitLessFan
LimitLessFan

Joined: 21 December 2008
Posts: 41650

Posted: 14 December 2010 at 11:49pm | IP Logged
@koolchick, r u talking about pratha LOL............

yaar there had been so many questions which have to be answered yet ,if i come up with list , it would be endless,LOL... as much as i want to see this show in +ve way , i am not able to 
Thamesriver IF-Dazzler
Thamesriver
Thamesriver

Joined: 07 August 2008
Posts: 3216

Posted: 15 December 2010 at 2:46am | IP Logged
Maybe we shud send a link of this topic to the CVs.Though I don't think we will see any results.
 
I am just annoyed that they have made G into a typical bahu.

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

ekumeed

LimitLessFan IF-Stunnerz
LimitLessFan
LimitLessFan

Joined: 21 December 2008
Posts: 41650

Posted: 15 December 2010 at 2:48am | IP Logged
they will rub off their hands and will go for another confusing scene , but highlight of their confusion had to be barat and dabha breakfast scene and this wedding for sure ........... 

Go to top

Related Topics

  Topics Author Replies Views Last Post
Binny Sharma Fans=)Counting Club

2 3 4

Author: Mariaa.SG   Replies: 31   Views: 4009

Mariaa.SG 31 4009 08 September 2010 at 10:51am by ramas
~~ Sangini Chit Chat Club #2 ~~

2 3 4 5 6 7 ... 150 151

Author: Dancingdoll   Replies: 1200   Views: 23799

Dancingdoll 1200 23799 27 August 2010 at 9:08pm by P.Kamaljit.Sean
Additi Gupta's fans=)Counting club

2 3

Author: Mariaa.SG   Replies: 18   Views: 1296

Mariaa.SG 18 1296 16 August 2010 at 8:40pm by Sonam2
Iqbal Khan Fans=) Counting club**already 5

2 3

Author: Mariaa.SG   Replies: 20   Views: 1097

Mariaa.SG 20 1097 16 August 2010 at 8:16pm by -Garima-
~~ Sangini Chit Chat Club #1 ~~

2 3 4 5 6 7 ... 149 150

Author: Dancingdoll   Replies: 1199   Views: 23883

Dancingdoll 1199 23883 15 August 2010 at 10:36pm by Dancingdoll

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category / Channels
Forums

  • Please login to check your Last 10 Topics posted

Check these Celebrity also

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.

Popular Channels :
Star Plus | Zee TV | Sony TV | Colors TV | SAB TV | Life OK

Quick Links :
Top 100 TV Celebrities | Top 100 Bollywood Celebs | About Us | Contact Us | Advertise | Forum Index