Completely depends on the individual you are dealing with.
Some people respond best to soft encouraging approaches. You need to lose weight, you can be healthier and feel better etc. Some people though do need tough love where you tell them point blank "you are overweight/obese etc". They don't respond unless you are tough and blunt.
However, you will always have people no matter which approach you use who will get offended and wallow in self pity. You will always have people no matter what approach you use who will care less and live and do as they please.
Originally posted by: simivAgree with all that you say...
In my profession, I deal with a lot of people who are suffering the consequences of being fat such as diabetes, arthritis, high blood pressure and I'm responsible for their 'better' health and they come to me for answers..such why am I on so many medications, or why do my knees hurt?So I appraoch them with solid facts and data such as if you lose 5% of your body weight you may no longer need meds for yr Blood pressure..and that has worked.But yes, the key is Self Motivation!!And yes, I'm a physician:)
Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevilIt depends on whether the person is close to me.. π If it's my mom or dad or my best friend, I'd say "you're fat and so, you need to lose weight.".
If they're others, it's "I'm sorry if this offends you, but I think you need to lose weight" .. or it completely isn't any of my business.But the best is self-motivation π If we care so much for that fat someone, we can also find ways to make them realise that they're obese and hence need to lose weight for their own good. :)
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