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ChillMaarYaar

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Posted: 10 December 2010 at 12:43am | IP Logged
WinkHey Gals, 

Ok so , PB says to gulaal that if u become a widow at young age ur required or suppose to marry ur dewar .....forget gulaal for sometime , 

1. What if the dewar is already married ??

2. What if there is no dewar ?? 

can someone answer this for me pleaseEmbarrassed

thanks 

Love 

J


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Posted: 10 December 2010 at 3:36am | IP Logged
In both these circumstances as u say she will lead lyf of a widow and need not marry neone..marrying a devar is not a compulsion i guess...but yes dis sort of marriage will help the widow overcome her past and b in her matrimonial house as well and hav a nyc future...

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Posted: 10 December 2010 at 3:53am | IP Logged
i really dont know

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Posted: 10 December 2010 at 4:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by JustJ

WinkHey Gals, 

Ok so , PB says to gulaal that if u become a widow at young age ur required or suppose to marry ur dewar .....forget gulaal for sometime , 

1. What if the dewar is already married ??

2. What if there is no dewar ?? 

can someone answer this for me pleaseEmbarrassed

thanks 

Love 

J




Good Question Tongue .... thinking cap ON..............(scratching head LOL)


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Posted: 10 December 2010 at 10:10am | IP Logged
D'ohthinking..............lol gr8 quest
 

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Posted: 10 December 2010 at 11:02am | IP Logged
Originally posted by JustJ

WinkHey Gals, 

Ok so , PB says to gulaal that if u become a widow at young age ur required or suppose to marry ur dewar .....forget gulaal for sometime , 

1. What if the dewar is already married ??

2. What if there is no dewar ?? 

can someone answer this for me pleaseEmbarrassed

thanks 

Love 

J


in these kind of villages people live in tolas, which means they r descendant of same person and thus shares the same gotra and hence they r all considered as brothers and sisters. so, i think, in this case, the girl can be married to the boy who is the closest cousin of the deceased.

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Posted: 10 December 2010 at 7:57pm | IP Logged
the main reason .i think this tradition was  a kind of  social security .... for women
the widow would be taken for ride in the samaj.. if alone ---
so the family  gets her married family  name continues and she is not facing any  difficulties @that time remember girls were not edu or wrking or were acquainted with outside world  :)
 
cheers , hope i  have not offended any one ...my thgts
prncz

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Posted: 11 December 2010 at 5:50pm | IP Logged
well if there is not devar or he is already married then the woman would stay a widow. or maybe they would get her married to someone else. the reason they do it in the family because it is easy for everyone to adjust to the situtaion.

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