Kareena Kapoor on her heroes - Page 6

Originally posted by: ~*simran*~

Lily, I would really appreciate it if you do not use sarcasm to get a point across. It will only lead to baseless fights. If you don't agree with something then say it w/o the sarcasm. I do not want to to deal with fights. She stated an opinion, disagree with it or just ignore it. No need for this sarcasm ji.

Secondly for all.....we don't know these celebs personally (even if you are fan, sorry you don't know them personally). So judging anybody on how they are in their personal lives is baseless. They are public figures so their love life is out in the open.....heartbreaks are universal. A might be ruthless b/c A broke up with B (according to B fans) and vice versa for A fans....no one knows what  transpired....we just try to fill in the blanks. So what to do when we don't know? I'd say not to tread that path, but we love gossip....so lets tread it without stepping on each others toes.

Thirdly....just stop fighting. Please? It's useless, pointless, and whatever less. No fighting makes my life easier, and I'm sure your lives too. I-F contributes to like 0.0001% of the world population, so really it does not matter. Enjoy your time, ignore people, get long with people.

And lastly...please respect others (members/celebs). Personal choice is a beautiful right. What they do in their personal lives is none of our concern. Don't agree with it? Fine, neither you will lose sleep over it, neither will they.

Sorry Simran ji can you show me the IF rule which forbids to use sarcasm, irony, sense of humor - I'd love to see that. 😛 Edited by lalixlili - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: lalixlili

Sorry Simran ji can you show me the IF rule which forbids to use sarcasm, irony, sense of humor - I'd love to see that. 😛

Till that day. I'm out of the forum. 😊 Goodbye everyone. 😛😉 

I think not allowing people to be sarcastic is taking things a bit too far. She made a point that got across. She was not attacking or bashing anyone. She should not be reprimanded for it, as if we were all in school or something.

With no offence to any of the mods or members on this forum, what is a member supposed to write actually? Edited by poppy2009 - 13 years ago

So much drama wow...people really have a lot of time on their hands to write all this. Come on in Simran Ji and just say "Do whatever you want" lol.

If sarcasm isn't allowed. Than immature comments like Kareena doesn't deserve Shahid shouldn't be allowed either. Because that's what started it all. It's all @Katforeva's fault. If a member says things like that, they can't expect ppl to be sarcastic toward them. Katforeva's comments so deserved that. No offense to simran ji's warning. But I have to say this. enough is enough. @katforeva needs to learn her lesson. Well done Lili. Please don't leave. I hope your joking.
Edited by lensahunte08 - 13 years ago

People, sarcasm if it is done in a mocking tone or instigating manner is not allowed. If everything was fine, what was the need to send me PMs or reports? Have I ever stopped anyone from general sarcasm? No I have not as far as I know. This is why I was against public notes b/c it will be taken like this. More than one person felt that it was instigating, so I had to look into it.

I just requested b/c it was going to (or was leading) to a fight that was going to lead to getting this topic closed. It was not a warning, it was just a small request. Every day I get PMs telling me I am bias towards some people etc. I tell A off for being mean to B, but when B is mean to A I never "butt in".

However, I am sorry as this has been taken in a different direction. It was not a warning, just a request to avoid any further fights.

I give up. I am tired of PMs telling me that I am bias and need to stop moderating. I might just take it up now.

Once again, I am sorry; it was not my intention.

Take care.

Wow way to go Lensa. Of course everyone will blame me and your the first one. I totally expected you to be the first. lol Everyone has the right to comment whatever they want. But that does not mean they pick on other people's comment with sarcasm when obviously they don't like it. Lalixlili has done this before and I didn't say anything but now I'm tired of it. Its not funny and its just stupid. I know most of you do not like me and sometimes I wish to leave this forum but then I love to read all the latest bollywood gossip and at the end of the day that's why all of us are here. I'm sorry if most of you do not like me but that's how I am. Whenever I try to improve, people do something that irritates me. Anyway sorry guys. And Simran Ji please don't take it up. Your amazing :)

Well, simran the PMs are wrong. You are not bias at all. You are doing a great job at moderating.

One person's instigation is another person's argument. Or statement. There is usually little black and white about arguments, and my post was not meant as an attack on a particular moderator per se but as a general questioning of IF rules and regulations, which seem random and differently interpreted and enforced across different sections.