well, I know people might seem shocked that probably after criticising Siddharth, how come I am opening a thread for him...well , relax, I am not going to bash Sid...rather try and attempt an analysis for him.
I feel Siddharth's proper analysis cannot be done just by analysing his relationship with Nivi only. It might seem that he is being portrayed a coward, a person who is too soft, a person who fails to act on time and miss out the golden moments and persons of life. But I really feel sad that Sid knows he is losing out his battle and probably his Putul will never forgive him, but he is quiet. He is dying every moment inside and is accepting a girl, who can never become a "sangini" for him, he does not love the girl nor the girl has any quality to be a wife and feel his pain. But for whom Sid is doing all these? for his dadasahib and his family. He can take action against Jawahar and prove Keshav, but he is keeping quiet as Dadasahib will not be able to take another blow of his own son Jawahar being the culprit. Sid is just giving in just to save his dadasahib.
His mistakes....well he was not able to side with Nivi on that day and secondly, he is too soft to be straightforward with anyone. I have been feeling disgusted that why Sid cannot open his mouth, but then seeing Divya, I felt, will there be any effect on Divya? because she is too much engrossed in her mission of getting Sid as her husband, she will just overlook Sid's sadness and contibue in her mission. But Man, give it a try...dont lose your life and heart so easily.
Both Sid and Nivi are extremely unfortunate, both cannot say "no" to anyone. But Sid has financial means, which Nivi does not whereas Nivi's "lachari" is visible to all, but Sid's pain is not. We dont feel sad but angry at Sid, as to why he cannot support Nivi. The reason being Sid is the person who has been instrumental in taking care of the family as a man, after Dadasahib..his siding with Nivi at this moment will point all fingers of his family towards him . And he has been dumped with lot of responsibilities. And in that burden of responsibilties, he is losing out his love and his life. He is forced into a life with a girl, who cannot even read his pain.
Edited by Omshanti1111 - 28 October 2010 at 4:22pm