Struggling a divorce less than a year of marriage

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WhipCreamPantie

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Posted: 24 October 2010 at 2:58pm | IP Logged

What do you do if someone you know got married and divorced in less than a year? This happened to me and I am struggling everyday to move on. I hardly knew the person I said yes to marry to. I blindly said yes (it was an arranged marriage) and it was a struggle for me. I couldn't live with the person, we did not get along. On top of that, I lost my job and couldn't make ends meet. So, I decided I wanted a divorce. I can safely say I have a little sense of relief because the person I divorced is not around and making my life miserable. Isn't it better to be alone then suffer a lifetime with someone you hardly know?

I don't think I can remarry. I will never trust anyone again or myself. It is better to be single and independent.

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I'm sorry about what happened. But it's better to part ways than to stay together and suffer! Arranged marriages are bit tricky that way I guess, you don't really know the person you're marrying and therefore you don't know what you're getting yourself into until after the marriage. IMO; you did the right thing, I would have done the same. You live only once, why spend it with someone you don't get along with?

I know you're probably emotionally unstable at the moment but in the future, when you've had some time to get your life back on track you will probably be able to find someone you like and care about and maybe marry that person, this time your own choice(?)

For now I guess it's good to just concentrate on yourself for a while. Good luck and take care. :)

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If you tried all your best then the choice you had made was right. Arranged marriages are a tradition mainly in the asian society, but it doesnt mean it is always sucessful. The best advice is to pick up all the broken pieces meaning, get yourself a job, socialise then your future pathway would be clearer. Dont look back just look forward and learn from your mistakes.

Good Luck

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sometimes its better to seperate rather than hold on to it... especially since tis making you misrable! now oyu and him can live life on your own terms.. maybe one day u will find someone or maybe not. don't think too much about marriage i mean only cuz ur aa women u have to be married? whare does it say that! start life over agai nand be happy! do things for yourself and not for everyone around you(which is why i'm assuming you agreed to the marriage)i

just remember its not a bad thing arranged works for some while not so much for others.. jsut concentrate on your life and be happy!

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