Originally posted by: zarmeeno
I really fail to understand that how can u guys even ask for that. Sid misbehaved with Nivi's family. No matter how much I love a guys but that person does not have any right to insult my family. I know u guys will say that Sid is rite now swayed away with lies and he did what Nivi did, stand by his family but Nivi never insulted his family. She just asked dadi to be quiet and not to say anything to her father coz they were abusive towards her father. I am not saying that he should have gone against his family but he should have taken the initiative to ask his dadi that please dont say anything and he will inquire into the matter. Instead he insulted them also and asked them to get out of their house and then again he insulted Nivi in the hospital. And when Jawahar pushed her father he never said anything to stop him. No matter how much i love a guy my family's respect comes first and if that guy cannot respect my family then to hell with him. Sid fell in love before knowing everything and soon he came to know the version of his family he totally adandoned Nivi and her family. He was not even ready to listen to her mom. Viren will fall in love with Nivi after knowing everything and then will stand by her. So I really dont think so that Sid is the right guy for Nivi.
U guys r also saying that if Sid and Nivi r not together then evil will win but this was the testing phase of their love and Sid totally failed in that test. Nivi was looking at Sid with expectations from his to stop his family from insulting but when he did'nt then Nivi had to intervene. And what will be a bigger slap on Chanchal's face than her own son falling in love with the girl that she insulted and her son proving the wrong doings of his parents. Kehtay hain na khuda kay ghar deir hai par andher nahin aur har cheez mein bhalai hoti hai only god can c that and we cant. We all know that Chanchal and Jawahar's truth will be out someday and that day Dadi's her self will ask forgiveness from Keshav.
Yes, Sid has been making some mistakes but the love he felt (and still feels) for Nivi is not a lie nor is it gone. I have said this repeatedly: he is in an emotionally chaotic state where he doesn't know what to do and so he attaches to the one thing he is entirely sure of and that is Dad Sahib's acknowledgement of what Dada Sahib believes to be true. He is in a testing phase and he did fail it. But so what? He's not perfect. He strives to be but he is only human. Try to imagine yourself in his shoes. He can't imagine that his own uncle would kill his own father and the only thing that is making sense out of all the circumstances presented to him is that Keshav is the possible culprit. And when Dada Sahib says nothing to the contrary, it's like a nightmare for him: the girl with whom he is about to marry is the daughter of the guy who murdered his father. He can't help but lash out at her because he feels a sense of betrayal. Moreover, Nivi is being lashed out because of guilt by association. Sid needed something to vent out his frustrations and he took it out on Nivi who was closest to her father.
After all, when you want to hurt a person, you might hurt that person by hurting another person. Sid probably can't directly yell at Keshav and so he does it through Nivi by being harsh with her. He's doing things the wrong way but that's just human.
Even Viren is accusing Nivi who had not been related at all to Bhuvan's death. That's how powerful the guilt by association is being used in this particular case.
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