Posted: 12 May 2011 at 4:48am | IP Logged
@Divya.. Just read all da pages.. nd i thnk u r making things up nd confusing each nd every1 in dis forum.. nd really sorry 4 being rude coz now i'm gonna tell watever i felt by reading all da pages..!!
1st of all i really did'nt get da staring thingy..
Its in ur mind dat guys stare at u wen they are'nt..
Do guys really stare at u all da time in school..
i thnk u stare at dem nd maybe they get irriated nd den starts looking back..!!!
If u will stare at dem den obviously they will also stare at u na..!!!
Nd if they r sad den its their persnal problem.. the whole world does'nt revolves around u so stop thinking dat watever is happening in dis world its all becoz of u..!!!
Watever u told.. IF its true den i must say dat now u r really immature nd the boys who wer in relationship with u r not at fault.. infact its U..!!!
Nd i really dont thnk dat they wer even in relationship with u..!!!
It was just 4rm ur side.. u thnk dat u r in relationship wen u r not..!!! U said dat u wer in relationship with da 1st guy for 5-6 years.. bt i dont thnk so.. i thnk he was just being ur friend nd he hav a hobby of flirting with gals just like he used to flirt with u bt it does'nt mean dat he is in Relationship with u OR he loves u..!!! Bt u thnk dat its LOVE or Relationship..!! U r mixing freindship with Love nd Relationship..!!!
1st u should know da meaning of Relationship.. nd den u should talk abt it..!!
Nd u hav a major Problem of communicating.. U dont hav da guts to confront da person whom u like or love Or watever..!!!
Read many people comments dat plzzz confront da person nd tell him abt his feelings bt again u ignore all da comments nd starts going on with ur Updates.. nd wen u see dat people stopped commenting den u came up dat i confessed my love bt da guy just looked at me nd went without saying anything Or u wer feeling shy so u went away..!!! Dont u thnk dat its quite repetitive in ur comments..???
Watever u told IF its true den i can only say dat its ur communication nd mind problem.. u really dont know how to communicate with any1 specially with those whom u like.. its really not boys fault..!!!
U should simply confront da guy nd tell him abt ur feelings towards him nd if he does'nt love u den simply Move on.. No need to cry out again nd again 4 dat nd no need to keep staring at him wen he does'nt love u..!!!
It is not compulsory dat if u love some1 den da other person also loves u..
Wat they can do if they dont love u nd just want to be ur friend bt u r enforcing ur love on dem nd
just coz of Ur love they starts ignoring u nd also leave ur friendship..!!!
Its your problem not theirs..!!!
1 more thing i observed den u wer continuously going on abt da 1st guy dat he stares at u.. simles at u.. etc etc..!!
Bt wen da 2nd guy asked u 4 going out u stopped giving update abt da 1st guy.. he is still in ur school na so is he not staring u anymore OR finally u hav stopped looking at him..?? Nd u went out with da 2nd guy only 1 time den how u can think dat u wer in relationship with him.. did he said dat we r in relationship with each other 4rm now on?.. OR did he keep in touch with u. coz after reading ur update its not looking like dat he contacted with u after dat.. Only u wer da 1 who wer trying to contact him..!!! Nd now u hav da same problem dat da 2nd guy too stares at u nd smiles at u bt dont talk with u.. (Dis is also repetitive..) Its a common thing dat da person whom we know.. if we see dem anywhere den we give a little smile bt u hav a problem with dat too..
U r too much immature to be in relationship at only 15 years.. 1st be a little mature den start getting into relationship.. specially wen ur parents allow U.. coz they know u more more den anything else..!!!
I'm simply telling watever i observed after reading ur comments in dis thread..!!!
Nd u will get da same problem if u will start getting into relationship with another guy..!!!
So simply leave all dis nd concentrate in ur studies or something else if u can..!!
At da end Very Very sorry 4 being soo rude bt i was'nt able to stop myself 4rm saying all dis.. i just said watever i felt by reading all da pages..!!!
Edited by Faraan_4_Shweta - 12 May 2011 at 12:27pm