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Monika__29

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Posted: 11 October 2010 at 4:30pm | IP Logged
yes ur right he does not seem like a good person

but is there a way i can tallk to him and he will tallk to me back

because know were in the same high school

we meet evrytime

so he walked by me and i asked why ur ingoring me

so he just looked at me  and wallked away


is there a way i can make him tallk to me again

pz plz

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do you value his friendship?
ask yourself why you want him to speak to you? just a crush? or something else?
only you know why you are so attracted so you need to work on it and find out what you really want ( just attention, some thing more?)

personally, i think he would not be worth it-i do not think you should hurt or pain because he cant be bothered to talk to you.

if you really want him to talk to you- do what koolkat97 told you to and if that doesnt work
 Move on...



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Posted: 11 October 2010 at 4:37pm | IP Logged
i kind of love him

we have been friends for 3-5 years

but know he is ingoring me



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Posted: 11 October 2010 at 4:49pm | IP Logged
and all this time i was thinking its just a crush LOL

if you've been friends for 3-4 years,  and he only started to ignore yu (past one year) that he maybe feeling contradictory feelings for you and that's something only he can say and feel... you really need to speak to him, its the only way to get the feelngs sorted. do it when no -ones around and be firm- ask what he wants/ feeling and tell him what ur feeling, because its not fair for him to give you mixed signals.
we cant really give much advice- as we dont know what hes going though.

if he still ignores you- just forget him. treat him as friend and just that- dont give him special treatment. you deserve better than that

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Posted: 11 October 2010 at 4:59pm | IP Logged
how can i move on

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Posted: 11 October 2010 at 5:04pm | IP Logged
that's what only you can decide- its your mind...

ask yourself- how can i stop thinking about him
people cope in diffrent ways
how do you cope with uneasy situations?
maybe you can remember what he's doing to you
or just stop looking at him
ignoring him so you dont think about hm
try to get involbed with friends more
do other things which preoccupy your mind


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Posted: 11 October 2010 at 5:04pm | IP Logged
we only meet at school and he does not tallk to me

even when he alone
he does not tallk to me

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Posted: 12 October 2010 at 1:33pm | IP Logged
This is some other guy, not the fellow you met in India, right? I remember your mentioning him and true love and if love can wait, in some topic in the Love forum the other day. Embarrassed

Okay, anyway - there are some people who are highly image conscious and do not like being seen with people not popular, if I may say that. Even if they like your company, their superiority blinds them enough not to notice that and hence, I suggest - either chuck him out or keep hoping for him to realize your importance. He may or may not but if you choose the latter, you will have to be real patient.

-Kankshita



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Posted: 12 October 2010 at 4:48pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Kanky-

This is some other guy, not the fellow you met in India, right? I remember your mentioning him and true love and if love can wait, in some topic in the Love forum the other day. Embarrassed

Okay, anyway - there are some people who are highly image conscious and do not like being seen with people not popular, if I may say that. Even if they like your company, their superiority blinds them enough not to notice that and hence, I suggest - either chuck him out or keep hoping for him to realize your importance. He may or may not but if you choose the latter, you will have to be real patient.

-Kankshita





ya sometimes i do think he's not tallking to me beacuse iam not popular

he hangs out with popular people

iam kinda a shy girl and i hang out with like nice people , u know a little nerdy types but still me and him are friends

but front of his popular friends he does not tallk with me


i just think thats harsh and mean if he is thinking this way.

what i will do is ingore until he does not tallk to me

but when he tallks to me
i want too say my feelings or give me a signal that i llike him


there is a party on november 13 he will be there
but he's friends are not going to be there

so should ingore him in the party or tallk to in the party

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