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What is selfess - Technically speaking as per dictionary

having little or no concern for oneself, esp. with regard to fame, position, money, etc.; unselfish.


Now my question

Whose love / concern was / is selfless -

armaan - Riddhima - Season 1 Riddhima and he were in a relationship They loved each other so effectively they wanted each other and each others happiness Hence can any of the acts be termed as selfless...... be it suicide bomb incident, taking a bullet for the other, fasting (this was done to get Shashanks appoval), etc etc etc They wanted to be togther

armaan - Post Lonavla - He says he did all to see Riddhima happy If she would be happy he says he would be Then why did he not walk away like he wanted to do earlier or just stop interfering??? Later Riddhima did the same stupidity ??? He did not do so cause he wanted to be a part of it cause he felt he was (Never understood the logic though)

What happened in the tent on the fateful night Is it selfless?
Now when he says a truth can save three lives .... Is it selfless?


Riddhima

Riddhima - with armaan - The same point written for armaan is applicable here

Riddhima - with Sid - Was she selfless ...... during first marriage time BIG NO She was saving her family and her honor

After armaan came back - BIG NO she was trying to do the right thing wanted to work on her marriage She saw a future with Sid.

Yes when she did separate from Sid for Naina Yuvi yes she was selfless and whom does she credit this to ....... refresh memories I shall not comment

Yes when she did separate from Sid ....... why ???? for his happiness

Yes when cleaned Sid's shoes, listened to all the taunts of her mom in law for whom

Riddhima was married to Sid on paper but was not involved with him in a relationship per say ....... is this selfless nature



Sid - Yes when he married Riddhima knowing well he will not be loved / will be always accused inspite of everything he married her for her and her family's sake He could have thought about himself he would not be jailed or no one could touch him ...... if he decided not to marry

Whenever he saved Riddhima - did not stand to benefit infact he would have died instead Is that selfless???

When he let go of her He did it cause he loved her and he wanted her happiness which in turn was his happiness Is it selfless ??? Why did he not just sign the divorce papers and walk away
or just stop being there for Riddhima ??? 

But yes ......... being honest about armaan issue was selfless act He wanted to the right thing He knew Riddhima would be hurt anywhich ways but she had the right to know ........(try understanding where I am coming from)

So who has been more Selfless ??? armaan Sid or Riddhima

Now finally so whose bond is stronger due to this selfless love or concern ????? armaan Riddhima  ???   or   Sid Riddhima ???



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Edited by dmg_dj - 27 September 2010 at 12:28am

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armaan was selfless till he turned psycho
R was never selfless
and so only sid is selfless

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Posted: 27 September 2010 at 12:19am | IP Logged
I agree with shamil. Armaan was once self-less. Season 1 DMG - I actually liked Armaan. However his latest butchered character is in no way selfless. Riddhima was never selfless - at least not as far as i can remember. Currently SId is the only one who loves and expects nothing in return. He is the epitome of self-less love.

Love is unconditional - which is something Sid harbors. Hence go SR!

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To discuss further ...... I feel armaan was not selfless when in relationship to Riddhima cause he expected love in return ........ He had expectations for himself

But not Sid

as for Riddhima she also in relationship with Sid did not expect much in return at points when she decided to part with Sid both times



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Armaan was selfless only when he tried to unite SR! I have said time and again that when u r in love, u will obviously do things that armaan did! Selfless is when you do not expect anything in return - And armaan did it to get ridhhima's love! Am not saying it was wrong..not at all... but how does tht make their story extraordinary? Had they continued with the SR and ARSH track, we would have got not 1 but 3 extraordinary stories in DMG!!! wat a closure it would have been!

While sid on the other hand, barely knew ridhhima, hell he even hated that woman at one point of time, he put his life at stake for her, not just by saving her from death but by marrying her and literally punished himself! That is a selfless act! Till date, he doesnt expect anything from ridhhima - just the fact tht he loves her and she is with him is enough!

Extraordinary is what SRK did for preity in kal ho na ho... What rishi kapoor did in deewana for divya bharti... what raj was ready to do for simran!

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Originally posted by rapunzel84

Armaan was selfless only when he tried to unite SR! I have said time and again that when u r in love, u will obviously do things that armaan did! Selfless is when you do not expect anything in return - And armaan did it to get ridhhima's love! Am not saying it was wrong..not at all... but how does tht make their story extraordinary? Had they continued with the SR and ARSH track, we would have got not 1 but 3 extraordinary stories in DMG!!! wat a closure it would have been!

While sid on the other hand, barely knew ridhhima, hell he even hated that woman at one point of time, he put his life at stake for her, not just by saving her from death but by marrying her and literally punished himself! That is a selfless act! Till date, he doesnt expect anything from ridhhima - just the fact tht he loves her and she is with him is enough!

Extraordinary is what SRK did for preity in kal ho na ho... What rishi kapoor did in deewana for divya bharti... what raj was ready to do for simran!


I completely agree with you..... as for when I said armaan was not selfless that I mean season 1

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Armaan he has been Selfless, in the past it was a quality I liked, esp in May when he could have been the way he is now but no he was selfless, but he didn't accept what he had decided so I guess that back tracks everything.

Riddhima - Meh! I can't be bothered to mention it.

Sid - Selfless, yes! But I will play devil's advocate and say he married Riddhima because of his mistakes, because their fights were bad before marriage, though Riddhima didn't help the situation but still it was his fault somewhere through it that Riddhima was being de-famed well the pictures. Riddhima shouting rape didn't help anyone esp not her. LOL But post marriage he has been nothing but Selfless, he has never wanted Riddhima to be somewhere she has been unhappy and has been willing to do anything to make her happy even divorce her.

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