^ Sri, I completely agree with you:) Its her decision and TA can just advise. But I have to disagree with you regs adimai. Its a big difference between being adimai and choose to be victim. None forced Lavanya to stay back at home, he clearly told her he doesn't like her to work but he didn't force his decision upon her cause she never did anything to show she badly wanted to work and had a confrontation with him. She could have put down her foot and says..i want to work and thats my final decision? Its her life hence her preference should be first priority. When he said he doesn't want her to work, she was just making faces and was complaining to her mother like kid..I didn't see any determination on her face like she really wanted to work, earn her own money, be independent woman and live her life and share her brothers burden

Anyway, TA should have respected her wish as an brother but he didn't. Neither did she protest against it so there is NO way its similar to adimai where womans are not allowed to work or be independent.

Btw, its out of the topic but I hope we can analyses TA-Lavanya sibling relationship one day. I found it too be very immature at times even though they have shown many beautiful scenes too

Mels, I know Lav. didn't take it too seriously, but that doesn't change what Thamizh did. He ripped up the letter and I don't see any proper reasons for him to not let Lav. work (other than the one mentioned by you - the old type, and it's still no good excuse).

Maybe I was a bit harsh equaling his action to treating them as adimai, but it's still wrong.

Ditto, Sri! Otherwise completely agree with you

As long as people let other people take decisions for them, they will be bound to depended on others. Wouldn't it be fun to see Lavs going to job now? Ta out of the house, Puvi not much interested in family drama and Sudha will be the queen of the house..Lavs will be forced to find a job

ADF - Why always Deepak and not Tamizharasu?