Originally posted by lovtv
I think at this point Aham is being stubborn. In his mind his perfect mate/saathiya is an educated modern woman. But there have been some instances where he is attracted to Gopi...remember the look on his face when he first saw her? He was mesmerized. He likes her against everything he believes. He is being hard on her because despite everything he believes (i.e she is unpar, jahill and a thief) he kind of likes her.
The more he likes her, the more he is angry with her about every little thing (I know I know...the laptop is not a little thing I would have killed her..my life is in my laptop) The more she tries to be nice to him the more he pushes away from her. The more his mom tries to tell him Gopi is good the more stubborn he gets. His struggle is not with Gopi but within himself, his feeling and attraction for her.
It is a classic harlequin romance or mills on boon (?) for those of you in India and UK. He will only fall in love with her and accept his love for her when he can no longer have her or believes he has lost her.
My fellow Saathiyas what are your thoughts?
Haven't seen today's episode yet. Still at work. :( BUT - from what I've read from all of you, it sounds like he does have a touch of the Darcy in him.
You've summed it up beautifully Shelley. It's an inner conflict for him. The scene where he first sees her, the fire scene, the look he gave her when he couldn't believe she would purposely blow up the cooker etc - these were not scenes where he was disgusted. Far from it. A man doesn't look at a woman like that if he hates her. He's running from himself and no one else. It would be easier for him (and us!) if she would just leave.
I'm going to guess that Rashi will turn the computer washing blame around, the jewelry being gone will be blamed on Gopi and she'll finally be tossed from the house. This may take a month or three or four to finally come to fruition, but... lol Only when she is gone will he realized what a complete jerk he has been. (Just think of all the flashback scenes we'll see when he comes to the realization that she indeed did mean something to him.)
So girls, since I haven't seen the epi yet, how did our Nazim look today?
Edited by saomom - 19 August 2010 at 7:29pm