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Posted: 09 August 2010 at 12:39am | IP Logged
Totally agree to the fact that being a housewife is not to be looked down upon, in fact I would say its the toughest job ever ! and I would most definitely not consider it derogatory...

My complaint is not about Anandi being a housewife/homemaker....Learning daily chores is perfectly fine, but she did just that not study is where the problem lies..and thats what bothers me !

So no offense meant whatsoever to anyone..and again I do respect everyone's views. Hope my view was not taken in a wrong sense..

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Posted: 09 August 2010 at 5:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by divyamathur

Frankly speaking nothing is justified in serials as such....not even this track !! Anandi was supposed to be a studious girl who was more interested in studying than anything else - time and again CV's have shown that..She used to read Jagya's books (even before Daadisa allowed her to give the exam), then when she burnt her hands she still gave the exams...and suddenly one day CV's decided she has to be a sacrificing aatma and she gave up her studies, when she was enrolled to go to full time school...

After which she was sent away to her maika...Why dint she study there? Daadisa was not around, her parents were never against her studying and moreover Bhairon was taking care of them when Khajan was in jail...why did she succumb to being just a doormat? talking to dolls and making pooris and ranting Jagya Jagya 24/7 ? not justified..and no matter what anyone says cannot be justified for me..

Now this stupid romantic track which is getting on my nerves...I can only hope that better sense prevails and Jagya asks Anandi to study..but I know this dayavaan Anandi would love to be a doormat of Daadisa and continue to irritate forever..Some day they will bring Jagya's second wife into the picture and vola you have the Love triangle, badle ki aag wali kahani..So unless they go back to showing some sensible stories like before it is going to be just another ghisi piti Ekta kapoor style serial...whose fate has always been an abrupt end...I hope this does not happen to BV as it is one of my most fav shows since the time it aired..always want it to stand out and be different from other shows currently on air.. But from the looks of the post leap track..it sure is going in that downward direction... Ouch
AGREEEEEEEE TOTALLY..But in    CVs ko kaun samjhye D'oh also another thing i cant accept is why bhairav didnt insist that anandi go   to school at least in her maika--they keep on giving saugandh to each other at the drop of a hat then why didnt he say,"tujhe thare baapusa ki saugandh,school jaa"because this mahaan athma understands only saugandh ki bhasha....

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Posted: 09 August 2010 at 12:08pm | IP Logged
@pjyo - Saugandh ki bhasha hahahaha sahi bola !!! Tujhe meri sau, mujhe teri sau and there you go...har koi apni baat manvaaleta hai !!! LOL LOL

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Posted: 09 August 2010 at 12:27pm | IP Logged
may be they started the serial keeping anandi n jagya in view but whole concept is never lost. they always showed that child marriages shouldn't exist. for instance take suguna, gehna, phooli, champa etc they never diverted from the main subject. so its ok to see the kids growing. may be they will add new stories or instances where children r getting married and bhairo like always stops that. lets see.

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Posted: 09 August 2010 at 12:36pm | IP Logged
deres anodr weddin of a kid dts nandu cmin up sooner or later

i find d shw soooo cool now!
neva watchd it b4 eva

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Posted: 09 August 2010 at 1:26pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by suchitra_1

I understand that many of you are frustrated with this.. But this is the reality very few people study.. and this is what htey are showing. How an ambitious life of a person.. has been effected.

But honestly.. I do not like it when people diss household chores... or make motherhood , house wife roles soo derogatory.

I understand where you all are coming from that, she should have studied. But thast that.. she should have studied ... do not mix her learning House hold activities as wasting time.

Its not something trivial , and when people choose to stay housewifes their lives are not wasted. There is a purpose in that too and its an honorable role to be a wife and a mother and a maintainer of the house.

Nothing to look down upon.


I personally believe that every woman should be educated. Cause if she is educated her children will be educated and thus raising a well-civilized nation.

I think its noble of women who look after their families even after gaining education and choose to do that. Its up to them if they wanna go and work. A working woman is no way better than a house wife both are different and important in their own ways.

So I would refrain from such comments and thinking to degrade women who do stay at home but are also educated.

Now Anandi.. was brainwashed, forced to stay home even though she didn't wish to initially and could have gained education.

But ... her 5 years of learning to maintain household is definitely not a waste and should not be mixed with her decision to stop learning.

Two different things.

Just trying to be fair here.... hope did not offend no one

hey i totally understand your point of view and personally looking down at a housewife taking care of a family would be like disrespecting my own mom--NEVER my intension,hope i clear that ...The reason iam so vociferous about anandi's education was because she was somebody who had a thirst for knowledge,for her books were everything.. .thats why iam more sad for her...
Even suguna stopped studying but for her learning was never a priority-for her it was an escape from her kothari so she took her books,sharpened a few pencils,went to school,found shyam on the route to school and forgot about school.I never expected her to keep studying as for her it was just timepass...
That is where anandi WAS different,look at her sadly reciting that poem at school ,her sorrow at loss of studying opportunity was so heartfelt Ouch
Yes there are many people who discontinue studying ,trust me i know that personally,many years later they regret it too.. She has a good family to take care for now but if something bad happens and dadisa throws her out wouldnt her life be easier with education.
She would then look at phooli and think "kaash maine bhi padhai poori kii hothi" ..In life bad things happen so its better ki " tum ithna kaabil bano ki apne pairon pe khade ho sako aur doosro ke saharay ki zaroorath na pade''

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