Originally posted by koolsadhu1000Loved your sarcasm.
So wonderful to read ur post !
U know what suprises me ? That whenever Krishna talks of consummation , he is regarded as a rapist It seems the ideal thing for a husband to do is.........
Look at his wife's face tukur tukur silently as she paces in the bedroom or sits upright with light on , thinking of her maayka's endless problems
It seems its BUT NATURAL for a husband to NOT be puzzled , irritated , angry at constant rejection from day one of marraige
He shud NEVER think of physical intimacy its TABOO in a marraige , the moment he thinks that way , he is some kinda weirdo
But not thinking of physical intimacy for LIFE is it seems is NOT being a weirdo
Shrinking from a mere hug from a husband and running with a harassed face although the poor dear has till now abided by all ur rules is not weird
Not wanting husband to even LOOK at u or share a chaddar with u is NOt weird
What exacty was the marraige Pratigya had in mind is a deep dark mystery , perhaps never to be found in the annals of any married life on this planet
Give and take is BAD . Take Take Take [ from womans side only ok] is GOOD .
Yesterday when he put condition so many were incensed .How dare he put condition this and that .........it seems the right to put aNY kind of condition is only HER monopoly [ just see the number of conditions she has laid till now . Unspoken , firm WEIRD rules which he MUST abide by .]
It seems good Prtigya pushed him away , a THIRD rape was stopped once more valiantly by her .. OMG . Really ? Just one push by a woman stops RAPE ? If the Rapist fully intends to do it , that is ?
The truth is Krishna was only trying to send her a message ...........That don't take me and our marraige for granted , bas . If he was that kind of a man he wud have destroyed her long back . Instead he loved her so much , so much , that he allowed her to emasculate himself instead . That was what he was referring to when he said Saand SE Bakri bana diya. But Na he shud NEVER speak about hIS feelings , it only has to be HER way , even in the conversation .
The underlined bit is so true but i guess a bit difficult to interpret as Baba talked about consummation. . As u said any attempt from his side in the direction of physical intimacy makes him a weirdo, abnormal and rapist