Hey this is a great topic...Love it coz its so true
So here goes my experience...Since only a couple of months married so I suppose u'd all like to know! (im not going into too much detail!!!
I knew my hubby for two years b4 the wedding, so that was the best part. we werent strangers and we knew each other quite well. It started arranged, bt we knew each other. Over time it became friendship and then gradually turned into love. How that happened, I dont know!! ***blushing***!!!!
So when we were doing the wedding preps, we were quite cool coz we both knew what each other wanted...(see my wedding toppic on F and B Forum...my diary is there!)
Coming to the wedding night, I got marrried in India, but I am from the UK, Hubby is from India; so it was new for me, especially in new surroundings.
The best part is, we werent at home that night, coz I think that can be very intimidating, esp the morning after...Imagine that !! :( :(
We went to a hotel, and the room was nicely arranged and with a few flowers, like bunches; rather than how you see it in films!! (again he knew which flowers I liked etc)
but basically, knowing each other is the key to it...Had somebody told me to marry him straight away, rather than wait the two years, than it would have been a completely different story!! There would have been a full stop even before the beginning!!!!
Let me know your thoughts!!!