Debate Mansion
Debate Mansion

India-Forums

   

Is it right to beat your wife? (Page 4)

CunningLinguist IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 29 November 2009
Posts: 10923

Posted: 26 June 2010 at 4:29pm | IP Logged
THE ACCOUNT OF THE MEMBER WHO POSTED THIS MESSAGE HAS BEEN TEMPORARILY BANNED.

If you think this is an error please Contact us.

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

Midnight_Shade

Jess. IF-Veteran Member
Jess.
Jess.

Joined: 07 February 2006
Posts: 13407

Posted: 26 June 2010 at 5:54pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

LOL  (sorry laughing at something else)

Anyway, let me rephrase to a more appropriate direction. Yes raising hand on others is always wrong. Is someone who raises their hand on another adult always a bad person? Or can people be forgiven for such mistakes? Should it always mean press charges?


Well, unless it was a spur of the moment thing. You dont have to press charges...
Like the couple is arguing and then hurtful accusations arise and then the man or woman slap their spouse. And then right away, if the person realizes that they just hit their spouse and that it was wrong and start to apologize and like "OMG" and all that...there is no need to press charges. The spouse who got slapped may be angry for a while (and should be!) but this is not something to go complain to the police before (if it was the first time). They can kiss and make-up after a while.


BUT, it if happens repeatedly...its a major problem.

It may happen once by accident, but if the person really regretted it, IT WILL NOT HAPPEN AGAIN.

If it happens repeatedly and your spouse says "it will not happen again" every single time, its a sign that it will continue.


The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

....Poojie....

return_to_hades IF-Veteran Member
return_to_hades
return_to_hades

Joined: 18 January 2006
Posts: 21524

Posted: 26 June 2010 at 6:12pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Jess.


Well, unless it was a spur of the moment thing. You dont have to press charges...
Like the couple is arguing and then hurtful accusations arise and then the man or woman slap their spouse. And then right away, if the person realizes that they just hit their spouse and that it was wrong and start to apologize and like "OMG" and all that...there is no need to press charges. The spouse who got slapped may be angry for a while (and should be!) but this is not something to go complain to the police before (if it was the first time). They can kiss and make-up after a while.


BUT, it if happens repeatedly...its a major problem.

It may happen once by accident, but if the person really regretted it, IT WILL NOT HAPPEN AGAIN.

If it happens repeatedly and your spouse says "it will not happen again" every single time, its a sign that it will continue.




Just to clarify, I by no means support physical abuse or think its ok to hit anyone - men or women. Grown ups should know better on how to handle temper.

My point is mistakes happen, and as you said people who are genuinely sorry will make up and never do it again. At the same time, I have seen some women take the 'physical abuse' thing way too extremely. Sometimes arguments get physical, as in not hitting but  like the 'don't leave' grabbing of hands, 'don't walk away when I am talking to you grab' or 'leave me alone for now' push or 'you are not leaving till we sort this' block. A person is not trying to hit or be abusive, but can actually be very emotional at the moment. Is it always abuse?

Also where does other stuff like banging doors, breaking objects, throwing stuff, fit in. Its not really hitting someone - but its a lot of physical venting. It can be frightening to watch and especially when kids are around - it is a very unhealthy atmosphere.
*Woh Ajnabee* IF-Sizzlerz
*Woh Ajnabee*
*Woh Ajnabee*

Joined: 15 September 2007
Posts: 22979

Posted: 26 June 2010 at 7:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades



Also where does other stuff like banging doors, breaking objects, throwing stuff, fit in. Its not really hitting someone - but its a lot of physical venting. It can be frightening to watch and especially when kids are around - it is a very unhealthy atmosphere.


It doesn't. He better get used to that. Evil SmileLOL
Beyond_the_Veil IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 12 February 2008
Posts: 11596

Posted: 26 June 2010 at 10:36pm | IP Logged
THE ACCOUNT OF THE MEMBER WHO POSTED THIS MESSAGE HAS BEEN TEMPORARILY BANNED.

If you think this is an error please Contact us.
-Believe- IF-Stunnerz
-Believe-
-Believe-

Joined: 03 December 2005
Posts: 27081

Posted: 26 June 2010 at 11:24pm | IP Logged

Tiger wood: Women may not hit harder, but they hit lowerWink

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

Meena1

Beyond_the_Veil IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 12 February 2008
Posts: 11596

Posted: 27 June 2010 at 3:11am | IP Logged
THE ACCOUNT OF THE MEMBER WHO POSTED THIS MESSAGE HAS BEEN TEMPORARILY BANNED.

If you think this is an error please Contact us.
-Believe- IF-Stunnerz
-Believe-
-Believe-

Joined: 03 December 2005
Posts: 27081

Posted: 27 June 2010 at 4:06am | IP Logged
Originally posted by PhoeniXof_Hades

Originally posted by Believe

Tiger wood: Women may not hit harder, but they hit lowerWink


Experienced much? LOL


 
Lol No.............use the Bullet proof pants avoid the hits!!!Big smile

Go to top

Related Topics

  Topics Author Replies Views Last Post
It's okay to slap your wife

2 3 4 5 6 7 ... 26 27

Author: Beyond_the_Veil   Replies: 208   Views: 12256

Beyond_the_Veil 208 12256 23 August 2009 at 9:28am by return_to_hades
Secrets between husband and wife

2 3 4

Author: JhoomBJhoom   Replies: 27   Views: 2824

JhoomBJhoom 27 2824 14 September 2007 at 9:24am by nitasuni
Will bermuda be able to beat Bangladesh?

2 3

Author: usachick821   Replies: 19   Views: 1099

usachick821 19 1099 25 March 2007 at 4:52pm by qwertyesque
Will Bermuda be able to beat Bangladesh?

Author: usachick821   Replies: 0   Views: 375

usachick821 0 375 23 March 2007 at 4:12pm by usachick821
Women:Mom/wife/daughter v/s proffesional.

2 3

Author: d_s_g_   Replies: 17   Views: 1209

d_s_g_ 17 1209 19 February 2007 at 6:26am by Too_Much

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category / Channels
Forums

Debate Mansion Topic Index

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.

Popular Channels :
Star Plus | Zee TV | Sony TV | Colors TV | SAB TV | Life OK

Quick Links :
Top 100 TV Celebrities | Top 100 Bollywood Celebs | About Us | Contact Us | Advertise | Forum Index