Posted: 22 June 2010 at 1:59pm | IP Logged
Wow this thread. Okay, everyone I really think everyone should relax first of all. Take a deep breathe and just calm down. It isnt going to help anyone if you all equally use a harsh tone and post, for a lack of better words, harshly. So just calm it kermits
. I understand the issues everyone is having. Frankly I wouldnt even have noticed this thread if I hadnt come here to post an idea I had for IF
(Which by the way ROCKS and you all can read it after i post here
). Now because Im also a MJHT forum member, and a DT member too I feel i have a right to speak up here
, so here it goes.
Originally posted by PARACHUTE
So i assume this post will be analysed and knit picked on each word.. ?
Somebody could of told me i was being so discussed openly on the forums for so loong..
This is properbly going to the be the only reply you'll get from me here, unless i feel the need to explain myself further.
I think i do my job as professionally as i can. I've done everything on bases of a non biased and outsider mod. If you don't like me or the rules which i did not make, then its not my problem. I-F sets COCs and MJHT has its own rules made by CMs. I don't think the forum should be treated differently due to the dramatic change in the forum... If you don't follow the rules, clearly we are going to colide. I can't walk along with you if you won't walk alongside with me.
I've always treated everyone fairly. I was getting tons of PMs from sajan and mjht fans who asked for so many threads to discuss their couples in, but i refused that because it was not fair. it was then questioned why so many mayur/rati threads were made on bases on things like dialouge, and scenes, clearly when all that can be done in one.
Why was there a need for so many rati topics when clearly the DT has made so many topics for the actress?
Fair enough you say "you were discussing seprate things" but hold on - seprate things which mean the same as other topics, but worded differently? Whats the point in that?
You all were calling me biased and practically bashing me in your hang outs and here.. but please see this:
Similar much? .. i did what i had to do. Sorry if you don't like it, but i can't change the rules for you or myself.
I closed Nids topic based on the date it was created, the first link was made 5th June so it stays but nids topic is closed.
Also, at the moment, i'm one the only mods on the mjht team who are active. Avani & gagan are going through personal issues, Preeti has to balance her star one channels and Star Plus forums, and Mahi & Ravs are inactive.
You've got to be pateint with me cause clearly nobody bothered to update me on things going on in the forum after i came back, as they were all away.
You know yourself that the Updates were not being done for the whole of the time i was away. I came back and quite crudely sorted everything sort with them, and i had to find new updaters who would not betray the DT when they were not around. =|
If you all jump on my back at once, its not going to get things done any quicker,
Sorry if this is satire, but i love how all the members who hated me has shown up again and have quoted my old old replies which go back to early this year or last year. Was that not dusted and closed off?
Problem with my tone? i don't see anything wrong with it, its just as same as yours, I wasn't born from Mars or Venus that i should have a different tone. I'm human just like you. And the people who DO FOLLOW THE RULES intend to like my tone and my decisions.
am i god like? No, i'm clearly just doing what i feel is the right thing..
at the moment, i think the ones who are wrong and are blinded by fandom, are all of you who do not see the corruption this is causing.
- DB =)
@ the MJHT forum members with the complaints: You guys have every right to speak up if you have a problem with any of your forums DT members. It is your right. Because that forum is just as much YOURS as it is theirs. However, it doesnt mean we speak harshly about the member in question either
. If you all had an issue, it was frankly smart to go ahead and make a post like this. But speaking in a rude, harsh tone isnt going to stregthen your case
. Constructive Criticism you guys, is what would have been best in this case. Right?
@ DB: DB I understand that you feel like you are always being targeted but i just think its the way you go about making posts. You were very much a Rati fan we all know that, but with the constant closing of Rati topics that yes some are repeated but others that members have a right to post beign closed, members complaints were bound to happen. In this post you just made that i quoted, In my opinion you had a harsh tone. First, yes Mahi is inactive however Ravjot isnt. Second, yes you did come back after a long absense and you may have felt things that you normally do werent being done. I dont know about all of that, but all i know is that all the Dt members were taking care of forum to the best of their ability. Yes they were busy so extra things might not have been done, however the necessary items were being taken care of very well. So i dont feel it was right to say things werent being done. Third, you said that, "I came back and quite crudely sorted everything sort with them, and i had to find new updaters who would not betray the DT when they were not around. =|" I dont think that was called for. Saying DT or updaters betrayed. They may have had their own reasons for not updating, but to say they betrayed wasnt right. Lastly, your tone at times is harsh. You may not intend it hwoever it comes out that way. I think that might be the reason for things turning out badly all the time.
The only thing i want to add is that GM's CM's and whoever is involved will help in taking care of the issues that have been brought up. I just ask as a member and DT member that everyone be a little calmer in their approaches and know that the BEST thing will be done.