Wah..Wah...badey badey ppl are back here.. First of all, great to see u here, Naveen
I'm back with my take on yest's epi. Naveen, it isn't specific to ur post at all. I'm glad that u're liking this SG track.
Its purely my POV. Sorry, if i hurt any one of u with it.
Well...tbh, i'm confused. Not confused in my own POV..but in a sense, confused abt wat the CVs are trying to do and show.
For me...those 2 ppl in the epi yest, and since this "back to college days" scenario has started.. they are NOT SG. They can't be SG of "Season 2"..Yes, if that was S1, this all wud have been sooo soooo beautiful and adorable. But NOW...i'm sorry, but i cannot relate wid them. I just CANNOT!!!
If other things weren't enuf, the main factor that is making SG strangers for me, are the dialogues.
The first scene...sam saying, "in the last 3 years, when u weren't wid me i didn't find anyone who cud give me peace of mind n all"...wat did that mean?? If he found ANY other girl, he wud've forgotten Gunjan??!!! And then Gunjan saying.."tumhi meri zindagi mein wapis wohi khushbo aur rang le ke aye ho.." Is she sure that he's back in her life?? If this is the case, why isn't she accepting it?? WHY isn't she seeing his pain?? We've always said, that SG don't needs words to express themselves. And now, even if Sam or Ash or any XYZ person doesn't tell Gunjan abt Sam...her own heart knows that if she suffered, Sam might be in depper pain. But NO...there is no such thing happening here.
Then Sam asked her to move ahead from where they left 3 years ago. Are the CVs sure...SAM ought to ask this...shudn't it be Gunjan??? She closed her heart's doors for Sam coz she blved he took her sister away from her. Now, her sister is back, whom she knows and believes is her sister. Shudn't she be guilty now..for wat all she did wid Sam?? Instead of saying that "yeh doori bhi mujhey tum ne hi di hai..." Yes...he has given this to her...but he hasn't give this to her ONLY..he has given this loneliness to HIMSELF also. He took away her life, her sister from her.. but for that he also got punished for 3 long years. And now, when her sister is alive...again, Sam is saying to move ahead..and not Gunjan??!!! No regret, no awkwardness..nothing at all. These questions from Sam really pissed me off. Had Gunjan asked this..i wud surely have been happy.
Maybe, i'm over reacting...but seriously, my mind is NOT accepting this. How can Sam say, "mein sab kuch theek ker dun ga??" Why will HE do it...I mean, isn't he ALREADY doing it?? He has tried to do it since the day he saw Gunjan in S2.. Sometimes, like SSC..sometimes, by getting close to her, and sometimes, by irritating her. This is wat he has been doing till now. To make everything good, infact, best for her.
I think, we were right..ALL the MJHT characters as well as the CVs are suffering from amnesia? They don't even remember wat they've shown to us till now..till the time there weren't any traces of Nupur. Now, all of a sudden, Gunjan has become sooo chirpy...she's giving Sam his engagement ring back, in a way as if its some ordinary thing. And he's bringing his finger forward too. Maan gayi CVs ko!!! They've literally damaged MY brain cells.
The main problem that I'm having is...i don't see Gunjan having ANY regret. She's talking of her pain, her loneliness, her suffering...and i am not at all ready to accept that she doesn't know how Sam cud be, or WAS after she left him. Even then, she's saying and thinking about herself only. Where is that Gunjan, who said in the baby track that "even if the baby is urs, i'll stand by u"...coz she knew, Sam will never run away from his commitment..and now she's saying..i'll come back to u, if and when my di gets her memory back. WATEVER...we soooo didn't want this. Gunjan going back to Sam coz of Nupur's return and not by seeing HIS pain. Atleast, I never wanted this. I wrote a whole, stupid, OS on how i wanted to see things (not exactly, ofcourse..but essense wise in a similar way)
Tell me one thing girls...wat if Nups didn't come back *sigh*...Wud Gunjan never forgive Sam then?? No..that can never happen. She had to go back to him, coz she still loves him and has loved him wid every breath that she took in those 3 yrs too. There, she wud've seen and felt his pain...and here, she's only talking abt me, me n me. This is NOT the Gunjan that I know. She saying, i'll wear my engagement ring after di becomes normal again (is it possible
)... This left me screaming...Did i miss any epi...When did Gunjan get her ring back?? Didn't she return it to Sam?? If i was in her place, i wud'nt have been able to look in the eyes of the guy with whom I broke the relationship, said soooo harsh things to him, balmed him, cursed him. Yes...after going through a guilt process, after apologizing..IF the person forgave me..only then, i wud've been able to come out of all that. And i expected the CVs to show Gunjan in a similar way..coz this is the selfless, emotional and sensible Gunjan that I know.
And that Dhakkan...i know that after Nups has come back, the scanrio has changed...but b/w SG, it hasn't. How can Sam do all this...ask for engagement rings,,talk of going for drives??? Yes, that "look at me" scene was when Nups wasn't back...but that doesn't mean that the equation b/w SG changed. The distance is lessened, but it IS there. And i'm sorry, i cudn't see any SUCH distance. If there were glimpses of it..the next moment, they were back to being comfy n normal. Except for the end, when Gunjan went out of the room.
After all this blabbering..i just have one hope now. And that Naveen, u'v also mentioned. There's only ONE way, i see, in which Gunjan can still see Sam's pain. And that comes from the stupid engagement ring scene. Gunjan didn't wear her engagement ring back...Now, if they come to know that there isn't any memory issue wid Nups and that she never came back to her sis despite surviving in that accident and being fit n fine...only then, Gunjan will be shattered. And then, she will realize wat all she did wid Sam was very wrong. Her own sister ditched her, and she punished Sam for no reason. Also...can i still hope that Ash will tell Gunji abt Sam...ya phir, have partial amnesia and forget that Ash ever Saw sam completely broken??
P.S: I'm posting this same in Aahana's post (with the necessary editing, of course
). Am too lazy to type the same things again
Edited by ayesha_80 - 27 August 2010 at 5:00am