Originally posted by: an12345678@Anu: There looks like I gave a lamba speech π Your mind seems to be wandering near me, that is why my mind copying yours π.
"Suhana needs to come out of her cushioned spoilt brat existence....and that will happen ultimately ofcourse,"
For that to happen, someone needs to sit with her and do some straight-talking. The thought of Badi-Ma that she will realize on her own won't do. Ishaan's burst-out like today also won't work. At the moment, she is completely aloof. Khaya, piya, soya in AC kind π
Originally posted by: --Anu--That's what I mentioned in my other post that Suhana should have at-least acknowledged their effort and thanked them. But she wasn't expecting this and was taken by surprise. She knows what kind of food Kashyap family eats on a daily basis and also her friends taste. She didn't want to bother them for her friends sake. Till now Suhana doesn't consider them as her own folks, she is just living with them under the same roof which is a big compromise for her. She felt badiMa's pain as she sees a mother in her. But she has not special bond or connection with any other family member.
Originally posted by: an12345678
I believe, one has some kind of inferiority complex when they feel, they are not enough loved, or people do not appreciate them. Do not think, it's the case here.
Suhana is the youngest bahu, and in Indian culture, a certain kind of respect exists between the elder brother-in-law and the youngest bahu. And, a wife won't like if that respect is not given to her husband.
I do not see any kind of competition, they just want that everyone is treated equally. They have made Suhana part of their lives, that is why they cooked food for her friends, but has Suhana done the same?
Ambrosia I was thinking on the same line today after the initial Jahtka, when thought about it rationally, they should not have over done it which they did, nobody cook desi foods when character like those comes, I mean when my 15 year old invite his friends i dont make Biryani, they should have asked " Tumahari Sahailiyo ko Kiya pasand Hai" simple, then 2 people extra , big deal. Suhana was wrong in a way of at least not saying "ARAI AAP LOGGON NAI KIYON TAKLEEF KI" so they are off, RAdah Bua dealt with it reasonabbly well, they wanted Wah Wah , Suhana was wrong and they were not right either from the start they should have asked , thats what people usually do ask what one e,s guest would like to eat, its very common sense.Originally posted by: Ambrosia
It was Rajni and Disha's fault that a war has broken out in the family. Maybe badi ma or Rano doesn't know the living standards of filthy rich people but at least they have some clue. Both of them met Suli Sudhi before and honestly even an outsider who has never interacted to those girls can say that they have never seen desi food let alone eat it.
How much more did they cook anyway? Just 2 people extra were supposed to be coming for dinner. But they are reacting as if the whole town was invited and so much of their food will be wasted now.
I felt their anger was directed to the fact that Suhana didn't acknowledge their cooking skills like ishika has. If Suhana had said " woww di its tastyyy awesomeeee" then there wouldn't have been an issue at all.
Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth
Sometimes you have to compliment a family member, just to make them happy and maintain harmony in the house.
Originally posted by: an12345678@Anu: I think the outburst was more to do with his own hurt ego, and the thought that Suhana is trying to convert him into some kind Super-Sid, than presenting bhabies grievances.
@--Anu--: Looks like we both in opposite camps π Will continue our discussion tomorrow if the situation remains the same, which I very much doubt. π Time to hit the bed. π
Originally posted by: --Anu--
If we are in same camp, then it be chatting not discussion. π
Originally posted by: venture
Well said Annu, Arai Yaar drama hai, janai do " AGGAI AAGAI DEKAHI JAA HOTA HAI KIYA"
Thats why I just saw few episodes of Bhaskar Bharti to just cool down my Gussa on Suhanaπ. She will come around very soon may be in two more months or so and more DISCUSSIONS like that , who is right or who is wrong. Keep DISCUSSING I AM ENJOYINGπ
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