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Posted: 28 May 2010 at 4:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tanthya

Originally posted by saavie

Originally posted by tanthya

I would say that Nainaji is a very good Human being ,whose heart contains a capacity to love everyone  unconditionally .....She is both a good mother and MIL ....

If she took stern action against  adharsh ,then  it was she who  was the first to come and enquire  as to why Adharsh was going hungry ....if she  supported  Aarushi by sayig that she was a little Girl..then she was the first person to condemn aarishi's action during jalsa ...even when SS dragging Prats ,,it was Naina who instigates Saxena.sr to help Pratigya ...



As a mother in Law ,She understands Komal's fears and insecurities , and tries to counsel her ..and she tries to teach her the Sanskar of the house without being dominating  or being rude....She tries to make Komal comfortable without seeming Patronizing

yes I know that she is a good human being.....but  at the time she is overly favouring her bahu and damad.....I just ask you one thing , if  Adarsh  slaps  Komal  in front of everyone and  that's  too  komal  deserves  that  slap  then,  can she  say  komal  that  " So  what  if  Adarsh  has  slept you  ,  afterall  he  is  your  husband....."  When  a  good  human  being  talk  about  moral values  and  sanskar  then  they  should  apply  them  to everyone....In my sense  naina ji  actually  scared of  komal  and  krishna  and  her fear  has  overcome  her  true personality in front of them.......has she ever realised from Adarsh perspective  , how much pain will be there in his heart after loosing Rolly  ....how he will be feeling  to have his life with a girl like komal....from  my perspective its really  Adarsh  who is the real gem of saxena's  family....


But Adarsh's has always been taught to respect females ...So if does Slap ...then it would be like a big crime ,while in Krishna's Household ,beating women is like having pakora,samosa's for tea ..it is no big deal for them. ...we have to take that into consideration...shudn't we ??

As for Naina supporting the Thakurs ...She realises that the Thakurs have led a closed existence and are not in touch with reality ,so it would be a waste of time expecting them  to behave sensibly ,but in the case of her kids ,she has taught them the ABC of relationships ,sanskaar's and she expects them to understand  that and tackle their relationship

And Roli ...the A-R affair did not even take off ...it was a mutual liking  made all the more desirable since it is now unattainable ...and the thakur's did not pressurize Adarsh ,he made the decision HIMSELF ...so If he got his sum wrong ...That is not Naina's Fault ...

Infact I  had not watched this programme from starting.....so don't know  why  Adarsh  married with that silly girl.....yes you are right that there is no use to teach those people as this would be a waste of time , but there was no use to slap Adarsh  infront of everyone  as there are more other ways to handle the situation.....isn't   it ? And also she should not  have said pratigya that krishna is your husband and so what if he had slapped you.....these words from her shows that  she has no respect for her children's dignity.....she should handle the things by adopting more matured ways  then I will consider her a good human being.....

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Originally posted by saavie

Originally posted by tanthya

Originally posted by saavie

Originally posted by tanthya

I would say that Nainaji is a very good Human being ,whose heart contains a capacity to love everyone  unconditionally .....She is both a good mother and MIL ....

If she took stern action against  adharsh ,then  it was she who  was the first to come and enquire  as to why Adharsh was going hungry ....if she  supported  Aarushi by sayig that she was a little Girl..then she was the first person to condemn aarishi's action during jalsa ...even when SS dragging Prats ,,it was Naina who instigates Saxena.sr to help Pratigya ...



As a mother in Law ,She understands Komal's fears and insecurities , and tries to counsel her ..and she tries to teach her the Sanskar of the house without being dominating  or being rude....She tries to make Komal comfortable without seeming Patronizing

yes I know that she is a good human being.....but  at the time she is overly favouring her bahu and damad.....I just ask you one thing , if  Adarsh  slaps  Komal  in front of everyone and  that's  too  komal  deserves  that  slap  then,  can she  say  komal  that  " So  what  if  Adarsh  has  slept you  ,  afterall  he  is  your  husband....."  When  a  good  human  being  talk  about  moral values  and  sanskar  then  they  should  apply  them  to everyone....In my sense  naina ji  actually  scared of  komal  and  krishna  and  her fear  has  overcome  her  true personality in front of them.......has she ever realised from Adarsh perspective  , how much pain will be there in his heart after loosing Rolly  ....how he will be feeling  to have his life with a girl like komal....from  my perspective its really  Adarsh  who is the real gem of saxena's  family....


But Adarsh's has always been taught to respect females ...So if does Slap ...then it would be like a big crime ,while in Krishna's Household ,beating women is like having pakora,samosa's for tea ..it is no big deal for them. ...we have to take that into consideration...shudn't we ??

As for Naina supporting the Thakurs ...She realises that the Thakurs have led a closed existence and are not in touch with reality ,so it would be a waste of time expecting them  to behave sensibly ,but in the case of her kids ,she has taught them the ABC of relationships ,sanskaar's and she expects them to understand  that and tackle their relationship

And Roli ...the A-R affair did not even take off ...it was a mutual liking  made all the more desirable since it is now unattainable ...and the thakur's did not pressurize Adarsh ,he made the decision HIMSELF ...so If he got his sum wrong ...That is not Naina's Fault ...

Infact I  had not watched this programme from starting.....so don't know  why  Adarsh  married with that silly girl.....yes you are right that there is no use to teach those people as this would be a waste of time , but there was no use to slap Adarsh  infront of everyone  as there are more other ways to handle the situation.....isn't   it ? And also she should not  have said pratigya that krishna is your husband and so what if he had slapped you.....these words from her shows that  she has no respect for her children's dignity.....she should handle the things by adopting more matured ways  then I will consider her a good human being.....


Same here ,Saavie ...even I have not watched this serial from beginning....I am just going through the various posts  and collecting ...

You are absolutely Right ! Smile

 But when you think from Naina's perspective  ..You will understand her actions much better

 ...He was her pride and Joy ,He was the reflection of her successful upbringing ,of her sanskaar ,she had complete trust in her son's character,integrity ...so Imagine her state of mind ,Shocked when  she learns her son's deeds ,about whom she was enormously proud was secretly harboring  love for a girl whom they considered to be their daughter  [indirectly making her his sister!!Confused ],Her world would have crashed down ..and in that passion ,in the heat of the moment she slapped him ..
!!!

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Posted: 28 May 2010 at 5:10am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tanthya

Originally posted by saavie

Originally posted by tanthya

Originally posted by saavie

Originally posted by tanthya

I would say that Nainaji is a very good Human being ,whose heart contains a capacity to love everyone  unconditionally .....She is both a good mother and MIL ....

If she took stern action against  adharsh ,then  it was she who  was the first to come and enquire  as to why Adharsh was going hungry ....if she  supported  Aarushi by sayig that she was a little Girl..then she was the first person to condemn aarishi's action during jalsa ...even when SS dragging Prats ,,it was Naina who instigates Saxena.sr to help Pratigya ...



As a mother in Law ,She understands Komal's fears and insecurities , and tries to counsel her ..and she tries to teach her the Sanskar of the house without being dominating  or being rude....She tries to make Komal comfortable without seeming Patronizing

yes I know that she is a good human being.....but  at the time she is overly favouring her bahu and damad.....I just ask you one thing , if  Adarsh  slaps  Komal  in front of everyone and  that's  too  komal  deserves  that  slap  then,  can she  say  komal  that  " So  what  if  Adarsh  has  slept you  ,  afterall  he  is  your  husband....."  When  a  good  human  being  talk  about  moral values  and  sanskar  then  they  should  apply  them  to everyone....In my sense  naina ji  actually  scared of  komal  and  krishna  and  her fear  has  overcome  her  true personality in front of them.......has she ever realised from Adarsh perspective  , how much pain will be there in his heart after loosing Rolly  ....how he will be feeling  to have his life with a girl like komal....from  my perspective its really  Adarsh  who is the real gem of saxena's  family....


But Adarsh's has always been taught to respect females ...So if does Slap ...then it would be like a big crime ,while in Krishna's Household ,beating women is like having pakora,samosa's for tea ..it is no big deal for them. ...we have to take that into consideration...shudn't we ??

As for Naina supporting the Thakurs ...She realises that the Thakurs have led a closed existence and are not in touch with reality ,so it would be a waste of time expecting them  to behave sensibly ,but in the case of her kids ,she has taught them the ABC of relationships ,sanskaar's and she expects them to understand  that and tackle their relationship

And Roli ...the A-R affair did not even take off ...it was a mutual liking  made all the more desirable since it is now unattainable ...and the thakur's did not pressurize Adarsh ,he made the decision HIMSELF ...so If he got his sum wrong ...That is not Naina's Fault ...

Infact I  had not watched this programme from starting.....so don't know  why  Adarsh  married with that silly girl.....yes you are right that there is no use to teach those people as this would be a waste of time , but there was no use to slap Adarsh  infront of everyone  as there are more other ways to handle the situation.....isn't   it ? And also she should not  have said pratigya that krishna is your husband and so what if he had slapped you.....these words from her shows that  she has no respect for her children's dignity.....she should handle the things by adopting more matured ways  then I will consider her a good human being.....


Same here ,Saavie ...even I have not watched this serial from beginning....I am just going through the various posts  and collecting ...

You are absolutely Right ! Smile

 But when you think from Naina's perspective  ..You will understand her actions much better

 ...He was her pride and Joy ,He was the reflection of her successful upbringing ,of her sanskaar ,she had complete trust in her son's character,integrity ...so Imagine her state of mind ,Shocked when  she learns her son's deeds ,about whom she was enormously proud was secretly harboring  love for a girl whom they considered to be their daughter  [indirectly making her his sister!!Confused ],Her world would have crashed down ..and in that passion ,in the heat of the moment she slapped him ..
!!!
I will like to say that don't entangle  the relations.....I mean  ,  there are many people in the world who consider their daughter-in-law  as  their  daughter , so according to you  those people are  indirectly saying that  their son and  daughter - in - law  are  brother  and sisters.....so it doesn't make any sense.....if naina ji consider  rolly  her daughter then it does not mean that Adarsh will also consider her as his  sister.....Adarsh is not bond to think like that....... 

Edited by saavie - 28 May 2010 at 5:14am

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I Beg ur Pardon !!

Brother - sister ...when I meant Bro-sis ..I meant Adarsh - Roli ...The Saxena's consider Roli as their daughter ...then by extension ,Roli becomes His Sis .....

and Remember ...Naina and Prof ...will always be saying ..Roli <Hamareliye Aarushi ,Pratigya ke tarah hai >....Naturalyy ,the family will be shocked when they realise that Adarsh does not consider Roli as his behen...

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Posted: 28 May 2010 at 5:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by saavie

Originally posted by tanthya

Originally posted by saavie

Originally posted by tanthya

Originally posted by saavie

Originally posted by tanthya

I would say that Nainaji is a very good Human being ,whose heart contains a capacity to love everyone  unconditionally .....She is both a good mother and MIL ....

If she took stern action against  adharsh ,then  it was she who  was the first to come and enquire  as to why Adharsh was going hungry ....if she  supported  Aarushi by sayig that she was a little Girl..then she was the first person to condemn aarishi's action during jalsa ...even when SS dragging Prats ,,it was Naina who instigates Saxena.sr to help Pratigya ...



As a mother in Law ,She understands Komal's fears and insecurities , and tries to counsel her ..and she tries to teach her the Sanskar of the house without being dominating  or being rude....She tries to make Komal comfortable without seeming Patronizing

yes I know that she is a good human being.....but  at the time she is overly favouring her bahu and damad.....I just ask you one thing , if  Adarsh  slaps  Komal  in front of everyone and  that's  too  komal  deserves  that  slap  then,  can she  say  komal  that  " So  what  if  Adarsh  has  slept you  ,  afterall  he  is  your  husband....."  When  a  good  human  being  talk  about  moral values  and  sanskar  then  they  should  apply  them  to everyone....In my sense  naina ji  actually  scared of  komal  and  krishna  and  her fear  has  overcome  her  true personality in front of them.......has she ever realised from Adarsh perspective  , how much pain will be there in his heart after loosing Rolly  ....how he will be feeling  to have his life with a girl like komal....from  my perspective its really  Adarsh  who is the real gem of saxena's  family....


But Adarsh's has always been taught to respect females ...So if does Slap ...then it would be like a big crime ,while in Krishna's Household ,beating women is like having pakora,samosa's for tea ..it is no big deal for them. ...we have to take that into consideration...shudn't we ??

As for Naina supporting the Thakurs ...She realises that the Thakurs have led a closed existence and are not in touch with reality ,so it would be a waste of time expecting them  to behave sensibly ,but in the case of her kids ,she has taught them the ABC of relationships ,sanskaar's and she expects them to understand  that and tackle their relationship

And Roli ...the A-R affair did not even take off ...it was a mutual liking  made all the more desirable since it is now unattainable ...and the thakur's did not pressurize Adarsh ,he made the decision HIMSELF ...so If he got his sum wrong ...That is not Naina's Fault ...

Infact I  had not watched this programme from starting.....so don't know  why  Adarsh  married with that silly girl.....yes you are right that there is no use to teach those people as this would be a waste of time , but there was no use to slap Adarsh  infront of everyone  as there are more other ways to handle the situation.....isn't   it ? And also she should not  have said pratigya that krishna is your husband and so what if he had slapped you.....these words from her shows that  she has no respect for her children's dignity.....she should handle the things by adopting more matured ways  then I will consider her a good human being.....


Same here ,Saavie ...even I have not watched this serial from beginning....I am just going through the various posts  and collecting ...

You are absolutely Right ! Smile

 But when you think from Naina's perspective  ..You will understand her actions much better

 ...He was her pride and Joy ,He was the reflection of her successful upbringing ,of her sanskaar ,she had complete trust in her son's character,integrity ...so Imagine her state of mind ,Shocked when  she learns her son's deeds ,about whom she was enormously proud was secretly harboring  love for a girl whom they considered to be their daughter  [indirectly making her his sister!!Confused ],Her world would have crashed down ..and in that passion ,in the heat of the moment she slapped him ..
!!!
I will like to say that don't entangle  the relations.....I mean  ,  there are many people in the world who consider their daughter-in-law  as  their  daughter , so according to you  those people are  indirectly saying that  their son and  daughter - in - law  are  brother  and sisters.....so it doesn't make any sense.....if naina ji consider  rolly  her daughter then it does not mean that Adarsh will also consider her as his  sister.....Adarsh is not bond to think like that....... 
that's what I  actually want to say that she has blind faith on her sanskars that she even  not taking the  things practically ......

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Posted: 28 May 2010 at 5:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tanthya


I Beg ur Pardon !!

Brother - sister ...when I meant Bro-sis ..I meant Adarsh - Roli ...The Saxena's consider Roli as their daughter ...then by extension ,Roli becomes His Sis .....

and Remember ...Naina and Prof ...will always be saying ..Roli <Hamareliye Aarushi ,Pratigya ke tarah hai >....Naturalyy ,the family will be shocked when they realise that Adarsh does not consider Roli as his behen...
Sorry dear  I am not much convinced with your thought ...... for example  my father considered my friends like his daughter but one of my friend is my Bhabhi (married to my brother).....so if I  think like you  then that relation is also wrong according to you......I mean naina ji and prof can't  put that relation onto their son.....it's their fault  if  they  expect  from their son that he should also  think  rolly as his  sister.....

Edited by saavie - 28 May 2010 at 5:39am

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@ Saavie : The Saxena's hold their sanskaar as the  as the most precious thing  in the whole world


remember ,even pratigya will be doing her duty as a DIL,SIL ...cos her sanskar ,and samajh expects so ..She does not do it from her heart  ,,,and the prof family is happy with it !!They expect the same from Adarsh ....and the poor guy could not come up to their expectation's !!

and Adarsh is at fault too !! Never once does he inform his parents about his liking for Roli  ,had they known  earlier ,they would have stopped A from marrying Komal  ,Had they come to know about this after marriage ,they would never create a situation where Adarsh gets to spend quality time with Roli..!!I am sure they would have taken some action to avert what happened on that unfortunate day !!

Bye Saavie !! was nice debating with you !

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Posted: 28 May 2010 at 6:19am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tanthya



@ Saavie : The Saxena's hold their sanskaar as the  as the most precious thing  in the whole world


remember ,even pratigya will be doing her duty as a DIL,SIL ...cos her sanskar ,and samajh expects so ..She does not do it from her heart  ,,,and the prof family is happy with it !!They expect the same from Adarsh ....and the poor guy could not come up to their expectation's !!

and Adarsh is at fault too !! Never once does he inform his parents about his liking for Roli  ,had they known  earlier ,they would have stopped A from marrying Komal  ,Had they come to know about this after marriage ,they would never create a situation where Adarsh gets to spend quality time with Roli..!!I am sure they would have taken some action to avert what happened on that unfortunate day !!

Bye Saavie !! was nice debating with you !

same here  dear  Tanthya....and I think you are right.....you were actually talking about prof and naina ji POV.....but they should  trust  their  son  instead  of  Komal as they are aware that she is immatured  and  keep on talking  rubbish....and  first  ask  him  seperately  and  in  a  cool  manner  like  they  used to be  with  komal.....I mean to say  naina ji  should  treat  her  children  in  decent  way  even  though  how  hard  the  situation  is......then she  deserves to be good and balanced human  being....I mean  she  should  not  ignore  her  children  POV too  while  handling  the  situation..... 

Edited by saavie - 28 May 2010 at 6:24am

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