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I will begin with a positive note.The Sidma convo
tonight was really cute.I think both Jenny and KW make adorable
tallis...Though I found Sid to be a lil more adorable esp the bahut
zyaada part!
The entire Uff teri ada sequence was horribly shown!It was like you blink and you miss out.It started with good promise but ended too quickly but I am glad they atleast kept my fav part of the song.The choreography was not much to talk about-(they started playing train train in the middle)..I prefered Jenny's striptease specially the way she pulled the dupatta off Sid's face with come hither look!!Sultry siren...oooo!!
Anyway coming back to the point:
The Sidma convo was really cute...I liked the entire sequence.They both fell and the giggling and how Siddy boy was checking out his dupaatta minus wife!The slap and the resulting pout was cute too!Like I said they both make adorable tallis
Liked the entire conversation-how Ridhima said in childlike way what ails her most which in the form of a list are:
1)He always pushes her away
2)He always drags Arman in between them
3)He never said he loves her-I PERSONALLY LOVED THIS PART-Kya tumne kabhi kaha ke Ridhima I love you...To which Sid formally responds -sorry I forgot!!ROFL!!
The way she listed her problems and demands was really appealing to me atleast.Sid's responses also showed what he believes to be true-She loves Arman -he cant get past that!But as he sees her sulk off he is realising that maybe he has a chance and that is a relief.Drunk and in a childlike conversation they solved half their problems.They are more sane drunk than not
I have ran away with my ideas.The point of thread was the dialogue-Maine Arman ko ILU bola but tumne mujhe pyaar ka matlab shikaya...
That should make us all scratch our heads.So for two years we have been watching what-a like story?And when did Sid actually teach her the meaning of love when hardly have romanced at all?
The answer lies in the difference between Ridhima Gupta and Modi...If you really closely at Ridhima Modi she was very different from the original Ridhima..no I am not talking abt her confused mindset-that is a permanent feature of Ridhima.
With Arman whenever there was a fight-Ridhima always put her ego first.All her fights ended in or resulted because of her steadfast belief that Arman was wrong or it was her ego.She never let Arman get past that.She was stubborn and resolute on that.She wouldnt compromise on her ego-also everytime they fought and Arman raced away it took Ridhima ages to come to her senses.Ridhima Gupta could never see past her own pain.
With Sid its different,Ridhima has time and again sacrificed her ego and even self-respect to make him happy or to make things work.Being rejected time and again,she was made to wipe his shoes,take his horrible behavior but she stuck with him.With Sid when he blasts her in Lonavla rather than cry on how maha-dukhi she was -she gets concerned about him.When they fight and he is a jerk to her rather than harping on her pain she harps on his.
And this difference stems from her interaction with Sid.He has taught her that she was selfish and that there is a world beyond her own self-Previously we have seen her use Arman for her own comfort and next moment turn away!With her father too,she has often not seen his pain!
When she was with Sid -she saw him endure pain on her father's behalf,take her bloody ruckus with infinite patience.And he did all that with no selfish thoughts.
Sid taught her compassion,the need to see beyond herself and matured more subtle side of affection which is seen when you see Sidma interact in post Arman entry's scenes-no cheesy lines just a simple stance saying that I am here!!
So it is not an insult to AR relationship when she says Sid taught her the meaning of love-because he taught her a different facet of love -which is different from romantic side of it!!And it is not weird that she says that when Sidma had hardly any romantic scenes...But love isnt about romance...what Ridhima means is that if Arman taught her to love-Sid taught her that love makes us see beyond ourselves-it is not selfish!!
I hope that made sense
The entire Uff teri ada sequence was horribly shown!It was like you blink and you miss out.It started with good promise but ended too quickly but I am glad they atleast kept my fav part of the song.The choreography was not much to talk about-(they started playing train train in the middle)..I prefered Jenny's striptease specially the way she pulled the dupatta off Sid's face with come hither look!!Sultry siren...oooo!!
Anyway coming back to the point:
The Sidma convo was really cute...I liked the entire sequence.They both fell and the giggling and how Siddy boy was checking out his dupaatta minus wife!The slap and the resulting pout was cute too!Like I said they both make adorable tallis
Liked the entire conversation-how Ridhima said in childlike way what ails her most which in the form of a list are:
1)He always pushes her away
2)He always drags Arman in between them
3)He never said he loves her-I PERSONALLY LOVED THIS PART-Kya tumne kabhi kaha ke Ridhima I love you...To which Sid formally responds -sorry I forgot!!ROFL!!
The way she listed her problems and demands was really appealing to me atleast.Sid's responses also showed what he believes to be true-She loves Arman -he cant get past that!But as he sees her sulk off he is realising that maybe he has a chance and that is a relief.Drunk and in a childlike conversation they solved half their problems.They are more sane drunk than not
I have ran away with my ideas.The point of thread was the dialogue-Maine Arman ko ILU bola but tumne mujhe pyaar ka matlab shikaya...
That should make us all scratch our heads.So for two years we have been watching what-a like story?And when did Sid actually teach her the meaning of love when hardly have romanced at all?
The answer lies in the difference between Ridhima Gupta and Modi...If you really closely at Ridhima Modi she was very different from the original Ridhima..no I am not talking abt her confused mindset-that is a permanent feature of Ridhima.
With Arman whenever there was a fight-Ridhima always put her ego first.All her fights ended in or resulted because of her steadfast belief that Arman was wrong or it was her ego.She never let Arman get past that.She was stubborn and resolute on that.She wouldnt compromise on her ego-also everytime they fought and Arman raced away it took Ridhima ages to come to her senses.Ridhima Gupta could never see past her own pain.
With Sid its different,Ridhima has time and again sacrificed her ego and even self-respect to make him happy or to make things work.Being rejected time and again,she was made to wipe his shoes,take his horrible behavior but she stuck with him.With Sid when he blasts her in Lonavla rather than cry on how maha-dukhi she was -she gets concerned about him.When they fight and he is a jerk to her rather than harping on her pain she harps on his.
And this difference stems from her interaction with Sid.He has taught her that she was selfish and that there is a world beyond her own self-Previously we have seen her use Arman for her own comfort and next moment turn away!With her father too,she has often not seen his pain!
When she was with Sid -she saw him endure pain on her father's behalf,take her bloody ruckus with infinite patience.And he did all that with no selfish thoughts.
Sid taught her compassion,the need to see beyond herself and matured more subtle side of affection which is seen when you see Sidma interact in post Arman entry's scenes-no cheesy lines just a simple stance saying that I am here!!
So it is not an insult to AR relationship when she says Sid taught her the meaning of love-because he taught her a different facet of love -which is different from romantic side of it!!And it is not weird that she says that when Sidma had hardly any romantic scenes...But love isnt about romance...what Ridhima means is that if Arman taught her to love-Sid taught her that love makes us see beyond ourselves-it is not selfish!!
I hope that made sense
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