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Posted: 11 May 2010 at 11:41pm | IP Logged
 
Its true that desi parents use do different type of emotional blackmail to corner their children or force a marriage decision through emotions...its wrong...I think parents should wait till they are ready for marriage...give time ,space and a chance....now a days kids are mature enough to find the suitable guys/girls..
 
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Posted: 12 May 2010 at 4:37am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Believe

 
Its true that desi parents use do different type of emotional blackmail to corner their children or force a marriage decision through emotions...its wrong...I think parents should wait till they are ready for marriage...give time ,space and a chance....now a days kids are mature enough to find the suitable guys/girls..
 
 
Children were mature enough to find guys/girls back in the olden day too. The maturity of children is not the question, maturity wise they were the same back then as they are now, so the question of arranged marriages in general is not the topic here. My topic is, whether this serial shows all NRI marriages in a bad light or simply serving as a warning.
 
Anyhow, please do not generalize all desi parent. It would be nicer if you add 'some' desi parents in the beginning of your post, because there are tons of decent ones, more than half actually, who do not force marriages upon their children.Smile
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Posted: 12 May 2010 at 5:09am | IP Logged
Originally posted by JanakiRaghunath

Originally posted by Believe

 
Its true that desi parents use do different type of emotional blackmail to corner their children or force a marriage decision through emotions...its wrong...I think parents should wait till they are ready for marriage...give time ,space and a chance....now a days kids are mature enough to find the suitable guys/girls..
 
 
Children were mature enough to find guys/girls back in the olden day too. The maturity of children is not the question, maturity wise they were the same back then as they are now, so the question of arranged marriages in general is not the topic here. My topic is, whether this serial shows all NRI marriages in a bad light or simply serving as a warning.
Actuly I dont watch serials ji........Do NRI's overreact !!..I dont know!Smile
 
Anyhow, please do not generalize all desi parent. It would be nicer if you add 'some' desi parents in the beginning of your post, because there are tons of decent ones, more than half actually, who do not force marriages upon their children.Smile
 
When I call someone DESI all I mean is they are from INDIA. To me any INDIAN out of INDIA is a desi. He/She may be living in any other part of the world. When I mean DESI its just states the country of originThumbs Up
 
 
 
 
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Posted: 12 May 2010 at 6:21am | IP Logged
Originally posted by PhoeniXof_Hades

So now we have started taking Hindi serials seriously?
 
Lol, no, of course not.LOL But once in awhile, the occasional good show does come on and it'd be nice if they don't overdramatize things just for the audience's sake.

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Posted: 12 May 2010 at 11:04am | IP Logged
Originally posted by JanakiRaghunath

Has anyone seen the new show Geet Hui Sabse Parayi? It is about an innocent naive girl who somewhat willingly marries an NRI her parents and grandfather hurriedly choose out for her and then finds herself abandoned in the airport the next day by her so called husband. She and her family then find out that the whole wedding was a fake (the Pundit was fake) and the man (Dev) married her for her money and property, and now that he has it, he has no need for her. Not only that, he was previous already married and his first wife assisted him with the whole plan in duping Geet and her family. Now both Dev and Naintara (his wife) have run away with Geet's jewelry, and money. The rest of the show is about how Geet fights for her innocence and truth and proves to everyone that she can get back everything she lost and how she is not at fault for what Dev did.
 
 
It's actually a pretty good serial....but I was wary about the fact whether shows and movies like this make it seem like all NRI marriages are bad? Does it show NRS in a bad light or does it simply serve as a warning to those families who rush into such marriages without checking into the background of the groom's family?


yh i watched it i dont have knowledge of NRI marriages because im muslim but its really shocking that the grooms family would do that its terrible
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Posted: 12 May 2010 at 12:13pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Believe

Originally posted by JanakiRaghunath

Originally posted by Believe

 
Its true that desi parents use do different type of emotional blackmail to corner their children or force a marriage decision through emotions...its wrong...I think parents should wait till they are ready for marriage...give time ,space and a chance....now a days kids are mature enough to find the suitable guys/girls..
 
 
Children were mature enough to find guys/girls back in the olden day too. The maturity of children is not the question, maturity wise they were the same back then as they are now, so the question of arranged marriages in general is not the topic here. My topic is, whether this serial shows all NRI marriages in a bad light or simply serving as a warning.
Actuly I dont watch serials ji........Do NRI's overreact !!..I dont know!Smile Lol, I don't watch much serials either....this Geet one I just started because some of my IF friends recommended it to me and it is actually pretty good, better than the other ones coming now anyhow.LOL 
 
Anyhow, please do not generalize all desi parent. It would be nicer if you add 'some' desi parents in the beginning of your post, because there are tons of decent ones, more than half actually, who do not force marriages upon their children.Smile
 
When I call someone DESI all I mean is they are from INDIA. To me any INDIAN out of INDIA is a desi. He/She may be living in any other part of the world. When I mean DESI its just states the country of originThumbs Up Yes, I understand what you mean, but I was just saying that not all Indian parents out of India force their children into marriage either.Embarrassed
 
 
 
 


Edited by JanakiRaghunath - 12 May 2010 at 12:14pm

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