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Posted: 30 May 2010 at 12:39am | IP Logged
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I agree...lately i've been hearing that people insert regular tap water into bottles an still mange to keep the seal intact. There's not much you can trust...have to keep an eye out at all times and always make sure to go with someone and not go out by yourself---especially young females. I had a lot of bad experience with perverted guys...and i was 10!


That is one thing I hate about India, there just seem to be so many pervy guys. DeadI've had to deal with perverted jerks when I was just a kid too. People complain about the west. But here you can have a girl roam in tank top in the mall and the worst people will do is just ogle and stare a bit, but they feel embarrassed at doing so too. Back in India you could be fully clothed and still have to endure lewd comments. I blame it as the outcome of an unhealthily sexually repressed society. It makes me so mad though. Angry




It's so freakin disgusting >(
My mom tells me stories of when she was younger and how there were parades there every year and when she and her cousins would go, they would fet pinched by random guys and when they turn around, the person would be gone. No offense to anyone but the men in India disgust me. I was always covered properly but i had nasty old men staring at me wherever i went. I really want to go to India again but as a female teenager, i am scared of going because of the perverted men there. If guys didnt hesitate to stare or comment about a 10 year old, imagine how the behavior will be around a teen girl. Disgusting.
I am not sure which city you are talking abuot.  In mumbai if you turn around and shout at him.. he will be beaten by passersby.. .. i think if you go in broad daylight and avoid certain areas you should be good....but i know there are a lot of those all over

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Oh yeah, the guys who keep staring at you. Haha, I remember I was with my mom, some one or the other always used to stare at her....the trick was to give them an intimidating look that says "I will   Censored off if you look at her again"; Basically to let the person know that I am aware of him staring at my mom. Believe me, it worked.

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Posted: 30 May 2010 at 7:38am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Ice-Thinker

Originally posted by qwertyesque

Originally posted by Jess.

Originally posted by return_to_hades

Originally posted by Jess.


I agree...lately i've been hearing that people insert regular tap water into bottles an still mange to keep the seal intact. There's not much you can trust...have to keep an eye out at all times and always make sure to go with someone and not go out by yourself---especially young females. I had a lot of bad experience with perverted guys...and i was 10!


That is one thing I hate about India, there just seem to be so many pervy guys. DeadI've had to deal with perverted jerks when I was just a kid too. People complain about the west. But here you can have a girl roam in tank top in the mall and the worst people will do is just ogle and stare a bit, but they feel embarrassed at doing so too. Back in India you could be fully clothed and still have to endure lewd comments. I blame it as the outcome of an unhealthily sexually repressed society. It makes me so mad though. Angry




It's so freakin disgusting >(
My mom tells me stories of when she was younger and how there were parades there every year and when she and her cousins would go, they would fet pinched by random guys and when they turn around, the person would be gone. No offense to anyone but the men in India disgust me. I was always covered properly but i had nasty old men staring at me wherever i went. I really want to go to India again but as a female teenager, i am scared of going because of the perverted men there. If guys didnt hesitate to stare or comment about a 10 year old, imagine how the behavior will be around a teen girl. Disgusting.

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I am not sure which city you are talking abuot. In mumbai if you turn around and shout at him.. he will be beaten by passersby.. .. i think if you go in broad daylight and avoid certain areas you should be good....but i know there are a lot of those all over

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<font size="2">Its a society which needs urgent moral re-enforcement ... </font>

<font size="2">There is nothing called sexually repressed ... because those people who can go low enough to bad-eye a 10 years old, have surely visited the brothels and been doing all the dirty stuff possible...

These people do not represent the good ones in India.

People who wanna be bad, can be bad anywhere ... and those who wanna be good, can be good anywhere (Key: Bad = perverted behavior; Good=self control and decency)
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Just wanted to add that it is also due to the huge illiteracy rate

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Posted: 30 May 2010 at 10:53am | IP Logged
Originally posted by debayon

Oh yeah, the guys who keep staring at you. Haha, I remember I was with my mom, some one or the other always used to stare at her....the trick was to give them an intimidating look that says "I will   Censored off if you look at her again"; Basically to let the person know that I am aware of him staring at my mom. Believe me, it worked.
 
I am not sure if that works...... its india..... ogling in common...desis come here and ogle at blondes.and abcd's.LOL so you cant do much..they might misinterpret nasty looks for  sexy..and chase you further LOL so eye contact should be avoided but if they whistle tor do something like that.. the girls have the girl power.. turning around and trying to take out the sandals or asking "ghar main maa behen nahi hai kya" is the most intimidating thing for that guy in public who might just run away.. no guy wants to be mob lynched and beaten  with sandals.. This works in mumbai pune... not sure if it works in jaunpur, patna or delhi..etc where rowdyism  for some is a life-style...LOL


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Originally posted by qwertyesque

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Oh yeah, the guys who keep staring at you. Haha, I remember I was with my mom, some one or the other always used to stare at her....the trick was to give them an intimidating look that says "I will   Censored off if you look at her again"; Basically to let the person know that I am aware of him staring at my mom. Believe me, it worked.


I am not sure if that works...... its india..... ogling in common...desis come here and ogle atblondes.and abcd's.LOLso you cant do much..they might misinterpret nasty looks for sexy..and chase you furtherLOLso eye contact should be avoided but if they whistle tor do something like that.. the girls have the girl power.. turning around and trying to take out the sandals or asking "ghar main maa behen nahi hai kya" is the most intimidating thing for that guy in public who might just run away.. no guy wants to be mob lynched and beaten with sandals.. This works in mumbai pune... not sure if it works in jaunpur, patna or delhi..etc whererowdyism for some is a life-style...LOL
Rowdyism is not a lifestyle in Delhi Angry And it works! Angry My mom usually ignores their stares, but I can't tolerate them looking at my mom, who's married with to kids. I keep looking at them till they realize that I am aware of who they are looking at am look away Tongue And you say it's India as if India is the root of all common social ills. Remember you're Indian too, and India has just as many good things as bad, being one of the 2 countries who's GDP went up during the recent recession, and the rate of advancement after independence has been remarkable, certain better than America's. You can't be judging the whole country based on what some people who haven't been taught etiquette and courtesy.

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Originally posted by debayon

Originally posted by qwertyesque

Originally posted by debayon

Oh yeah, the guys who keep staring at you. Haha, I remember I was with my mom, some one or the other always used to stare at her....the trick was to give them an intimidating look that says "I will   Censored off if you look at her again"; Basically to let the person know that I am aware of him staring at my mom. Believe me, it worked.


I am not sure if that works...... its india..... ogling in common...desis come here and ogle atblondes.and abcd's.LOLso you cant do much..they might misinterpret nasty looks for sexy..and chase you furtherLOLso eye contact should be avoided but if they whistle tor do something like that.. the girls have the girl power.. turning around and trying to take out the sandals or asking "ghar main maa behen nahi hai kya" is the most intimidating thing for that guy in public who might just run away.. no guy wants to be mob lynched and beaten with sandals.. This works in mumbai pune... not sure if it works in jaunpur, patna or delhi..etc whererowdyism for some is a life-style...LOL
Rowdyism is not a lifestyle in Delhi Angry And it works! Angry My mom usually ignores their stares, but I can't tolerate them looking at my mom, who's married with to kids. I keep looking at them till they realize that I am aware of who they are looking at am look away Tongue And you say it's India as if India is the root of all common social ills. Remember you're Indian too, and India has just as many good things as bad, being one of the 2 countries who's GDP went up during the recent recession, and the rate of advancement after independence has been remarkable, certain better than America's. You can't be judging the whole country based on what some people who haven't been taught etiquette and courtesy.
 
First all I said some people have that life-sytle.LOL. I dont know now but delhi was the eve-teasing capital of india..
 
Regarding the nasty stares... unless you are 6', 300 lb baby khali.. they wont care.. LOL if you have the physique its really indimidating.. but even a midget girl could scare them with her angry outburst...Its true that how you carry yourself does matter.. my heght and physique had kept pickpockters away.. I have slapped some eveteasers .for staring at my gf..people keep a distance before getting into physical conflict even if I havent hurt a fly as suc.h..and scared as hell of roaches.. i actually run away from them while my gf did the battling part...LOL
 
For the rest of your post.. I love india.. whichever state - in whatever state... I have travelled to Delhi, Calcutta, TN, Karnataka, chattisgarh, , gujarat, garhwals and have felt at home wherever I was.... if you travel lengths and breadths of india.. you will know the reason for the pride that one could feel as Indian  not the GDP and nuclear programs or $$ rate...yeah its poverty , lack of education and corrupt systems would nt change how women at large will be treated and teh intimidation they feel while travelling back from US/UK...etc.
 
.Ignoring is hte best way to handle this.. I would think

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