Originally posted by SweetAngel18
Originally posted by chui_mui
can your love turn into hate ??
I do think that love "might" turn into hate,but i believe you cant start hating that person as badly as you use to love them,but yes this is also true that if that person has done something to lose your love towords him/her then you dont love that person as you use to,you surely become indiffrent towords them,its hard initially but as time passes you learn to live that way.Many times it may also transform into anger with hate,but then again like love "hate"is a strong emotion, according to me since you dont love anyone so easily and also you dont hate anyone that easily.So its not that easy but yes not impossible too.
When you realise what the person has done to you, the first thing that you say is that you hate them but when you say it, do you really mean it or is it just an impulse!..
Most of the time when we say that I hate him/her its just an impulse or moreover angry reaction,one doesnt mean that always when we say it.But I also think that if you dont "hate"the person you use to love that doesnt mean that you love them still.You can forgive them but then again loving them is hard I think.
I get what you mean, and yeah i think ur right when u said that when someone has done something bad to them u don't love that person as you use to but still i dont think u can hate them, in the beginning u will. But, can you really hate a person that you once love. I mean there has to be some hidden feeling that will not let u hate them. You might say u hate them but the thing is do u really mean it?
Well yes I agree there that you wont hate that person as long as you live,you would slowly become indiffrent towords them and they wont matter also to you.But yes that it shows that "hate"transformed later into indiffrence but there was "hate".I just want to say that its not like you wont even hate that person even for sometime,you can,but yes that hatred would also soon fade as your love for that person faded,and moreover I would prefer to forgive that person and move on,why waste myself hating someone?