Posted: 25 April 2010 at 6:17am | IP Logged
Ok guys..this is a short post of mine but a very imp one..i dont know how many will take it in the right way or will consider it not the appropriate topic to be put here..but if all kinds of posts are being opened and can be taken into consideration..then i feel this has the right too..
Now Rids is married to the man whom she chose to marry..knowing that she has been insulted..given pain..saved and been supported by in all ways...Sid is a person knowingly and without idea also put her life into stake in the hospital with the photo matter..then saved her life in a very crucial and very dangerous manner..a state where noone can think..but just do the right thing that time..he actually gave ridz body heat and slept with her one night..sorry but i dont which other way to put it...this is mostly by all known and thought as not a gulity or wrong act..as he did this to save her life..but then a gal's virginity and complete life hasd been jeoparidized then..so now she is with the person whom she respects..dignifies..completely concerned on ally ways..She cant think of being away from him..even she had developed true feelings of love and want even it was without her pure mind...but subconsciously..she wanted to be felt and touched by sid the honeymoon..also even in the time wen sid had provoked her..she didnt so much hestiate and allowed him to touch and be close to her..
So wat i want to ask is ..If now by any chance ..riddhima does end the life with sid..and go back to armaan will she be able to accept arman in the same way as before..yes i agree she does love him as before but no that love is not the same now..i can assure u on that..she is changed now..her state of mind ..her soul..her heart too has a diffierent emotion and feeling..She now has something within her that attracts her to sid..u can see it...it is there in every act of her..whether it is wen she was stunned at arman;s return.then the marriage fakeness...from her saasu getting sid to see another gall to insulting her..then sid lying to her..which broke her..then last...the most unbeleivable and unbearable thing that happened to her..divorce..whcih she couldnt engulf..see she is a woman trying to change..u cant expect her to all of a sudden say that she does not love arman..so wen sid asked her..he should have given her time too..not just send the papers..thats wat she meant wen she said..that wen i said nothing to him..he thought like that..so she expecting sid to understand her..but we cant blame sid ..as his side was completely justified too..but little time and space was needed..anyways..so again..i am saying if she goes to armaan will she feel for him..as she is now for sid..as she has accpeted sid..can she be able to allow armaan to touch her and caress her as he did before..i am not quesitoning armaan or AR love..but i am asking the reality of a woman..who is married and that to the guy who made her inner feelings to wake again..her passionate side to be rekindled...so if i am making self clear..will she be able to accept armaan just as the same riddhima before her marriage..as i cn tell u one thing frends..even if its accepted or not granted..this marriage has changed the lives of both sid and ridz specialy riddhima...which is why she is strongly affected now!
So hope my post was clear and ble to bring out wat i wanted to put out...as again i say for a gal its tough really whether its old times...modern times..urban ...rural...civilized..whichever state..woman is the one who is the most in pressure..stake an who has to face the reality...just like odhini...the new show.,..u will understand it..even geet...both are woman based... woman who is given her life and all to the man she is married is very pure and the prcticality...so i completely believe tht ridz cn nver be the same basket of armaan as she is now "MRS.SIDDHANT MODHI"
She is still ...sid will not sign the papers dont worry!
oops my post becme longg...sooryy...well plzzzz i plead to the mods if this topic is found irrelevant or misleading..u are most welcome to close it,,but plese if u find it convincing..let it be thought..pondered on and spoken on too..
SR fns and all others who believe in this....do tell ur ideas...suggesstions..opinions ok...in a clear and net way...thanx!
All AR fans...u can also put in ur genuine and respectful thoughts on this...being a person and not a fan please...i want this from ur heart and mind too..no bashing or comparsions intended!