Well i remember Sid telling Armaan that Riddhima ka pyaar hi aisa hai ki kisi ko kuch bhi bana deta hai - Saint to Devil.
Saint to Devil ka toh pata nahi magar Riddhima ke pyaar ne Sid ko Angel to God bana diya hai.
You can't imagine such a transformation which we see in Sid(From an irresponsible boy to a Responsible man.
This is all Riddhima's love effect.
I'm seeing many topics since last two weeks questioning about Siddhima's love & marriage.
Some still say that Riddhima loves Armaan.( on which base these people feel & see love,God knows).
Some say that Riddhima has no choice & she is forced by societal norms & customs & traditions.
Well if Riddhima is not in love with Sid then ,
1)Why did she climbed the steps of that temple in panchgani 100 times & bruised her feet?
Riddhima is a doctor & she is not the type of person to believe in superstitions.Mrs.Perera had just told Riddhima about that temple.She did'nt insisted Riddhima to climb that temple 100 times.
Riddhima did it because she wanted this relationship to blossom.She wanted to make all the right with Sid.
Riddhima also told Sid that,"Maine aaj tak jo bhi kiya hai,Dil se kiya hai.Jab tumse shaadi ki toh apne purane rishte peeche chood kar tumse dil se shaadi ki."
She also said to Sid that,"jab dad main sach sunnne ki himmat hogi tab main unhe is shaadi ke baare main bata dungi aur phir aap apne aap ko iss rishtey se alag kar sakte hain"
That means Riddhima ko iss rishtey se alag nahi hona hai.
2)When Mrs.Perera asked Riddhima that why Sid is always out of the room,why Riddhima answered that woh iss rishtey se khush nahi hai?
She never answered that hum dono iss rishtey se khush nahi hain.
iska matlab Riddhima is rishtey se khush hain.
3)Why did Riddhima came to play tug of war & Why was she looking back & feeling uncomfortable when she saw another guy who was close to touch her waist?
coz Riddhima wanted her husband to come & play & touch her waist.Riddhima is feeling Sid's love.
4)Why did Riddhima came to Hotel to see with which girl Sid & his mom are meeting?
5)Why did Riddhima hugged Sid accepting the truth of her marriage?
6)Why did Riddhima did'nt left the house of Sid?
7)Why did Riddhima said maat jaaiye to Sid when he dropped her to Naina's house?
8)Why did Riddhima said to herself two days before after signing the Divorce papers that aaj aap iss rishtey se aazad hain?
She did'nt said hum dono iss rishtey se aazad ho gaye.
iska matlab Riddhima ko yeh Rishta chahiye.
9)Why did Riddhima look back yesterday towards Sid & Why did she said to Sid that kisne kisko paraya kiya hain ye sab jaante hain?
That means Riddhima ko Sid se paraya nahi hona hain.
10)Why did Riddhima went to Pune when Sid called her?
Coz she wanted to move on with her life & start a new life with her husband & she had falled for Sid.
11)Why did Riddhima rum Sid's hair at that Honeymoon Night?
Coz Riddhima had fallen for her Sweet & cute husband.
12)Why did Riddhima choose to have Tea with her Cute Doctor instead of attending the concert?
Coz Riddhima was happy & she wanted to enjoy Quality Time with her Cute doctor Sid.
13)Why was Riddhima thinking about Sid all the way when she was jogging the next morning?
Coz Riddhima had started to love Sid.She had fallen for Sid.
14)When Riddhima had removed all the marriage nishanis,why did she said jab mera suhaag hi mera saath nahi dena chahta toh main kyun is shaadi ko nibhao?
Coz Riddhima never said that hum dono ek doosre ka saath nahi dena chahte toh kyun ye shaadi nibhaye.
This means Riddhima wanted her Husband's to be with her.
15)Why was Riddhima still standing in front of Sid's mom instead of getting so much insult from her mother-in-law?
Coz Riddhima did'nt want to leave her husband's house.
16)Why Riddhima always carries the Photo-frame of Sid & her marriage with herself & whenever she unpacks or packs her bag,why she always looks to her Marriage photo?
Coz Riddhima has accepted the marriage & the Marriage bond means a lot to her.It shows Riddhima's commitment to her Marriage.
17)Why was Riddhima feeling happy & pleased when she unpacked her bag & removed that saree at Naina's house?
Coz She was feeling Sid's touch & mesmerized the way Sid had touched her waist while playing tug-of-war.
18)Why was Riddhima giggling when her bangle stucked into Sid's shirt at honeymoon night?
Coz Riddhima is happy to see how his hubby is trying to remove that bangle.
19)Why Riddhima feels the touch of Sid when he is applying cream on her wounds?
Coz Riddhima is feeling relieved whenever Sid touches him.The way Riddhima was looking towards Sid when Sid was applying cream on the wound of Riddhima which was caused after the tug-of war.When second time Sid was applying cream when Riddhima had bruised her leg by climbing steps of temple,the look of Riddhima in this both scenes towards Sid conveys her love.She was just mesmerized & healed by Sid's touch.
20)Why was Riddhima shocked & Surprised when Sid told his mom that Riddhima is his friend's wife?
Coz Riddhima wanted Sid to tell the truth to his mom about their marriage.This shows Riddhima's commitment & her marriage with Sid is only identity for her now.
21)Why did Riddhima kept fast for Sid on the second day of her marriage?
Coz Riddhima has always shown commitment for her marriage.The way Riddhima seriously kept the fast & performed the rituals this speaks a lot.She ended the fast when Sid feeded her some sweets.This shows Riddhima's seriousness for this relationship.
22)Why was Riddhima upset & got annoyed when Sid told her to sign all the pages of Divorce papers?
Coz the ultimate reason is that Riddhima does'nt want this Divorce to happen.She wants her relationship with Sid.
23)Why was Riddhima angry on Sid when Sid told to act as Armaan's wife for some time in front of his mom?
Coz Remember what Riddhima told to Sid that time.She asked & said to Sid that,
"Kaise pati ho tum Sid jo khud ki biwi ko doosre ki biwi bann neko keh rahe hoon".
This dialogue conveys Riddhima's feelings towards her husband.This shows her possesiveness towards Sid.
24)Why did Riddhima asked Sid in a low voice in the lab that "Kya mujh par apna itna bhi haq nahi samajthe ki mujhse sawaal kar sako"?
Well this was before one month i think where Riddhima wanted Sid to ask her how diod she felt after seeing Armaan.This again shows Riddhima's possesiveness towards her husband Sid. that's why she wants Sid to ask her.
25)When Sid told Riddhima that they should give their relationship another 7 months as that's what her dad wants. And then after a while he finishes by adding, "Usko baad tum aur Armaan." Riddhima's eyes suddenly open up with annoyance and she gets irritate with him again. She shakes her head at him with disagreement as if saying, "you will never understand." In that state it annoyed Riddhima when Sid said that??? Why?
Coz If Riddhima wants to be with Armaan she should've rejoiced when Sid said that! But, the fact is that she wants to be with Sid shows that she's irritated at the fact that Sid always wants her to be with Armaan. And now its to the point where Riddhima can't even tell Sid that she loves him even if she wants to because she doubts if Sid even loves her or wants her? Because she says it many times to him, "humare rishta sirf tumhare liya jhooth hain?" (Thanks to my Dear Friend Lighteningbuzz for Giving me this point)
26)Why Riddhima told her dad to stop Sid from Giving Divorce?
Coz Riddhima herself has proved that she wants this marriage to go forever.This Dialogue from Riddhima is a tight slap to all those who think Riddhima does'nt love Sid.
27)There was a scene where all the interns had came to Siddhima's house to solve problems between Siddhima after that Holi incident.There was also a dance scene after this confrontation where Naina was Dancing with Sid & Yuvi was Dancing with Riddhima.Why Sid & Riddhima were feeling uncomfortable when they were dancing with Yuvi & Naina?
Coz Riddhima & Sid both were looking at each other in the whole dance & they wanted to dance together.We all experienced How comfortable Sid & Riddhima were while dancing with each other.This shows that Siddhima are mesmerized by each other.
The Feelings in the mind of Riddhima for Sid had started from the marriage itself when she flowed that Armaan's photo which was turned into ash in the pond.(Just like the Kriya-Karm tradition in the Hindu religion which they do it after someone's death.)
Well if you all remember the 2nd or 3rd day of Siddhima's marriage when Sid was sleeping on his bed & Riddhima was sitting besides Sid.
Riddhima had kept a letter on the table that time.Riddhima had wrote in the letter that she wants to start this relationship on the basis of Friendship & they both need to move on.Does this is not love?
The answer to all these questions is Riddhima's Unconditional love to her husband.There is no pressure on her in any of this instances.
Aise bahut se kyun hain Siddhima ki zindagi main jinke jaawab kisi ke bhi paas nahi hain.So don't question love & Marriage.
Remember when Riddhima bruised her leg after climbing that steps 100 times of temple & when Sid lifted her, Riddhima said that,"Aap ye sab isliye kar rahe hain ye dekhne ke liye ki main iss rishtey ko kab tak nibha paati hoon.par mujhe aap se koi shikayat nahi hai Sid kyunki kuch hi dino main,main aap ko jaanne lagi hoon aur aap ek bahut accche insaan hain.aap ke dil main kya chal raha hain yeh aap ke kehne se pehle mujhe pata chal jata hai".
The song from pardes movie,"Do dill mill rahe hain magar chupke chupke" suits to Siddhima's lovestory.
This all questions shows Riddhima's love to Sid & no one needs to question it.
Sid is a gem of a person.Nothing can be said about his Unconditional Love towards Riddhima.
It needs a lot of courage & guts to hold the hand of such person like Riddhima coz Sid was uncertain about the future of their marriage.He did'nt know how far this relationship could go ahead.
Only Sid can give Sacrifices & True love to a partner.
Well i agree that he behaved badly with Riddhima in their starting days of marriage but ,
Roses also come with their thorns only.You have to accept it.
Life is not always a cake walk where you will just pass away easily.
Sid is truly Amazing.Never seen such a actor like KW on TV screen.
Riddhima knows that ,
"Pyaar karne wale toh bahut milenge par Sid jaisa Saccha pyaar karne waala sirf ek hi milega aur ek baar hi milega".
She can't afford to live without Sid.She has proved it.
"accche waqt main toh koi bhi khush reh sakta hain,
par insaan woh hain jo bure waqt main khud khush rahe na rahe lekin doosro ko khush rakh sakey".
Sid hide his marriage fact from his family coz he did'nt wanted to put the pressure on Riddhima to follow the customs & traditions.
Sid is a person who will make his way in the opposite direction of the flow & win from there also.He is a fighter.
Sid will keep everyone Happy.That's Sid for us.
Sid aur Riddhima jab bhi kuch karte hain wo apne liye nahi karte hain,apno ke liye karte hain.
Well i want to see such a scene in DMG like Ajab prem ki...............where the last scene when the reality strikes on the face of Jenny(Katrina) about Prem(Ranbir).
We all want to see such a scene in DMG that Riddhima will know the truth that whatever Sid did & sacrificed his love was for her Riddhima's happiness & then Riddhima will come to Sid & hug him tightly & kiss him.
Well we all Siddhima fans are eagerly waiting for Ishita to enter & unite Siddhima.
Waiting to see Siddhima fans views & opinions.
PLS DON'T BASH AT ALL COZ THIS POST IS AN APPRECIATION TO SIDDHIMA'S LOVE.
THINGS CAN BE SAID IN A NICE WAY & IF YOU DON'T HAVE NICE THINGS TO SAY,JUST KEEP YOUR OPINION TO YOUR SELF.
Message To Armaan Fans,
Apni Dimaag ki batti jalaao,
Aur Siddhima ke pyaar ko apnaao.
Life is a football game and we are the footballs. Never mind the kicks of people because without the kicks we may never reach the goal.
Edited by JATINTHAKKAR - 01 May 2010 at 3:20am