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Posted: 22 April 2010 at 3:18pm | IP Logged
Ever since Arman returned a certain section of the audience have been begging for her to divorce Sid-to get rid of the bond that apparently binds her because she was being held back from her love because of this shackle.

Today we saw the shackles break and the one who unlocked the shackles was Ridhima herself.She signed for the last time,a name which has changed her life and her persona-Ridhima Modi in the divorce paper!And viola the shackles broke-

For many people this has always been a choice between marriage and love-

For me the question was simple.If the choice was between marriage and love then why didnt Ridhima wholeheartedly accept the divorce papers-why was the pain so real?Why was she bawling and crying?

The answer was that Ridhima is too traditional a girl to break the institution of marriage even though she is hurting and dying to be with Arman.

Today the traditional girl broke marriage- and with a flourish,without talking to her husband and without giving  a damn for the society.But she didnt do this to be with her love-with Arman.

She did it because she thought her husband did not want her.She believed she was burdening him with an unwanted marriage.The marriage is not a burden on her but on him- as she believes!

And that I think proves that Ridhima was not staying married because of societal rules because if society mattered so much-ridhima wouldnt have signed the papers today!

The society norms are the same today as it was when Arman returned.The only that changed was her belief-before she thought Sid wanted her-now she believes he didnt want her.

That shows that all these days it was not only marriage that held her back-something more was there which bonded her to Sid!

Today
Though she is not bound by marriage-the shackles still remain!She might be free legally but she remains bound emotionally

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Posted: 22 April 2010 at 3:22pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Neha_S

Ever since Arman returned a certain section of the audience have been begging for her to divorce Sid-to get rid of the bond that apparently binds her because she was being held back from her love because of this shackle.

Today we saw the shackles break and the one who unlocked the shackles was Ridhima herself.She signed for the last time,a name which has changed her life and her persona-Ridhima Modi in the divorce paper!And viola the shackles broke-

For many people this has always been a choice between marriage and love-

For me the question was simple.If the choice was between marriage and love then why didnt Ridhima wholeheartedly accept the divorce papers-why was the pain so real?Why was she bawling and crying?

The answer was that Ridhima is too traditional a girl to break the institution of marriage even though she is hurting and dying to be with Arman.

Today the traditional girl broke marriage- and with a flourish,without talking to her husband and without giving  a damn for the society.But she didnt do this to be with her love-with Arman.

She did it because she thought her husband did not want her.She believed she was burdening him with an unwanted marriage.The marriage is not a burden on her but on him- as she believes!

And that I think proves that Ridhima was not staying married because of societal rules because if society mattered so much-ridhima wouldnt have signed the papers today!

The society norms are the same today as it was when Arman returned.The only that changed was her belief-before she thought Sid wanted her-now she believes he didnt want her.

That shows that all these days it was not only marriage that held her back-something more was there which bonded her to Sid!

Today
Though she is not bound by marriage-the shackles still remain!She might be free legally but she remains bound emotionally




Correction Maam..SID has always failed to show Ridz that he wants her..except once by saying mai tumhe pasand karne laga hoo..but since Amy is bak, Sid has always potrayed to her that her right place is with armaan..be it making her meet armaan..or even telling armaan that ridz still loves him..

Wat kind of hubby does that to his wife...?


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Posted: 22 April 2010 at 3:26pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by IloveARLove




Correction Maam..SID has always failed to show Ridz that he wants her..except once by saying mai tumhe pasand karne laga hoo..but since Amy is bak, Sid has always potrayed to her that her right place is with armaan..be it making her meet armaan..or even telling armaan that ridz still loves him..

Wat kind of hubby does that to his wife...?




The reasons behind all this has been discussed time and again!And this post talks about Ridhima and her notions of marriage so I think its going off topic.

I dont mind pointing out why Sid did what he did -but I think this is not the right place.You can pm me and we can have a lively chat!

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Posted: 22 April 2010 at 3:36pm | IP Logged
Well we can see why Ridz signed coz of her thinking Sid doesnt want her and this marriage and constantly somehow pushing her to Armaan, and she signed in anger and frustration, and to hurt Sid the most which was obvious what she said after she signed, but she hurts as well, because SR hurt each other and with each other, and have to be in pain together - thats how they work - always has been. Its that bond again!!!
 
Ridz can free Sid by a paper, but can she let go of him from her heart and soul (same as Sid) - where it matters the most, because thats where her whole being and feelings are rising for Sid
 
Its that bond that has always been there, that nameless bond that has always pulled them together way before marriage, thier marriage bond was a name given to them - one proof to the world to name their relation/bond but deep down their connection/bond is something else, their deep inner beings are connected, binded together
 
Souls are connected, Sid is Ridz soul!!!
 
They are simply Soulmates
 
 
I found this quote today, and very true for SR
True love is the soul's recognition of its counterpart in another
 

 
 


Edited by Lennie - 22 April 2010 at 3:40pm

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Posted: 22 April 2010 at 3:46pm | IP Logged
Well said..
 
if Ridz was binded to Sid by marriage and if society did matter to her, the girl wouldnt of signed...
there is something definitely more in this relationship..
she was ready to let go of Armaan, but the thought of losing Sid completely shattered her world.
from her POV it would hurt to think that the one guy that stuck with her during the worst phase of her life doesnt want to be with her. But this is where she is wrong because she hasn't even talked to Sid about it.
 
I've said this before, but if she really wanted to be with Armaan she would have achieved that a long time ago. This girl can go to any extent in my opinion and nothing stops her.
But she didnt...so what does that prove? she wants to stay in this marriage because Sid means more to her and she it emotionally attached to him right now..
 

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Posted: 22 April 2010 at 3:47pm | IP Logged
I like how you put forward your views...and you did it so well........
 
She signed  the DP .......her dads lecture ...dint prevent her from signing...nor did society rules prevent her.........so she could have done it before if she wanted to.......wonder what prevented herErmm
 
An independant woman makes an independant decision.
 
But she does it out of anger on her husband.....no smoke no fire Wink

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Posted: 22 April 2010 at 3:56pm | IP Logged

Neha............awesomely put sweetyyyyyyy....Clap

Indeed Ridz did wat majority have been waiting for...........BUTTTTTT..........did she really do it coz she wanted it......????? NOOOOOO
Then why??? Coz Sid wanted it. (according to her).....and why would Sid's opinion matter at all to begin with....?????
 
As lennie rightly put it..........coz of that deep bond that they share.....unknowlingly, Sid has entered her soul......and this is yet to be realized by herEmbarrassed

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