What is Ridz really confused about??? - Page 4

Originally posted by: mayuri.vet

amazing post!!!!!!!!!1
i seriously dont like sidma but now looking at sid and ridz it looks liks she wants him and not armaan....great because he was the one who did all possible things to bring a smile back on her face and i didnt like him for sending the divorce papers........though i m an ardent AR FAN I HAVE SLOWLY STARTED TO LOVE SIDMA

Originally posted by: eveline

I can respond to this ...in a very detailed manner... but that will start the incessant cycle of round and round the mulberry bush world war third scenario again....it has been done before with no effect....if you complain about AR fans not getting the point....we can say the same for SR fans not getting the picture....lets leave it at that...each to his own....no use getting into futile war of words...which leads to only wasted effort and time and a ton of bitterness....

 

the world here is coexist..😊 you are welcome to ur views and we to our beliefs...

Originally posted by: ishwariya

Oops sorry but i pressed the like button...
As u say that she wants Armaan to move away from her so that she could not see sid in pain then i what world she has the right to make armaan suffer.. if she wants to move.. let her. who care's for her.. in what world she has the right to blame armaan for evething happened to her.
 although i agreed that she had the right to scream at him for living her alone n not asking her help to support at the time when he need's her more... but y this female has to make this guy so week n hope less n mad for which he had no mistake of his.....
I'm not disagreeing at all with you here...she should def have handled the truth revealing to Armaan in a whole different way...in a mature way...i mean he was a big part of her life...but the girl is confused. ..angry..and hurt and so she lashes out and unfortunately the medium by which she lets out her anger is Armaan (😭 poor guy i feel for him i really do)..but i'm not Ridz and i cant make her do what i think is rite...i can only try to figure out what is going on in her head and then post what i think is going on...and thts wht i did...
n th song in mirror.. it clearly states that she still loves armaan... the happines which she had seeing her n armaan vanished the other second seeing her as a married one.. if she would have really wante to move on.
to this statement i will simply you another view of that scene...take wht you want from it...just some food for thought lol...maybe wht she saw in tht mirror was not about which path to choose...which love to choose...but it was her reflecting back on her life...and Armaan and her love was big part of it...maybe she was seeing the good times she had with Armaan...the innocent love they shared and how it will always be a part of her....but....that something more important is now in her life...her marriage...this man that is her husband....who she "mite love" (cuz as i've said Ridz is clueless to the feelings she has for Sid deep down inside)
 she would have said him in pune or the next time that meet that armaan everthing is over between us n am not riddhima gupta any more.. y she had to act as armaan wife in front of her mother inlaw.
to this i will say if you really want to kno why i think she did the things she did from puna all the way till the fake marriage read my earlier post...i really do explain why i think Ridz mite have done the things she did....if not its cool...😳
 even if u dont like the person y don't tend to hurt them but in what world she keeps on blaming armaan for everything.. y this female cant just go up to her husband n speak with him.. even after armaan himself said her knows that she's married n he does not want him to trouble her any more by being around.... it still proves that she still loves him.. neither i saw her confessing her love to sid or saying that armaan meri ati hai.. aur tum meir aaj aur mein tum se apni puri zindagi kushi kushi jeena chathi hoon...
she always kept mention that.. aab yeh meri schayi hai jiki saath mein jeyuingi...........
ok to this i will say definitely check out my older post...i try to make sense of the words she chose to say to Sid...and how she uses "truth" instead of "happiness or love" etc....but here is a chunk of why i think she throws the word marriage around so much...
"now I know Ridz in every encounter with Sid talks about their marriage, instead of her feelings for him, and this in turn leads Sid into greater affirmation that all that is between is the "duty" of marriage'which in turn leads to anger from us at why won't she just say she loves him'why won't she say something about their relationship without the word marriage so that he will realize that they are not bound to each other because of some paper or a title'.but I think' to her marriage isn't a paper it isn't a title'its a vow'of seven lifetimes'.its a vow from the heart'.and although she hasn't put it into words'its definitely a vow of love'I think that as far as Ridz is concerned marriage encompasses much more than vows of sticking together, or cooking food'.but that it's a vow to love and honor, to cherish and protect, to stick together through thick and thin...and above all else'.it's her truth'and it just simply is'"
but def check out the other post i think it will help you see why i say a lot of wht i do abt ridz...if anything you can rebuttle there and we can continue this debate lol 😉
hese were my point sto say.. i know non of SR fans would agree with me nor u... but seriously.
this female had to be clear about her decisions n take charge of her life.. rather than messing up all three life by just keeping her mouth shut n cursing her fate n other..
personally i think EVERYONE...and tht includes both SR, AR, YuNa, etc all think tht this girl needs to be clear...she needs to open her mouth and speak to Sid...to Armaan...but first i think she needs to talk to herself...i think she needs to realize that the power of choice is in her hands...and only bhagwan knows when she'll get the akel to do so....

thanks so much for takin the time to comment and sharing your views with me...i hope this helps you realize why i see things the way i do...if not eh...at least you got some entertainment😉

Originally posted by: jyothi_misri

This whole composition is one sided.

I can assure u that Riddhima still has'nt fallen in love with her husband. One thing is for sure that she wants this marriage to work. She is one of those indian girls who can do anything which relate to her values, principles. So u cant expect Riddhima to run away from her marriage to her lover(i will not call exlover).

Can u explain me one thing there was a scene recent one after the terrace one where she yells at both the men, in Sanjeevani when both men crosses their path leaving Riddhima alone there. There RIdz says neither i can go back to ARmaan nor can i move ahead with Sid. What that dailouge signify.

If u can explain me that one point i'll be pleased.