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Posted: 08 April 2010 at 10:09pm | IP Logged
So this question seems to be eating a lot of people's brains. I mean Riddhima's oh so handsome Dr. Armaan who she loved so dearly has returned. She has a husband who is not forcing her to stay with him then what is holding her back? Confused Why can't she just run back to Armaan the guy who lives for her. Does society mean more to her than Armaan? Beside didn't she once say Sid can leave her once her dad gets better, then why not tell Armaan to wait? Why does she want to remain that way?Confused Why does she keep telling Armaan to go away?

Here is why Big smileEmbarrassed
 
Because her beautiful relationship with Armaan was made by her and Armaan. But God put Siddhanth her way and made them pati Patni. That's what makes them a divine, very powerful couple



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAb6c92ZOF0 

Because knowingly unknowingly she started falling for her husband Siddhanth (in a very very very short amount of time, despite the fact he has been very very very mean to her couple of times)



Because he cares for her in the most adorable manner and sometimes in a angry manner. Because he puts that smile on her face that disappeared a long time ago. And because she finds her husband very cute Wink ( who wants to leave a man they are attracted to? Also I found it very interesting that without knowing she just said she doesn't need Armaan, she wants to be with Sid. What a wonderful coincidence LOL)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGgHHdbMi5Y

Because he is an incredible husband who is very tender and loving to her. And because he makes her feel things inside.. (the song says it all darlings..)

Ek ajnabi sa ehsaas dil ko sataye
shayad yahi to pyaar hai
betabiyon mein dhadkan meri chal paye
shayad yahi to pyaar hai
kutch bhi kaha na
kutch bhi suna na
phir bhi
bechain dil hai humara
behke kadam hai
mushkil main hum hai
dekho
sambhle bhala kaise yaara
chahe bina bhi
nazdeek hum chale aaye
shayad yahi toh pyaar hai



Because
she has feelings for him. And very serious ones. Look at the way she smiles and caresses his hair, so much affection, so much love. And it is NOT because he is her husband or because he is nice to her. It's because she has feelings for him. How do we know that because she tries to justify it herself. Only a person in denial would deny her feelings for Sid.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eafWv_Hiw0c

Because she wants to stay with Sid. Embarrassed Not because she is married to him, but because she likes him.



Because Sid gave her a reason to live, and he means a lot to her (something special) and she wanted to start a new happy life with him.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wA6otlKSVPE

And that is why I am so chilled out when I watch this show no matter what happens. Sid has already made a place in Rids heart. She is tied to Sid, yes through the the powerful divine mangalsutra, but also because he holds a special place in her heart.Wink

Ps: Usually posts are written from Sid's pov or Armaan's pov. Being the Riddhima lover I am I wanted to write one from Riddhima's pov. I know usually things are like my opinion vs your opinion. That's why I posted the videos as the base of my opinion.

Feel free to reply or analyze further. Smile





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I also see posts around that claim how Rids will be miserable in a loveless marriage? really? You are sure. What is love? Isn't it attraction, affection, admiration, trust, understanding?

  • Riddhima respects Sid
  • Riddhima understand's Sid. If I quote her directly she said she understands what Sid is feeling without Sid uttering a word.
  • Riddhima cares for Sid.
  • Riddhima is friends with Sid.
  • Riddhima is attracted to Sid
  • Riddhima is affectionate toward Sid.
  • Last but not least Riddhima is married to Sid Big smile Big smile
Keeping these in mind I don't think love is impossible between these two. She has only been married to him for few weeks and her feelings are already so strong. It will grow with time. I only imagine how strong their bond will be in 2 years.





Edited by Perfangel5655 - 09 April 2010 at 7:38am

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Posted: 08 April 2010 at 10:22pm | IP Logged
I love you Heart.
You are seriously my mind reader. I CANNOT thank you enough for this post.

Thats what i am trying to tell everyone. When Sidd told her to leave and go Armaan why didn't she. When her husband is telling her she can go back to him why isn't she?

So apparently society has more value then Armaan.

If you guys didn't notice since she came back in the show she only cried but after meeting Sid she finally got her smile back.

Rid was so happy (as you added the video) when she was going back to Sid and wanting to give a chance to their relationship, The smile on her face while sitting on the car.. As soon as she see's Armaan tears begin.

Again asking him why he came back and now when she wants to move on he comes back, apparently he is becoming a rock in her life and stopping her from being happy with her hubby.

When she Comes back home she asks Sid why he didn't come? Again forgetting Armaan.

Sid on the other hand gave her all the freedom to go back to Armaan but she didn't because she is i
LOVE.

Thats all i have to Say.

Rid is For Sid
Sid is For Rid


Harsha Hug



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What lovely post. i fully agree with you and it was much needed. i just love the bond they share be it gussa,pyar,nafrat,understanding they match perfectly

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Posted: 08 April 2010 at 10:46pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by xoHarshaxo

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I second that!

And your post gives me an excuse to watch all their videos again! LOLEmbarrassed

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Originally posted by Cookies01

Originally posted by xoHarshaxo

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I second that!

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lol that's exactly what m doing Embarrassed

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Originally posted by Cookies01

Originally posted by xoHarshaxo

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I second that!

And your post gives me an excuse to watch all their videos again! LOLEmbarrassed

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Me too, I watched all the videos LOL

Hey Perfangel5655 awesome post, worth reading every single line, but where is "MAT Jao" and "Mat Jaiye"  my personal favs Day Dreaming, shows they don't need many words to communicate, this is what I call soulmates Hug


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Posted: 08 April 2010 at 11:07pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by monar

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I second that!

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Me too, I watched all the videos LOL

Hey Perfangel5655 awesome post, worth reading every single line, but where is "MAT Jao" and "Mat Jaiye"  my personal favs Day Dreaming, shows they don't need many words to communicate, this is what I call soulmates Hug




OH!! do you have the link. I will find it..(maybe tomorrow)

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