Well before wording out my thoughts, I just want to say that I just recently started watching this show again (like one week back)...so I might be wrong at some places...and that is basically the reason I am posting this post...
Neways so I began watching DMG again for random reason...I dont know why I did so...I hate this show...but i guess their is some storyline in this show compared to all the other shows that have been coming...which I just can't tolerate for any reason watsoever! I couldn't tolerate this show either...but recent track...well the irony of love and life has again got me back to the show! *Damn DMG for doing this!*
Anyways so when I started watching...I was like SR?? ummmmm that is not quite happening because so what if you are in martial relationship?!?! Its love and feelings that matters...and if there is no love and just compromise in marriage...than it wont work...and all three lives would just be wasted! And although I don't like KSG, I was rooting for AR initially...
And especially with the fact that Sid was soo hell bent upon hiding their relationship (Sidma's relationship) to everyone...Armaan, well dont want to talk about that right now...but sid's mom?? Why would he want to hide their relationship to his mom? Especially after learning how much she is insulting Ridz?!?! And just for his own satisfaction that ridz loves him, he is hurting her more...by asking her to hide their relationship! I don't believe this but I could sympathize with ridz...not with personal experience but I could and this was the 2nd time in the show I could after those initial days when ridz used to cry with her patient's agony!! And I can understand ridz...its not easy to make a decision like this...one side its duty...another its love...and now she doesn't even know if she truly loves Armaan...
What I mean is that she doesn't. If she did, there can never be second thoughts...and plus from what I have seen that occurred later in the show...there was no bond between AR...it was just physical attraction and rom-yawnce...I mean fish! They used to romance in operation theatre too!! That soo put me down to their relationship! Neways since this post is about SR, I would quit my frustration on AR and I would just end on them saying, I don't believe that their was love between them. It was mere infatuation!
Now with Sidma, I initially didn't like them...I was like is sid for real?? By doing this, he is just hurting her more and more! But after thinking and trying to understand him, I realized that mayb he wants ridz to follow to heart...the beautiful thing about their relationship is their bond... (and trust me, chemistry doesn't mean more to me than bond in relationship...where trust, understanding, faith matters THE MOST!) I saw some of their few scenes on youtube later, and well initially they were pathetic for me, but as sid's character grew, as they started learning each other better...their relationship grew...their bond grew and seeing that was like bunch of chocolate right before my eyes!!
Just seeing how much ridz brought change to sid...she made him see his real self...the self that is pure and beautiful...the self that cares for others...and i think that was the most beautiful part about their relationship!
And sid...sid made ridz selfless!! Before, she was soo selfish that all she cared about was herself and armaan and mayb her family...but now she has really become selfless...and I think that is coz of sid and his influence in her life!! And man I just really like them now!! Karan wahi and jennifer...I always liked them...karan wahi toh i liked him since remix...but just hated his character in remix...mr.perfectionist!! And that is what makes sid different!! He is learning from his mistakes and I hope he would continue to do so in further...I don't want him to turn into a good boy who is soo good that it just becomes like fake!! And I hate to live in illusion of such "greek-god" types of people existing...coz lets get real...no1 is saint in this world! And for, I just love karan wahi as sid! He is not perfect...but he is a good human...real, true...and someone who learns from his mistake! Love that!
And I hope this continues in future too!!
As for ridz, liked her initially, but then DMG was all about rom-yawnce after 4-5 months that i lost interest...and infact it still is about romyawnce...i guess i am just loving the bond btwn Sidma...its beautiful to say the very least...
But one thing that I am confused about, for which I would love to understand them, is that why did sid just kept on seeing when his mom was forcing ridz to get married to armaan? I mean I see it as him not having respect for ridz...I know he does...and that is why I want you people (sidma fans) to make me understand him here! Coz i believe that when you love someone, you just can't see tears in their eyes...and here his mom was torturing ridz...and sid was witnessing all this but he was still kept mum...and see all these being a statue!! For this, I am really upset! I understand you know that he wants ridz to follow her heart...but not by torturing her!! That is complete no-no!! If ridz wanted to go with armaan, she would have told him...I think they have that comfort level that they can share their feelings to each other...if she still felt anything for armaan, she would have told him... because what I have come to understand them is that they are friends first and then "lovers" as I perceive them as. So ya, please do try to make me understand here...coz trust me...they are beautiful...and i dont want to miss something beautiful in them!
But I loved ridz for standing up for herself in the episode...felt proud of her!
Except I wish now that sid goes to give her confidence that she seems to be losing in herself! If this type of bond btwn them continues, I might fall in love with them...but I doubt that considering the girl is Ridz...protagonist of an Indian TV show!
Maybe they would be ruined in future...like all other couples in indian television has been (with exception of Rahul-Muskaan, and my Ashi-Yuvi
) and I might not feel them later if they become just like those regular, melo-dramatic and clichd couples...but for now they are unique and I like them!
And one more thing...I wanna see this scene...wanna see if it is something as beautiful as the pics shows...so can you guys give me the scene's youtube link too?
PS: Btw the reason that made me post in DMG forum was SR's thread...that titled "follow your heart"... the phrase is like bible for me that my wacko said to her psycho in remix
So yaa thanks guys for making me post here!
PPS: No offence meant to Armaan or AR, whatsoever. I am entitled to my opinion and it was purely "MY" opinion.
PPPS: I respect the freedom of speech, but since this is "my" topic...I take away that freedom...and I prefer that if you have any intentions on bringing fights, you stay away from the topic. And by now I think you all should be aware what types of posts can cause fights, consider even I can being an alien to this forum.