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Posted: 17 February 2010 at 11:35am | IP Logged
 

Today , we realized that even though Sid-Riddz have agreed for this 'marriage of honour' - they both stand on different banks of the river.... totally different.

Sid - a good man with a heart if gold is embarking on this journey with a new hope , new beginnings. He is looking at this marriage as a giant step in his life that he is still coming to terms with. But the walkie-talkie candyshop that he is , he is trying to spread sunshine into this awkward phase of life. He is being optimistic and hoping against hope that him and Riddhima will perhaps not live like two slabs of ice thrown together. Sid is about warmth, joy , compassion , hope and that is what he wants to spread to Riddhima's life....

Riddhima - a shattered , heart broken woman in a dicey psycho-emotional state who is embarking upon this journey in the hope that she won't live to see the next day and release everyone - herself, Shashank , Paddy and Sid. She is numb and is not thinking at all - she is at the verge of succumbing to herself. She is all about sorrow , grief , sadness, pessimism , hopelessness and abyss like darkness - a black hole that threatens to not only consume her but everything and everybody around her......Separation from Armaan and Armaan seeming to have receded away has finished her - she is all hollow inside.

And yet these two people are going to marry .... marry for all the wrong reasons....

But Sid has resolved to make everything right.... right for Riddhima.

Today , as Sid stood at his farmhouse , making sure that all arrangements are in place - flowers, decorations and the works , you could see that he is trying to start on an optimistic note and that Riddzie's happiness matters very much to him - he doesn't want her to feel ashamed of this marriage.
The expressions with which he looks at that lovely ring in his hands thinking fondly of his grandmother - you can see that he is giving it to Riddhima because she is important - she is going to be his wife - and the giving if the ring symbolizes Sid's whole -hearted acceptance of Riddhima into his life. When he sees Riddhima's car arrive , he asks his granny if that is a sign that he is doing the right thing?

Sid's friends are sure impressed with him , especially Naina. They seriously believe that Sid is in love with Riddz while we know that Sid is still dealing with his sentiments towards Riddhima.

As Riddhima comes in , you realize that Sid-Riddz still don't know how to act around each-other. A formal 'hi' is exchanged and the awkwardness sets in again as the excited gang watches. You wish they go back to calling each-other Buddhi Chudail and Bloody Molester ....rather than this unnerving silence.

Sid wants to finish this hesitance and awkwardness and the friendship was the first step towards it. He actually treated Riddhima like a queen today even though she is too numb and distressed to feel anything - surrounding her with moons and stars that are kind of symbolic of his promise of happiness to her - making her comfortable and telling her in the sweetest manner possible that today is a big day for them and she does mean a lot to him - going on his knees and formally proposing her with the ring - telling her that it is only today that he noticed how beautiful she is - TODAY because he is becoming sure of his decision and accepting her as she is. Riddhima , at first overwhelmed by the efforts that Sid had done for her looks away in discomfort and hesitance - what do i tell him? I cannot relate to anything here - I am going to die and he is making promises that my death won't allow him to keep....

But that ring had to slip onto Riddzie's finger and it did - the rejoicing gang made it happen. Riddhima's eyes filled with tears and that struck Sid... somewhere he knew why she was crying but the pathos was dissolved in the surrounding joy.....

Sid plans to look after Riddhima like he has taken care of nobody else and you could see that in the smiling promising confidence with which he told a teasing Anjali that he is not even that much a kid. He can look after Riddhima and he will.

And as Riddhima, sat like a mannequin in the haldi ceremony and Sid looked at her from upstairs - you could see that shift of feelings happening  - he knows he is slowly crossing the boundaries that separate him from Riddhima emotionally - it is the beginning of a love that is going to cause him nothing but suffering with no promise of light at the end of the tunnel as of now - you feel kind of relieved when he tells himself that it is 'liking' , not 'love'.

That is the problem with human emotions - you don't even realize when you cross the line and by the time , you do , it is too late. It is kind of hard for writers and creatives to depict the opaque and complicated psycho-emotional state of these two characters - they falter at times but i hand it to them for keeping Sid and Riddz in their characters.

Tomorrow, Riddhima is again going to scream at Sid and drive the point home that nothing will ever connect them and that she will always love Armaan. Sid will be hurt but he will deal with it and keep his commitment. There is no fighting , no turning back - now whatever it is , they are in this together.....Ajnabi modh hai. Seriously.


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Wow - lovely post, you summed it so well esp Sid's pov - yes his feelings are shifting and this is a huge step for him but he is being optimistic and has now starting to see her in a new light - the acceptance he has over Ridz/marriage and yes its liking - not love, but what is going to be there is suffering for Sid inside, but Sid will stand by her no matter what
 
I agree Ajnabee Modh Hai - which is very disheartening for Sid right now coz he doesnt know what and how its going to be whilst i dont think Ridz has even thought about life after marriage, seeing as she still has death on her mind
 
 
That is the problem with human emotions - you don't even realize when you cross the line and by the time , you do , it is too late. So true, its so hard to go back once you crossed that line even when you know you shouldnt esp without realizing it
 
It is kind of hard for writers and creatives to depict the opaque and complicated psycho-emotional state of these two characters - they falter at times but i hand it to them for keeping Sid and Riddz in their characters.
I think the writers have a gem here, in what they created in Sid/Ridz bond - the emotional bond
 
 
But that ring had to slip onto Riddzie's finger and it did  - i like that you used the word Had - its like it had to happen anyhow, we all kinda knew she would refuse it but the gang all accidently made it happen or the upperwala Wink

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Do you even know how amazing you are. Your post is so touching. I loved it. So beautiful, amazing, awesomely wonderful, perfectly penned down, im actually running out of words to praise this piece.

You once again have brought all the emotions felt in those scenes back to alive. You hightlight both the characters thoughts and feelings towards what is happening. I must confess once again. You have completely blown me away. Im speechless.

Sid is turly a gem and Ridhima's sorrow filled eyes can't see this along with the great wall of china i name- Armaan. I really wonder how will Sid live up to the promises of a husband. I have full faith in him but it will be too hard, too painful with the new born feelings in his heart.

I don't know what else to say since you have clearly written down everything I could think of. Hats of too you poco.

Love you <3

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Posted: 17 February 2010 at 12:27pm | IP Logged
This also stuck with me that Sid noticed
 
Riddhima's eyes filled with tears and that struck Sid... somewhere he knew why she was crying but the pathos was dissolved in the surrounding joy.....
 
and like you said i think Sid kinda knew why she was crying, and Ridz seemed alittle surprised - but Naina took hold of it

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Posted: 17 February 2010 at 12:28pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Lennie

Wow - lovely post, you summed it so well esp Sid's pov - yes his feelings are shifting and this is a huge step for him but he is being optimistic and has now starting to see her in a new light - the acceptance he has over Ridz/marriage and yes its liking - not love, but what is going to be there is suffering for Sid inside, but Sid will stand by her no matter what


True. Even if Sid ends up falling for Riddhima , he will neither tell her nor let it show unless pushed to the edge. He will just keep his promise - look after her , be with her and protect her .

 
I agree Ajnabee Modh Hai - which is very disheartening for Sid right now coz he doesnt know what and how its going to be whilst i dont think Ridz has even thought about life after marriage, seeing as she still has death on her mind


Yeah. I guess I wrote 'Ajnabi modh hai' more from Sid's POV than Riddhima's because she is not even touch with reality. Sid doesn't know what the future will be but he is going to give it his best shot. Go with the flow and keep his thoughts and feelings to himself.
 
 
That is the problem with human emotions - you don't even realize when you cross the line and by the time , you do , it is too late. So true, its so hard to go back once you crossed that line even when you know you shouldnt esp without realizing it

Well, that is the whole issue - we have a control over our mind but the heart is a born wild horse. You don't direct it. It rules you.

 
It is kind of hard for writers and creatives to depict the opaque and complicated psycho-emotional state of these two characters - they falter at times but i hand it to them for keeping Sid and Riddz in their characters.
I think the writers have a gem here, in what they created in Sid/Ridz bond - the emotional bond

Hehehe. Yes. It is no mean feat writing a daily and meeting expectations. It seriously isn't.
 
 
But that ring had to slip onto Riddzie's finger and it did  - i like that you used the word Had - its like it had to happen anyhow, we all kinda knew she would refuse it but the gang all accidently made it happen or the upperwala Wink

The gang deserves a hug today. Sid-Riddz were so heavy duty today but the gang made everything happy and light. I loved them today, Yuvi , of course , i love permanently.


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Posted: 17 February 2010 at 12:37pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Asthuox

Do you even know how amazing you are. Your post is so touching. I loved it. So beautiful, amazing, awesomely wonderful, perfectly penned down, im actually running out of words to praise this piece.


Hug....Thank you. If what I write makes you feel nice , my purpose is done. I am glad you liked my little study into the real psyche behind fictional characters.
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You once again have brought all the emotions felt in those scenes back to alive. You hightlight both the characters thoughts and feelings towards what is happening. I must confess once again. You have completely blown me away. Im speechless.

Sid is turly a gem and Ridhima's sorrow filled eyes can't see this along with the great wall of china i name- Armaan. I really wonder how will Sid live up to the promises of a husband. I have full faith in him but it will be too hard, too painful with the new born feelings in his heart.


The kind of man Sid has turned out to be - he will never let his hurt , his problems and his angst come in between his promises. His concern is Riddhima and her safety . I guess he stopped thinking about himself  quite sometime ago. It is stupid but then, goodness in itself is a stupidity ... a stupidity of an awesome kind.


I don't know what else to say since you have clearly written down everything I could think of. Hats of too you poco.

Love you <3

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True. Even if Sid ends up falling for Riddhima , he will neither tell her nor let it show unless pushed to the edge. He will just keep his promise - look after her , be with her and protect her . 
 
I agree, i can see Sid being like this, and also if he does end up falling for her, he wont ever tell her but i bet there will be times where he has to stop himself - remember Vanraj Wink
 
I can see Sid being protective and Ridz being annoyed by it and probably give him a lecture on it and how whatever she does is up to her etc - at times like this Sid will be hurt
 
 
Yeah. I guess I wrote 'Ajnabi modh hai' more from Sid's POV than Riddhima's because she is not even touch with reality. Sid doesn't know what the future will be but he is going to give it his best shot. Go with the flow and keep his thoughts and feelings to himself.
 
I have full faith in Sid being the best man and husband to Ridz in terms of honouring his vows and what he has promised to look after her, put her needs before his, give her happiness, facing problems together etc  - as you said give it his best shot, with his whole heart into it Smile


Edited by Lennie - 17 February 2010 at 12:40pm

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