Posted: 17 February 2010 at 7:06am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Relda
Originally posted by moonlight08
Originally posted by _charu_
Originally posted by Relda
Gayatri said one good thing yesterday.. parivarhai, kabhi kabhi sath dena parta hai. But, in a totally wrong context.. getting Naitik to listen to her demand of getting Aks back for the puja. How about she said with regards to Akshara? Kabhi kabhi try and be by her side, she is your wife?
I think this is the problem w/ both Naitik and the Singhania's. FOr them, the family still comes head and shoulders above evrything else. And for some reason, Aks is still not a part of that hallowed circle.
exactly ! this is the main problem..for all of them, family & it's izzat comes first but Akshara is not a part of it, that's how all of them behaved with her..including naitik... the way bhabhi ma feels for nandini and gayitri feels for naitik , nobody feels the same way for akshara
the bias is clearly visible....
gayitri will never say tht to naitik
bec. here, the ladies accept male dominance as the way of life, for them it's the right thing..and none should be spared..if bhabhi ma and gayitri follows it then akshara should also do the same
</div>but di akshara's character is such that she wud never do sucha thing with her in laws..
also.. the bais thing which u r toking abt... i think itz everywhere... the singhania's are no exception..
also.. even in the maheshwari household... rajshree too cared abt akshara more.. though it was of a lower degree... she still cared abt akshra more than she cared abt varsha.. remember she brought her bak from her mayka.. when akshara was coming home.??
I don't think there is any way you can compare Varsha and Akshara's situation in their respective maaykas. Varsha is considered a part of the Maheswari family. She can talk, act, take decisions freely.. Whereas Akshara is still trying to prove her worth and loyalty to the Singhanias. They are just waiting in the lurch, trying to pounce on Aks for any small mistake or mis-step. Rememebr the stupid job letter fiasco? Or going to her maayka w/o informing Gayatri episode?
In the current story-line, has anyone even thought out aloud that perhaps Akshara was being unfairly targetted when it was nandini who dared to love Mohit and Naitik who told his wife to leave the house? Has anyone thought that perhaps naitik too had a small part to play in the whole way this entire situation has degenerated. This is not simple bias.. this is blind-fold love for you own blood and callous disregard for the newcomer to your family.
Very well said
. I agree with you...The Singhanias cant see anything wrong with their children. I dont think AKshara will ever get the love that Naitik or nandini gets. She will always be the bahu who is supposed to think of the ghar ki izzat 24/7
and I feel Akshara has also accepted it as her fate....she doesnt question her MIL or for that matter even her husband. She right now thinks that she has made a mistake and her husband and in-laws are mad at her and have not forgiven her. She may be upset with Naitik for not talking or calling her...thats all. I dont think she is mad at him for having what he said the night she left the house. She should change her attitude otherwise she will never her her say in her own house. Its high time both Naitik and Akshara treat the each other as equals...gone are the days when the guys were treated as parmeshwars. According to me they should be good partners who may/may not have the same view towards things but are always together during the journey of life. Both should have the freedom to have an opinion of their own.