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Posted: 16 February 2010 at 11:19pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Relda

Gayatri said one good thing yesterday.. parivarhai, kabhi kabhi sath dena parta hai. But, in a totally wrong context.. getting Naitik to listen to her demand of getting Aks back for the puja. How about she said with regards to Akshara? Kabhi kabhi try and be by her side, she is your wife?


I think this is the problem w/ both Naitik and the Singhania's. FOr them, the family still comes head and shoulders above evrything else. And for some reason, Aks is still not a part of that hallowed circle.



exactly ! this is the main problem..for all of them, family & it's izzat comes first but Akshara is not a part of it, that's how all of them behaved with her..including naitik... the way bhabhi ma feels for nandini and gayitri feels for naitik , nobody feels the same way for akshara Cry the bias is clearly visible....

gayitri will never say tht to naitik Big smile bec. here, the ladies accept male dominance as the way of life, for them it's the right thing..and none should be spared..if bhabhi ma and gayitri follows it then akshara should also do the same Dead how sick Dead

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Posted: 16 February 2010 at 11:44pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by moonlight08

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Originally posted by Relda


Gayatri said one good thing yesterday.. parivarhai, kabhi kabhi sath dena parta hai. But, in a totally wrong context.. getting Naitik to listen to her demand of getting Aks back for the puja. How about she said with regards to Akshara? Kabhi kabhi try and be by her side, she is your wife?



I think this is the problem w/ both Naitik and the Singhania's. FOr them, the family still comes head and shoulders above evrything else. And for some reason, Aks is still not a part of that hallowed circle.



exactly ! this is the main problem..for all of them, family & it's izzat comes first but Akshara is not a part of it, that's how all of them behaved with her..including naitik... the way bhabhi ma feels for nandini and gayitri feels for naitik , nobody feels the same way for akshara Cry the bias is clearly visible....

gayitri will never say tht to naitik Big smile bec. here, the ladies accept male dominance as the way of life, for them it's the right thing..and none should be spared..if bhabhi ma and gayitri follows it then akshara should also do the same Dead how sick Dead

</div>but di akshara's character is such that she wud never do sucha thing with her in laws..
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also.. the bais thing which u r toking abt... i think itz everywhere... the singhania's are no exception..

also.. even in the maheshwari household... rajshree too cared abt akshara more.. though it was of a lower degree... she still cared abt akshra more than she cared abt varsha.. remember she brought her bak from her mayka.. when akshara was coming home.??


still dear, there is a little affection for ur bahu also..but none of the Singhania's have it..at least i didn't expect this from Gayitri..remember she said that if naitik is the laadla of the house, his wife will have the same position, everybody will love her the way they love naitik..where r those false promises? every lady protects HER family first ..and as a woman also, she cud not understand akshara's pain..gayitri knew in what circumstances akshara left, yet she never tried to talk to her and explain her the complexities of married life & joint family..tht's the only complaint i have with naitik..aksh is his family & he treated her like bonded labour Angry Dead

yes ur rite..the bias exists everywhere...but for a wife, is her husband is on her side, it doesn't matter how biased the family behaves .. after marriage, i myself felt like an outsider many times , but my husband always told me that you and my child are my family and my first priority..he also told me before i had a baby that u left ur family for me that's why i feel more responsible towards u...

ur husband's attitude makes all the difference to ur thinking ...

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Posted: 16 February 2010 at 11:54pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by moonlight08


</div>see gayitri is to gayitri.. i hate her now.. although sumtym bak i used to lyk her character... par abhi to she has gone totally mad... wonder y isnt she showing the letter to naitik which akshara wrote for him./? i thot ki munna agreed to bring bak aksh home becoz he read the letter.. but gayitri.. aaarrgghh... too bad..
<div>vaise i agree to the fact that akshara is indeed treated lyk a bonded labour.. she has no position in her sasural... wonder y.???

n when did gayitri say ki akshara will have the same position as munna.?? i dnt remember this.. she sed it before thier marriage.?? or when she just had her entry in the show.??


she said this when naitik and akshara had a fight over katrina....Rajshri , Varsha and dadi looked worried when Rashmi was "praising" naitik "daada laadle hai is ghar ke..unki baat maani jaati hai"   Big smile , then Gayitri said this dialogue ke laadle ki bahu ko bhi utna hi pyaar milega..and she also said main sarr ankhon par baitha ke rakhoongi apni bahu ko...

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Posted: 16 February 2010 at 11:55pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by moonlight08

Originally posted by _charu_

Originally posted by Relda

Gayatri said one good thing yesterday.. parivarhai, kabhi kabhi sath dena parta hai. But, in a totally wrong context.. getting Naitik to listen to her demand of getting Aks back for the puja. How about she said with regards to Akshara? Kabhi kabhi try and be by her side, she is your wife?


I think this is the problem w/ both Naitik and the Singhania's. FOr them, the family still comes head and shoulders above evrything else. And for some reason, Aks is still not a part of that hallowed circle.



exactly ! this is the main problem..for all of them, family & it's izzat comes first but Akshara is not a part of it, that's how all of them behaved with her..including naitik... the way bhabhi ma feels for nandini and gayitri feels for naitik , nobody feels the same way for akshara Cry the bias is clearly visible....

gayitri will never say tht to naitik Big smile bec. here, the ladies accept male dominance as the way of life, for them it's the right thing..and none should be spared..if bhabhi ma and gayitri follows it then akshara should also do the same Dead how sick Dead
but di akshara's character is such that she wud never do sucha thing with her in laws..
 
also.. the bais thing which u r toking abt... i think itz everywhere... the singhania's are no exception..
also.. even in the maheshwari household... rajshree too cared abt akshara more.. though it was of a lower degree... she still cared abt akshra more than she cared abt varsha.. remember she brought her bak from her mayka.. when akshara was coming home.??
 
I don't think there is any way you can compare Varsha and Akshara's situation in their respective maaykas. Varsha is considered a part of the Maheswari family. She can talk, act, take decisions freely.. Whereas Akshara is still trying to prove her worth and loyalty to the Singhanias. They are just waiting in the lurch, trying to pounce on Aks for any small mistake or mis-step. Rememebr the stupid job letter fiasco? Or going to her maayka w/o informing Gayatri episode?
In the current story-line, has anyone even thought out aloud that perhaps Akshara was being unfairly targetted when it was nandini who dared to love Mohit and Naitik who told his wife to leave the house? Has anyone thought that perhaps naitik too had a small part to play in the whole way this entire situation has degenerated. This is not simple bias.. this is blind-fold love for you own blood and callous disregard for the newcomer to your family.

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thanks charu for the great updates.
 
Doing a good job as there are no regular updates & U can continue with your updates. its a good platform for discussion instead of opening several topics for the day!
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Posted: 17 February 2010 at 12:11am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Relda

Originally posted by moonlight08

Originally posted by _charu_

Originally posted by Relda

Gayatri said one good thing yesterday.. parivarhai, kabhi kabhi sath dena parta hai. But, in a totally wrong context.. getting Naitik to listen to her demand of getting Aks back for the puja. How about she said with regards to Akshara? Kabhi kabhi try and be by her side, she is your wife?


I think this is the problem w/ both Naitik and the Singhania's. FOr them, the family still comes head and shoulders above evrything else. And for some reason, Aks is still not a part of that hallowed circle.



exactly ! this is the main problem..for all of them, family & it's izzat comes first but Akshara is not a part of it, that's how all of them behaved with her..including naitik... the way bhabhi ma feels for nandini and gayitri feels for naitik , nobody feels the same way for akshara Cry the bias is clearly visible....

gayitri will never say tht to naitik Big smile bec. here, the ladies accept male dominance as the way of life, for them it's the right thing..and none should be spared..if bhabhi ma and gayitri follows it then akshara should also do the same Dead how sick Dead
but di akshara's character is such that she wud never do sucha thing with her in laws..
 
also.. the bais thing which u r toking abt... i think itz everywhere... the singhania's are no exception..
also.. even in the maheshwari household... rajshree too cared abt akshara more.. though it was of a lower degree... she still cared abt akshra more than she cared abt varsha.. remember she brought her bak from her mayka.. when akshara was coming home.??
 
I don't think there is any way you can compare Varsha and Akshara's situation in their respective maaykas. Varsha is considered a part of the Maheswari family. She can talk, act, take decisions freely.. Whereas Akshara is still trying to prove her worth and loyalty to the Singhanias. They are just waiting in the lurch, trying to pounce on Aks for any small mistake or mis-step. Rememebr the stupid job letter fiasco? Or going to her maayka w/o informing Gayatri episode?
In the current story-line, has anyone even thought out aloud that perhaps Akshara was being unfairly targetted when it was nandini who dared to love Mohit and Naitik who told his wife to leave the house? Has anyone thought that perhaps naitik too had a small part to play in the whole way this entire situation has degenerated. This is not simple bias.. this is blind-fold love for you own blood and callous disregard for the newcomer to your family.
very right. varsha has all the freedom, including covering or not covering the head. while aksh cant afford even to let her pallu go off even a bit. Varsh is considered one of the family (excluding nani) while aksh is still stuggling & that's the reason she is more nervous whenever she is doing anything. just waiting for reactions from everyone on whatever little thing she is doing.
 
I always said that it wasnt akshra who fell in love, but it was nandini who was the main culprit. but akshara was being punished for itShocked
this is what U call the blind-fold love for you own blood and callous disregard for the newcomer to your family.Clap

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