In today's episode, I have complains against two people: Madhav and Brij Mathur. Both of them could have handled Mrs. Shukla and stopped her from being so harsh today.
Firstly, Madhav should not have screamed at his mom in some one else's house and in front of every one. If he had problems with his mom's behavior, he should have tackled with it privately. This would give him the benefit of having the upper hand in their conversation/argument, unlike what happened. Since he shouted at his mom in front of everyone (I hated to see dadi getting pleasure out of this), his mom easily blackmailed him. For Madhav, the most important thing right now is to get married and the only person creating a havoc is his mom. I know he was way too angry to think straight at that moment, but his anger let him to more trouble anyways. I hope tomorrow Abheer and Madhav sit and analyze the whole situation and realize the main problem right now is Dadi and Mrs Shukla. Therefore, Abheer should deal with Dadi and Madhav with his mom. Right now Abheer and Madhav both are letting their anger and frustration take over them, but that wont get them anywhere. They need to think straight and with the right mind. This problem is getting bigger and they should control it before it gets out of their hand. Abheer needs to speak normally with Dadi and tell her diplomatically to back off. And Madhav should make his mom understand that to him nothing matters more than his family's unity and that he loves her as well as Rashmi. I am sure Mrs. Shukla's heart will melt if Madhav speaks nicely with her and if Abheer can some how keep dadi away from her. But by getting angry on his mom, Madhav is jeopardizing his marriage and is creating more trouble for Rashmi's parents. It is only Madhav at this moment who can handle Mrs. Shukla. At least he can try.
Secondly, when Brij interefered and told Rashmi to go to her room, he should have continued from there and dealt with Mrs. Shukla instead of standing quietly. After all Mrs Shukla was insulting Rashmi's parents in HIS HOME and he should have had the upper hand in his home. He could have told Mrs Shukla that what she said at Vajpaiji's house he took it quietly, but this is his home and he would not like either her or the guest be insulted out here. That to him both sides are equally important. He could further continue by saying that he would like to maintain a peaceful enviornment out here. And if she has any problem with Rashmi's parents, she may deal with it peacefully. He had the power to shut up Mrs. Shukla diplomatically if he wanted to. She was insulting Rashmi's parents in his house. Had Brij done this, there was a possibility of this problem temporary being stopped right there and then as Mrs. Shukla cannot speak rudely to Brij in his home.
Anyways, I am waiting to see AbHer scene and Abheer Madhav interaction tomorrow. Lehar is definitely falling for Abheer. This is what I wanted to see, Lehar getting impressed at least once by Abheer without Abheer knowing of it, like today. Chalo meri yeh icha toh puri ho gayi.
Edited by Anvi2009 - 26 January 2010 at 5:29pm