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22/1 - Sid-Riddz - And now, I take a bow.....

TheBlackJaguar IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 22 January 2010 at 9:00am | IP Logged
Hi guys,

Quite a sad episode , wasn't it? Trust was broken, friendships fell apart , judgments were made and judgments issued - why? Only because Sid behaved like a MAN and took everything - all the glares , all the accusations , all the hatred in his stride. Because he was ready and he had seen it coming. I guess all of us wanted to give a bear hug to Sid today - not just because he needed it .... because he DESERVED it. Embarrassed
Sid had the guts , the guilt spirit to call everybody into the reception area so that he could admit his mistake in front of the whole world - and restore Riddzie's dignity as much as he could. His steps wobbled but his resolve was firm as he walked into the reception area full of hospital staff , his friends, his seniors and his arch-enemy Riddhima. He stammered but sticking to his resolve to restore everything back to  Riddhima , he confessed that he was behind all this. He took the pictures because he wanted to hurt  Riddhima , make her beg, apologize and leave Sanjivani. But he never wanted to make a spectacle out of her honour and dignity. Everybody listened - shocked friends , crying Riddhima and the stunned staff. But Sid faced it all - he was mentally and emotionally prepared for it. He even told Riddhima that he is sorry - that is all he can say. Riddhima went away , and friends ....friends who often leave us when we are at our worst were no different here. JP, Naina was expected but Yuvi... even though trying to understand what made Sid do what he did , ultimately left him ... all alone. Sid kept standing there , all alone with his guilt.

While Riddhima dealt with her crumbling defences and her rotten destiny ( most of which is of course self-inflicted)  in solace of a fantastic friend like Atul, Sid was told by Keerti that he cannot really undo what has happened - no explanation can save Riddzie the trouble because Sid is around and Riddz has to see him every day... every single day . And that is when Sid took the decision to leave Sanjivani.

Later, he tells Riddhima that the best that he can do to rectify his mistake is to leave Sanjivani so that she can live in peace if not forgive him. The way he told this to her - there was no guilt , hatred , remorse or anything in there. There was just simplicity of basic humanity - a person telling another person that what has been done cannot be undone but there is always a solution and like a responsible human-being and a resolved one at that , he took the decision....

And off went Siddhant... clearly emerging the winner of this conflict of genders and egos. Coming out to be a better human-being and a higher person than Riddhima ever will be in comparison to Sid.

After Tamanna and Riddhima... Sid has emerged what i somehow felt earlier he never will be - A man you would be really proud to know. Clap

The war is over and Sid has walked all over Riddhima and she can never better him .... NEVER.

Edited by Pocahontas - 22 January 2010 at 9:09am

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Posted: 22 January 2010 at 9:06am | IP Logged
So beautiful as always! Clap

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Lennie IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 22 January 2010 at 9:08am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Pocahontas

Hhuman-being and a higher person than Riddhima ever will be in comparison to Sid.

After Tamanna and Riddhima... Sid has emerged what i somehow felt earlier he never will be - A man you would be really proud to know. Clap

I agree Clap
He is definately not a kid when it came to be him being man and standing up and saying sorry
Pretty sad episode really Ouch
I love how KW and JW worj together, the tears in there eyes as S/R in the first scene Clap

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mysterieux IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 22 January 2010 at 9:10am | IP Logged
very well said...loved your post

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eveline IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 22 January 2010 at 9:14am | IP Logged
Admitting your mistake needs greater courage than doing one..only true and strong individuals can go that way.

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koolaries4 IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 22 January 2010 at 9:19am | IP Logged

I dont have much to say about Sidhimma as i am not enjoying the track . Infact, I am totally and throughly disappointed today, Nitz.. i did not expect JP and YuNa to abandon Sid like that.. Angry Rather i would have preferred them accusing him and asking him questions and giving him a chance to make them understand.. one line of questioning would be better than abandoning him like that. Agree, they think he has done something unpardonable , but that does not make them srangers.. especially JP - he has lived with Sid.. They say you can recognize a person in 3 ways: throurough travel, work or living with them. So, Sid may have been swayed by his emotions, ego, frustrations and all.. but you being a friend could atleast ask him!!

As for Yuvi, i thought he would be abit more sympathetic towards Sid.. i really liked it that when everyone dispersed, he stayed back and told Sid that no one knows better than him how hard it is to gain someone's lost trust. I wanted him to ask Sid why he did what he did.. i wanted them to have some boy talk, with Sid trying to explain himself..

Then coming to Ridz and Atul.. loved how Atul was there for Ridz.. thanks for such a warm-friendly scene.. Also, it was touching how JP and YuNa came to ask ridzie if theres anythign they can do to make this allright.. and i loved it how Naina Justified on  impulse that he is our friends.. if  i dare say, she would have supported Sid had JP not walked out !! i just have this feeling about it..

I am disappointed at Atul though.. He was the first one to behave normally towards Yuvi when he was wrong.. But here, he got swayed by Ridhimma's tears and just started blaming Sid.. And not only that, he started scolding the interns about their generation.. But i would like to remind him, that Armaan betted on Ridzie (that ridzie will love him), he left Sanjeevani, racing and all.. Not only that, Rahul Slept with Muskaan and then left her, Abhi nikki's fights and insults - yes, thats how good they were!! So, i don't agree...

See, the only thing nice about cinema is that we get to see both sides of the equation and we know everything.. but in real life, i guess, most of us, including myself would react the way they have, and would not ask Sid.. and thats the irony.. so i am hoping to store ths in my memory, and in life, i would ask the so called culprit for his reasons, and its possible that he may not be reprimanded more than he deserves..

All in All, i am in awe of Sid for saying the truth.. And true, i wanted to give him a bear hug for all that he did today!! And you are one hundred percent right... Ridhimma and Tamma cannot even come an inch close to him. He has shown that he is a good human being.. It takes guts to admit the truth infront of the world, knowing perhaps that the world will never trust you again and will treat you indifferently..  Kudos to him !! And i also initially never thought, that Sid would be so strong and so mature.. I loved him.. like yesterday, he was the only saving grace of the episode.. so  my quote of the day goes to him, for standing up for whats right:

"To go against the dominant thinking of your friends, of most of the people you see every day, is perhaps the most difficult act of heroism you can perform."
And because i am so mad at JP and YuNa, a quote for them too relating to their silence:
"In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."

Edited by koolaries4 - 22 January 2010 at 9:31am

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Lennie IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 22 January 2010 at 9:21am | IP Logged
Great quotes Smile

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PSharada IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 22 January 2010 at 9:33am | IP Logged
Poco, Well saw the episode with the faintest hope that Sid will tell everyone why he did the thing he did with Riddhima. I knew he would confess to taking the snaps of the sleeping Riddhima but I felt he should have told everyone what drove him to do thatAngryAngryAngry. Well what the hell was I thinkingConfusedConfusedConfused. This is a Indian soap for god sakeAngryAngry. Indian soaps always potray the girl to be the one with all the damn honour in the world and always the men are the ones who don't have nor care for itDeadDeadDead. Oh Pleassse give me a break. After building up the conflict and actually after yesterday's episode this came as  a speed breaker. AngryAngry

So Sid turned out to the responsible person very few can becomeClapClap. He took responsibility for what has happened and tried to rectify his mistake and that too by doing a public apologyStarStar. That needs guts and does Riddhima even acknowledge itAngryAngry. No Madam is a girl who can't stand people talking about her character but oh yeah she can sure throw mud on someone's characterAngryAngry. And that is the reason she gives Sid that she has decided that she would leave Sanjeevani because people will talk about her character. But I liked the way Sid answered her back. You stay and I will go because I am the one who did wrong today. Bravo Sid.StarStarStar

The end scene with Sid walking away with his things was really touchingCryCryCry. The flashback scenes of him with his friends and enjoying in Sanjeevani was goodStar. Guy never wanted to come to India from Houston but in the end the stay changed him to be a better man and a responsible one. So many times we don't want to change something and in the end the change really makes us grow and Sanjeevani did the same to SidStarStar. It would have been good if Naina, Yuvi and JP did take the stand with Sid and did try to support him but only Yuvi gave a word of comfort and the rest just walked away. Let's see what happens next.

In all a disappointing episode for me PocoThumbs DownThumbs Down. What can I say.

Edited by psarada - 22 January 2010 at 9:36am

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