I finally watched the episode today and was happy to know that what i had guess was right.....dadi mistaking leher for rashmi.
Though I was am really angry with dadi for this but the nice thing about is:
1) Rashmi didnt have to hear all that otherwise the poor girl would have distressed again.
2) good for future for abher relationship. they wud know how difficult things wud be for them. and this scene may bring abher a little closer, may be abeer wud do something for her to make her feel better.
you the other funny thing i noticed is that the bajpayyes keep telling abeer not to interfere in the shukla's matter, then who gave dadi the right ti go interfere in there matter? I mean going and speaking to rashmi (leher mistakenly) and saying all these bad things to her, isnt that interference?
I wish that tomorrow they have some proper abher scene.