Post Dedicated to Jigar-Rhimjim Track: Do comment

Dear all,

After hearing some views let's put all together. That is lets think about points which are in favor and against Jigar-Rhimjim track. However, this does not mean that one is right and another wrong...but yes many will feel that one side is more correct than other.

Pro: Jigar loves Rhimjim so they should marry
Cons: Does that mean love is the only important thing to consider? Character, life-style, dialect etc not considered? Can person change immensely after marriage given the big difference between Thakkar and Talwar lifestyle? If it happened in BBB, is that real..? Well do you care if BBB goes fictitious..some may ...some may not...

Pro: Jigar has the right to live in is own way.
Cons: Yes that's the western culture: to marry anyone any number of times, staying away from parents after 18 and meeting them only in Christmas and Easter. Indian lifestyle: Family members are closest and cares for most of the life, girlfriends comes at age above 20...Jigar knows Rhimjim for say maximum of 5 years...but since he likes her he has the right to bin all his family....and even return his dad's deeds....is it right? Think...

Pro: Subodh, Baby, Gurindar and Hemal supporting Jigar...That is good. They understand Jigar's problem.
Cons: Does this mean..they if Manav in the future really loves a high-standard girl who is more rude and outspoken than Rhimjim....people should support him again...? is this right message...some one loves someone..does not care of character.....people support him just for the sake..that Jigar stays alive.....because w/o Rhimjim he will die....isn't this emotional blackmailing...I love someone..forget her character...if you don't support me...I will die.?

Pro: It's good children are supporting the cause..
Cons: Yes..this is indeed good..because children are also learning something new..to act in a real marriage..create a fraud....and in future find a partner and black mail whole thakkar family to accept that girl..children are learning a negative issue here.

Pro: It's good that there are two groups in Thakkars so the Jigar's group can do their job easily w/o Baa coming in their way.
Cons: Don't you think there is very less communication between Baa and other group..In past whenever there were serious issues, people tend to sit all together and make a decision wisely...there was less of shouting and anger but more understanding..but this time Baa just shouted say no...and did not discuss why she thinks so...less communication..so producers can make more episodes out of it...not ideal BBB...


Today's episode (09.01.10) was something you call stretching.......no new issues today:
(1) Guida did not reach Rhimjim...just dancing scences
(2) Rupali came and left..

JayVed ❤️
Edited by JayVed - 14 years ago

Dear all,

 

Hi Jayved😊

After hearing some views let's put all together. That is let's think about points which are in favor and against Jigar-Rhimjim track. However, this does not mean that one is right and another wrong...but yes many will feel that one side is more correct than other.

 

Jigar n Rimjhim story is a bit complicated.😔

Pro: Jigar loves Rhimjim so they should marry
Cons: Does that mean love is the only important thing to consider? Character, life-style, dialect etc not considered? Can person change immensely after marriage given the big difference between Thakkar and Talwar lifestyle? If it happened in BBB, is that real..? Well do you care if BBB goes fictitious..some may ...some may not...

 

Love is not the only important thing for marriage, but again without love, marriage would be incomplete.

Change in the sense, for example rimjhim learns some little things like, talking nicely with elders and also how to behave in front of elders. Another example is gudiya, also learnt to be a good wife with patience. But she never changed her original self.

BBB has always been close to reality and I would prefer it to be the same.

Pro: Jigar has the right to live in is own way.
Cons: Yes that's the western culture: to marry anyone any number of times, staying away from parents after 18 and meeting them only in Christmas and Easter. Indian lifestyle: Family members are closest and cares for most of the life, girlfriends comes at age above 20...Jigar knows Rhimjim for say maximum of 5 years...but since he likes her he has the right to bin all his family....and even return his dad's deeds....is it right? Think...

 

Jigar has his rights to live life his own way, but one should not forget that if a person has his rights, he also has his duties. The way jigar is trying to make his family ok for rimjhim, he should also do the same thing with rimjhim with her behaviors/manners etc.

Pro: Subodh, Baby, Gurindar and Hemal supporting Jigar...That is good. They understand Jigar's problem.
Cons: Does this mean..they if Manav in the future really loves a high-standard girl who is more rude and outspoken than Rhimjim....people should support him again...? is this right message...some one loves someone..Does not care of character.....people support him just for the sake..that Jigar stays alive.....because w/o Rhimjim he will die....isn't this emotional blackmailing...I love someone..forget her character...if you don't support me...I will die.?

 

First and foremost, emotional blackmail on the basis of suicide is wrong. If the gang which supports jigar is doing for the sake of jigar n rimjhim, fine! But if they are doing it bcoz jigar would die, then its totally wrong. If in the future if Manav does the same thing as jigar, then may be jigar and co will help him in the similar manner.

The family already tried for the sake of jigar and gave a chance to rimjhim (and her father) but they lacked given take respect thing. Baa and Co, have realized the difference in every other way and hence said no.

Pro: It's good children are supporting the cause..
Cons: Yes..This is indeed good..because children are also learning something new..to act in a real marriage..Create a fraud....and in future find a partner and black mail whole thakkar family to accept that girl..Children are learning a negative issue here.

 

Including children in their plan is wrong. It is sending a wrong message to them. May be after Baa finds out the whole issue she will also include the point when she is scolding them.

Pro: It's good that there are two groups in Thakkars so the Jigar's group can do their job easily w/o Baa coming in their way.
Cons: Don't you think there is very less communication between Baa and other group..In past whenever there were serious issues, people tend to sit all together and make a decision wisely...there was less of shouting and anger but more understanding..but this time Baa just shouted say no...and did not discuss why she thinks so...less communication..so producers can make more episodes out of it...not ideal BBB...

 

I think they should have a 2^nd Saturday type of meeting and have a detailed discussion bringing out the pros and cons and also explaining them very wisely to jigar.


Today's episode (09.01.10) was something you call stretching.......no new issues today:
(1) Guida did not reach Rhimjim...just dancing scences
(2) Rupali came and left..

Yes, I agree completely…. Today's episode was a drag.🥱 Hopefully tommo they show some improvement. 👍🏼

Bhavi😊