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Posted: 08 January 2010 at 1:16pm | IP Logged
Even before I start my post...

My sincere request to haters, bashers, self-proclaimed AR owners and CV hunters , please spare my post. I never went to posh schools , so i really don't understand literal meanings of hatred , bitterness and can't deal with them due to my illiteracy. Cry..... mujhe maaf kar do aur mujhse door raho.OuchLOLWink

Okay , back to the topic of my post...

It has been in my head ever since the locker room and dressing room fight between Sid and Riddzie. And the BB match precap only makes me see these two characters in that light more strongly. Their fights are not just the battle of sexes and prejudiced egos, their fights also spring from hurt pride, insulted and challenged dignity alongwith a strong line of defence for their identity and individuality.

Rewind. Sid was only trying to help Riddzie and save his goodbye gift when Riddzie slapped him in front of a whole lot of people , accusing him of being a molester and trying to take advantage of  her. She slapped him thrice and got him wrongly arrested as well. Riddzie's reaction was a humiliation of Sid's dignity and his honour.

Cut to the locker room.  Sid was again accused of being a molester/rapist kind of a man who should be beaten black and blue. Sid's natural defence of his dignity made him insult Riddzie's womanhood by calling her ugly , unwanted , undesirable and what not. It further boiled up when Sid taught Riddzie a lesson in the dressing room - giving her a scare , a feel of what a molestation attempt can be. This is how he counter attacked Riddzie's honour.

The mutual bashing has only mounted up since then where they both are attacking each-other in the most meanie ways possible.

And then, this BB match. Going by the flow of behavior of both the characters, it is nothing but a grabbed chance to dishonour each-other , to render the opponent defenceless by putting him or her to shame.

There was no need for Riddzie to keep a condition that she will like to blacken Sid's face if the new gang loses the match . A counter attack on Riddzie's honour had to happen when she did the same to his self-respect. Sid , now, driven by a motivated urge to break her told her that he is fine with it as long as she accepts his condition - get kissed by him if the old gang loses the match. ShockedAngry
Human-beings can be really vile and violent when you put your honour under the sword and as much as i love Riddzie , she has started this dignity war and.... when we defend ourselves with our heads rather than our hearts.... we can stoop to all possible levels......human nature. LOLWink


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Posted: 08 January 2010 at 1:36pm | IP Logged
omg i m goin to luv this seni a nd juni war the war of dignity and honour the thing was that they both are so strong people and come from such powerful bakgrounds which make them equal in each aspect till now i can't say that who is weak may b the bb match will decide

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Posted: 08 January 2010 at 1:37pm | IP Logged
Once again an amazing post! Never get tired of saying this! lol
You are so right... They are both digging wholes into eachother. I think Ridz was more wrong coz as u said he didn't really do anything to her. But then both being have the pride.. and once been attacked they will lash. Hence Ridz lashes at Sid .. and vice versa. Its deffo a battle of the sexes.. but I don't think they both really know why they have this much hate. But I guess.. Once that realisation comes. It will be the fact that opposites attract and they will both realise they are closer to home then they thought... as they both have been hurt as well. The understanding will happen later.

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Posted: 08 January 2010 at 2:10pm | IP Logged
Star waallah!!! how beautifully u penned it down....StarStar just loved it, yeap it all about one's honour and diginity!!! one can go to any extend to protect one honour!!!
it's total madness and nothing less!! the human argue to prove being always right and always better than the other!! 
the score is equal now so the bb match is the deciding factor who wins and who loses!!
i really want Ridhz to win, for a change a gurl to win!!!! plus it won't be repetitive!!!
cheers poco

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Posted: 08 January 2010 at 2:34pm | IP Logged
WOW aap kitni achi tariqe se sab kuch samjati haiClap

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Posted: 08 January 2010 at 2:40pm | IP Logged
Pretty good post, well said




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Posted: 08 January 2010 at 3:05pm | IP Logged
amazingf post look forward to hearing from u again =) x

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