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Posted: 30 December 2009 at 12:00am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Summer3

Perhaps sometimes when a person is willing to accept compromises it indicates they themselves have character flaws too.

Or does it indicate that since they have character flaws and they recognise it, they are willing to accept compromises?

Seriously though, it all eventually burns down to the belief system. If you have a certain sense of beliefs, which you have developed over a period of time - wtih experience, by experimenting, etc - don't change them or lose trust in them in a tiffy. If angelina had forever thought that marriage is not a big thing, and infidelity is acceptable , then its kinda fine .She knows she is correct then . But if these situations have suddenly led her to say all this, ofcourse its wrong ! Only the person saying that knows it.

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Posted: 30 December 2009 at 12:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Originally posted by clodpolish

Ok- well angelina's thoughts made you think all this right?

If we just say angelina has lost her mind, then? Discussion khatam?LOL



We already knew Angelina's lost her mind ... discussion aakhir shuru hi kyon hua tha? LOL
Wahi to- chalo discuss karte hain.LOL
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Posted: 30 December 2009 at 12:04am | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Originally posted by return_to_hades



Alright,  I said all this but define cheating? Sexual infidelity? Emotionally loving someone else? Thinking of someone else during sex?


I think emotionally loving someone else is worse than sexual infidelity. In some cases, sexual infidelity can fall under pure lust and selfish desires, but when you have an emotional attachment to someone in the form of love, there is nothing that your partner can do at that point.

I'm not sure how the topic starter defines cheating they. I'm guessing sexual infidelity is implied.


Yeah, I guess that's what is implied. I like to complicate matters as you know it.

As I said, to me cheating (both kinds) after marriage is wrong. Better end than cheat, according to me. I don't get people who want open marriages. Anyway, miya biwi ke beech, main kaun bolne waali. I'll worry about my relationships only.


Absolutely ... cheating is totally uncalled for in a marriage. Open marriages are stupid BS. People have reduced marriage down to a bond that society expects each individual to form. Its ridiculous - why enter into marriage if you do not wish to commit in the first place?

Okay, done venting. :)
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Posted: 30 December 2009 at 12:05am | IP Logged
Originally posted by clodpolish

Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Originally posted by clodpolish

Ok- well angelina's thoughts made you think all this right?

If we just say angelina has lost her mind, then? Discussion khatam?LOL



We already knew Angelina's lost her mind ... discussion aakhir shuru hi kyon hua tha? LOL
Wahi to- chalo discuss karte hain.LOL


Okay. Angelina ka dimaag abhi kharab hua hai ya pehle se kharab tha? Dimag kabhi tha bhi ke nahi? LOL

Kya Cloddy, lagta hai kuch zyaada hi strong breakfast karke aaye ho. Itni lambi posts and full debate waala mood? Aise kaise? LOL
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Posted: 30 December 2009 at 12:07am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Steff_DMG

Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*

Originally posted by return_to_hades



Alright,  I said all this but define cheating? Sexual infidelity? Emotionally loving someone else? Thinking of someone else during sex?


I think emotionally loving someone else is worse than sexual infidelity. In some cases, sexual infidelity can fall under pure lust and selfish desires, but when you have an emotional attachment to someone in the form of love, there is nothing that your partner can do at that point.

I'm not sure how the topic starter defines cheating they. I'm guessing sexual infidelity is implied.
Agreed.Thumbs Up

Fantasizing about some else when in bed in understandable, emotional attachment is very hard to come out from. Ouch



Actually, neither is understandable, but people do it nonetheless. End the relationship if they're not happy- why is that so hard for people? Its like trying to sail two boats at once, in the end, both ships are going to drown and take you down with them. ;)

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Posted: 30 December 2009 at 12:08am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Crimson_Sky

Originally posted by Steff_DMG



Fantasizing about some else when in bed in understandable, emotional attachment is very hard to come out from. Ouch

But how can yu fantasize someone else in bed when you have finally given your soul, heart and mind to someone particular?

Maybe some people are unable to give so much to a particular person.Yet they marry, and what is worse is that when everything fails, and they discover their weaknesses ... they try to justify themselves by framing everyone in the same category as themselves.
 
Yes, some people are unable to love and purely love. But some can.


There have been cases where wives/husbands complain about such stuff,go ask them how they fantasize about others, I have no idea how such insane stuff come on their mindOuch, Ok its insane to me but may be human to someConfused some fantasize about celebrities, mediocre, honestly !! Dead
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