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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 9:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by -JONAKI-

I will never omit my religion for marriage for anything.The reasons behind this:
 
1)It's a sin.
2)My parents would die.
3)I won't omit my personal beleifs,wishes,independence for marriage.
4)Marriage is not important than my religion,independence and life.
 
This is my POV.I don't have any problem with people omitting religion for marriage.
 
Agree with you; I wouldn't necessarily say my parents would die, because they're not like that, but they would be disappointed in me and I hate doing anything which disappoints them. I'm willing to sacrifice my own happiness if need be. I don't believe in gratifying the self above others.
 
And yes, it is a sin as well.
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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 9:31am | IP Logged
Originally posted by _LalithaJanaki_

Originally posted by -JONAKI-

I will never omit my religion for marriage for anything.The reasons behind this:
 
1)It's a sin.
2)My parents would die.
3)I won't omit my personal beleifs,wishes,independence for marriage.
4)Marriage is not important than my religion,independence and life.
 
This is my POV.I don't have any problem with people omitting religion for marriage.
 
Agree with you; I wouldn't necessarily say my parents would die, because they're not like that, but they would be disappointed in me and I hate doing anything which disappoints them. I'm willing to sacrifice my own happiness if need be. I don't believe in gratifying the self above others.
 
And yes, it is a sin as well.


What if parents agree and are happy about it? Talking in general and not related to anyone.


Edited by karandel_2008 - 24 December 2009 at 9:32am
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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 9:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by karandel_2008

Originally posted by _LalithaJanaki_

Originally posted by -JONAKI-

I will never omit my religion for marriage for anything.The reasons behind this:
 
1)It's a sin.
2)My parents would die.
3)I won't omit my personal beleifs,wishes,independence for marriage.
4)Marriage is not important than my religion,independence and life.
 
This is my POV.I don't have any problem with people omitting religion for marriage.
 
Agree with you; I wouldn't necessarily say my parents would die, because they're not like that, but they would be disappointed in me and I hate doing anything which disappoints them. I'm willing to sacrifice my own happiness if need be. I don't believe in gratifying the self above others.
 
And yes, it is a sin as well.


What if parents agree and are happy about it? Talking in general and not related to anyone.
 
If parents agree then how would it be going against religion? My religion says that marriage which goes against parents is a sin, so if parents are happy about it then the marriage wouldn't be a sin would it?

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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 10:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by _LalithaJanaki_

Originally posted by karandel_2008

Originally posted by _LalithaJanaki_

Originally posted by -JONAKI-

I will never omit my religion for marriage for anything.The reasons behind this:
 
1)It's a sin.
2)My parents would die.
3)I won't omit my personal beleifs,wishes,independence for marriage.
4)Marriage is not important than my religion,independence and life.
 
This is my POV.I don't have any problem with people omitting religion for marriage.
 
Agree with you; I wouldn't necessarily say my parents would die, because they're not like that, but they would be disappointed in me and I hate doing anything which disappoints them. I'm willing to sacrifice my own happiness if need be. I don't believe in gratifying the self above others.
 
And yes, it is a sin as well.


What if parents agree and are happy about it? Talking in general and not related to anyone.
 
If parents agree then how would it be going against religion? My religion says that marriage which goes against parents is a sin, so if parents are happy about it then the marriage wouldn't be a sin would it?


ok thanks for the clarification.

It makes me wonder that when we become parents then should we think about the "happiness" of the society or of our children.


Edited by karandel_2008 - 24 December 2009 at 10:08am

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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 10:37am | IP Logged
Originally posted by karandel_2008

Originally posted by _LalithaJanaki_

Originally posted by karandel_2008

Originally posted by _LalithaJanaki_

Originally posted by -JONAKI-

I will never omit my religion for marriage for anything.The reasons behind this:
 
1)It's a sin.
2)My parents would die.
3)I won't omit my personal beleifs,wishes,independence for marriage.
4)Marriage is not important than my religion,independence and life.
 
This is my POV.I don't have any problem with people omitting religion for marriage.
 
Agree with you; I wouldn't necessarily say my parents would die, because they're not like that, but they would be disappointed in me and I hate doing anything which disappoints them. I'm willing to sacrifice my own happiness if need be. I don't believe in gratifying the self above others.
 
And yes, it is a sin as well.


What if parents agree and are happy about it? Talking in general and not related to anyone.
 
If parents agree then how would it be going against religion? My religion says that marriage which goes against parents is a sin, so if parents are happy about it then the marriage wouldn't be a sin would it?


ok thanks for the clarification.

It makes me wonder that when we become parents then should we think about the "happiness" of the society or of our children.
 
Happiness of Children...
 
However, some parents honestly do think that their children will be happier if they marry into the same religion, and many if not most of the time, they are right.
 
I'm not talking about the parents forcing their children aspect, because I know my parents will never force me to do anything I don't like, and parents who really love their children will never force them to do anything against the wishes of their children either. I'm just talking about the the duty of children. If the children know their parents will be hurt by them marrying out of their caste or religion, then they should forget about their love before it even reaches their parents.
 
That's just my opinion.
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Posted: 24 December 2009 at 10:50am | IP Logged
For a thing like mrriage I will never change my beleifs.My beleifs,faith are not that weak.

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